Every woman is different so here are my criteria (not counting the obvious reason that I am here)
Here is a typical response for me at a nigh club.
Physical attracters
1) Social status no offense but you must be able to pull of being upper middle class. Guys I am 40 but I look 25 and usually get carded and some of you young pups that look like your homeless do not stand a chance pull up your baggy-ass pants please. (Yes I know I will be flamed)
2) Looking physically fit no beer guts, slim and attractive, you do not have to be muscular
3) Able to laugh at your self
4) Confident but not cocky it has been discussed
These are all items I will notice before we meet.
Conversation
1) Intelligent almost a polymath (if you have to look it up you arent him)
2) Able to switch topics with ease, conversant about a variety of items
3) Looks me in the eye when we speak but glances at me when my eyes are in a different direction. (THIS is IMPORTANT Dont talk to my boobs talk to me look at my boobs when I am not looking at you.)
Still at the Club
1) Im slightly naughty and like to flirt, sometimes I want you to be a little possessive and other times it cramps my style, play it by ear.
2) Dont aggressively grind on me, start slowly and see how I respond, if I want more than you will know. Do not touch my privates until I touch you or place your hand on them.
3) Dont get Drunk.
4) If we start to kiss NO TONGUE, unless I give it to you, be sensual. The more sensual you are the more likely I will FUCK YOUR BRAINS OUT.
5) If we have kissed, this does not let you fondle me or grind the shit out of me, let me make the moves or let your moves be just a little bit above mine. Dont try to steal third when you are one first okay.
6) Dont hype it up with your buds that you are going to get me this is a definite losing strategy.
Gentleman manners (getting to take me home and sleep with me)
1) Open the door, even my car door (hello dont men get this be a prince charming)
2) Do not invite yourself in, if you do hasta la vista baby.
3) Let me call the shots at the house; invite you in, drink, etc.
4) This is touchy, but if we are going to have sex do not ask about a condom, I will bring it up. If I am comfortable with you than I dont want one and if you mention it, it will make me wonder. HOWEVER, if you are suspicious than USE one.
Any other questions?