I have started a new thread about male sexual behaviour because this is actually what my previous thread "Gay and Ungay promiscuity" was really about. I have changed the title because I have a much better understanding of the question now and because the term promiscuity is too loaded with moral judgements. The premise is that male sexual behaviour within a gay lifestyle is a truer repesentation of male sexual behaviour than male sexual behaviour within a Het lifestyle. I put this forward for discussion for several reasons. As Tygrr so rightly points out, "a guy is a guy is a guy........" Two gay guys are more likely to come to the sex table with the same agendas. Het guys have a normalcy that they are expected to adhere to which gay guy's do not. Though there must be those who are trying to enforce one - please resist at all costs. Het guys have to express their sexual behaviour with women, and women are not only not guys with different biological considerations, but also carry a different set of cultural expectation baggage as to "acceptable nice girl" behaviour. I would also suggest that this may be another reason why the guardians of our moral bondage don't like (fear perhaps) the gay lifestyle. They don't like sexually liberated Het men and women either - and there are some of us.