Male virgins around here?

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Wonderboy said:
I feel a long post coming...

I'm 20 years old, straight, and male. I lost my virginity when I was 19, to a fat (we're talkin...184lb) chick. Mad for cock she may have been, and wetness-wise and dirty-talk wise it was the best sex of my life. But I regret how far I stooped in that misadventure. I met her on the internet too, in a sex chatroom.


Darn!

I was just going to tell Nomad, to ask "Wonderboy" how "Knight" lost his virginity! :(
Oh well, thanks for sharing it with us Knight, err, Wonderboy.:biggrin1::tongue:
 

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I lost my virginity when I was just about to turn 15. Looking back, it would have been better if I had a few more years under my belt. Because my body developed faster people thought my mind did as well. I was a boy fucking women and while it felt good physically, it drained me emotionally.
The pressure to fuck and be sexual in circle jerks was great in high school. I hope it has lightened up for guys today.
Jake
 

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Wonderboy is to be complimented for sharing his trials and tribulations as regarding the conquest of the female species.

Everyone has his or her own story to tell. Will we take the words of someone else and adhere to their recommendations or avoid their pitfalls? Some will, and then some will not.

Regarding myself, of who I can speak with authority, I was a sexual intercourse virgin until my first marriage at age 25.

Yes, I did understand the valid need to self pleasure. I knew how to masturbate very well. I decided to save myself for marriage. I, to this day believe, did the correct thing. Would I do my life over and remain a virgin until marriage? Yes!!!!!!!

I never did believe the "Grow Hair on my Palm if I jacked off too much."
 

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dongalong said:
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Learn some pick-up tricks in this free site!:cool:
Hey, everyone I'm new. I've read that site, it's really quite interesting how they break it down. I'm RAFC(Recovering Average frustrated chump).
Dongalong, you said you learned all the moves before you got into bed, any tips on that(sorry, if not threadrelated).

Also, 19 and am like you guys. Done other stuff but not any intercourse. I think the main thing is just to be happy with yourself and not obsess over sex too much. Confidence is a great aphrodesiac(sp?).
 

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26 and still a virgin over here.

But I haven't really done the right things. Which sucks, because once you get my age and you're still a virgin, your standards start to slip..... I'm no longer "waiting for the right person", I just want to get laid, goddam it.
 

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A 55 y/o guy here. I was virgin until my 24th. At the age of 16 I was with a girl that wanted sex with me and God knows it was the only thing I could think of. It had nothing to do with love it was just sex from both sides. We were both totally inexperienced and a little drunk. I was cumming before she was ready to take me in. I could not get it hard for a second time. I felt embarrassed after that. She told all her friends that I have a big dick and that I came too quick.
Eight years later I had super sex. It was my first time to penetrate and we both lost virginity. It was worth waiting that long, but I wished it had come on my path earlier. For years I’ve been afraid of making the same "mistake".
It made that I avoided many times to have sex at a younger age. I realized that it was more that I wanted to get laid.


What I want to say is that there is no special age for the first time. The only thing is that the older you get the more you are afraid of doing it wrong. Men don’t tell easily that they are still virgin when they have passed 20. Chapeau for all the guys here who are honest about this.


A few years ago I had my first m2m sex experience. Again I had to deal with virginity. "Anal" this time. I wish I had lost that virginity many years earlier.​
 

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I am in a strong relationship of two years and have never had sex with my gf. i have a 6.5" flaccid cock and she has seen it but no urge
 

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Hey there, no worries

I first had sex when I was 19. I'm 22 now and in the past 3 years I guess that I'v had sex on average 2 times a week.

So all is not lost.. ur turn will come sooner or later

Don't wait till ur 30ies though :smile:
 

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hi. im a virgin. im 20 yrs old. only had one girlfriend wen i was 17 and we were together for 3 months and she wouldnt have sex with me, just a few hand jobs, and eventually broke up with me. i always thought it was cos my dick was to small for her and has only been recently ive found out im a little over average and have started getteing the small dick mentality out of my head. but yeah since then i havnt really looked for another chick, had a couple of blowjobs from another girl who was just a friend and who sed it was big, but didnt belive her. im happy just to have a wank till i find the right chick, and whack off about twice aday :p.
anyway, thats my sob story, lol would like to lose the big V but its not really a big deal.
 

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I'm not a virgin anymore, but I had never kissed a girl until I was 17. My advice is simple: forget about it. It's not a big deal.

If you're at all like I am (which may very well not be the case), you don't want sex, you want a girl who loves you. Sex will come, but you cannot think of girls in terms of sex. Think of them as friends, because that is how they will get to know you. For me, sex was never a goal; it's something special that happens between two people who care about one another.

Of course, you might actually just want lots of sex. In that case, I'm out of my league...but good luck to you anyway. :tongue:
 

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I was a real late bloomer. I didn't even start puberty til I was 17. Had to take shots to get that part started. 12 weeks later the shots stopped and I was about 1/2 the way through it. At 19 or 20, I was dancing (Ballroom Style) with an older woman that divorced/seperated recently. One night after dancing she tried to have sex with me in her car. I was soo freeked out that my entire body was shaking (Like it's 20 degrees out and your in shorts and a t-shirt) and wasn't able to stop shaking for almost the entire drive home, which was about 30 miles. Nothing really happened except for touching. I actually lost my virginity at the age of 27 with another dance partner that I wish I hadn't had sex with. Less than a year later she devistated me by breaking up with me and forgetting to tell me and finding a new BF. I found out seeing him feel her up under the table at a resturant. It was BAD!! That's basically when I gave up on women and started to explore my gay side. I lost my anal virginity at the age of 29 to a wonderful teacher who broke me in very gentally and thuroughly (Spelling?) I have since been in 2 relationships with guys, one fucked me over pretty good and the other one was obsesive and posessive. Then I met a woman at Sea-Fair in Seattle and dated her for about 4 months before it died.

basically what I am saying is don't rush it. It will happen on it's own.

Craig
 

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danglybanger said:
here here,

Actively working to change it. But part of me is too lazy to really try and honestly kind of repulsed by the prospect. The rest of me however is really, really horny.

My dream is to die renowned throughout the world as the king of the virgins. Then by some chance mishap at the funeral, my cock will be revealed and the world will finally see what it was missing for all those years. My way of getting back at people :biggrin1:

The latter part of that fantasy involves having it mummified, and put on display in the Smithsonian (next to the wright flyer... I'll need a hangar that big) :tongue:

I'm 21 by the way

Slade

I'm still pulling for you to lose your cherry Slade, but those are awesome fantasies anyway.

re: OP: when I was your age I had had only one sexual partner, and after she and I broke up it was well over a year before I had another. I thought at that point I was 19 or so and my sexlife was only going to go downhill from there, which depressed me a lot, but I was completely wrong. I've had several fulfilling sexual relationships over the years since then. Don't give up.

Also, my two best friends are both my age now (27) and both virgins. So don't feel like you're alone, either. I know watching movies and TV and talking to friends, often it seems like EVERYBODY out there is having a ton of sex. But this probably isn't as true as you think.

Finally, if this post was actually a veiled attempt at meeting women (I know I made some vaguely similar attempts with my original posts under a different account years ago: "I have this big penis, am a great guy, why can't I get laid?, boo hoo etc.")... well, it's possible to meet girls here. You'll probably need to become known first before someone trusts you enough to meet you, though, either by becoming an active poster on the boards or spending a lot of time in the chat room. But altogether there are a lot of better places out there to meet girls. This site is predominantly male. If, on the other hand, you're just looking for support or advice, you're in the right place.
 

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I found this thread and wanted to post, I am also very similar to the first poster, I am 20 Years old, I have never had a girlfriend, never even close, never kissed a girl, I am 20 years old and I went to alot of partys and had a good amount of friends, in highschool, i just never could find a girl that i could really relate to, i am 100% straight, i know alot of people say that you dont really know until you have tried both sides, i am very open minded but, since the apperance of females really attracts me, and i have never gotten excited from seeing another man i figure i dont need to really consider my sexuality as a factor.
I just find it stupid and imature how much emphasis is put on having sex, and I can stand how much some of my horndog friends talk about it.
Its funny to say, but I want to find the right lady for the emotional support and loving.
Am i wrong, but it seems to me it will be very hard to find the good girl i want that will be loyal and loving, in ths day and age, it seems there is so much 'impureness' in this world i just i also have wanted to avoid the stupid kiddie relationships that to find a 'pure' real partner want go on through middle school, and high school.
Even though i say this, i beleive i am still not old enough for a relationship, I have to much life ahead of me.
and i am not worried about having sex at all, i almost feel like it makes me stand out that much more... and dare i say it.... but i feel a little pride behind being a VIRGIN. and I am very much like abvavrg.
i just felt like writing this because i have rarely discussed this and it is refreshing to have somewhere to discuss it.
 
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What exactly is a virgin? No oral? No vaginal and/or no anal?
 

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Well, I always considered being a virgin as never having anal or vaginal sex, I convinced myself that oral sex does not count in this situation because it is kind of an addition to sex, then again, you can also, theoretically, count the number of times you have anal/vaginal and oral sex and count that just like most people count the number of times they have had 'sex', which I presume to mean either anal or vaginal insertion.
 

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abvavrg said:
I'm not a virgin anymore, but I had never kissed a girl until I was 17. My advice is simple: forget about it. It's not a big deal.

If you're at all like I am (which may very well not be the case), you don't want sex, you want a girl who loves you. Sex will come, but you cannot think of girls in terms of sex. Think of them as friends, because that is how they will get to know you. For me, sex was never a goal; it's something special that happens between two people who care about one another.

Of course, you might actually just want lots of sex. In that case, I'm out of my league...but good luck to you anyway. :tongue:

that's the most wonderful advice i've read so far.