Is there really a problem finding one in the usa?
I've been in the "dollhouse" in hamburg, germany once. Three girls and myself, and the dancer had no problem with me beeing a gay man. I pulled dollars out of his thong with my mouth, he lifted me up, fliped me around and all. Was fun and he did not seem to have a problem with it at all. He does it for the money anyway, no matter where it cones from, i guess.