Man Law 101 on Massages?

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Glutes, hammys, "loins", the best best best. All suck tender areas and needing attention.

I have a therapist accidently touch my junk when reaching across or something.

My erections come and go. Just depends. One thing I do know is drop the underware and get comfortable.
 

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Tons of great stories on the thread linked below man...you will soon realize your question really is the first, and then the fun begins...go naked, get hard, get rubbed...the boundaries are not always clear. You will discover that lots of us get massaged from non-RMT types of practitioners. Personally I find someone with RMT training , but who might not be licensed, and is integrating other modalities is often the best masseur.

http://www.lpsg.org/204554-any-new-massage-stories.html
 

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Ok. I def felt awkward after the fact but he seemed kewl. I just wasn't sure if all the crotch contact was part of the territory or if it was just me. Either way, i'm think I'm gonna stick with dude...I just wanted some input before I booked another appointment...lol. Do you fellas usually go nude or wear briefs? Don't know if I would be that comfortable but seems standard....

I agree that guys do a much better deap tissue massage and they are less shy about nudity, so you win sticking with him! I also agree that you should go naked under the sheet so when he does your glutes (this is where all the tightness in the back comes from!) he can move the sheet and get it done right. I've had lots of stretching done as well and the sheet may slide or fall, but who cares. I've even had some MTs do all the stretches w/ no draping so you need to be a bit of an exhibitionist when that happens!!!

If the bumping was accidental then the next massage should be no different, but if he did any of it on purpose then you naked next time should get him doing a VERY nice massage on you!! Let us all know how it goes...
 

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Tons of great stories on the thread linked below man...you will soon realize your question really is the first, and then the fun begins...go naked, get hard, get rubbed...the boundaries are not always clear. You will discover that lots of us get massaged from non-RMT types of practitioners. Personally I find someone with RMT training , but who might not be licensed, and is integrating other modalities is often the best masseur.

http://www.lpsg.org/204554-any-new-massage-stories.html

I hear you man. Im good sticking with RMT's for now but thanks for the link....some good stories in there!
 

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I agree that guys do a much better deap tissue massage and they are less shy about nudity, so you win sticking with him! I also agree that you should go naked under the sheet so when he does your glutes (this is where all the tightness in the back comes from!) he can move the sheet and get it done right. I've had lots of stretching done as well and the sheet may slide or fall, but who cares. I've even had some MTs do all the stretches w/ no draping so you need to be a bit of an exhibitionist when that happens!!!

If the bumping was accidental then the next massage should be no different, but if he did any of it on purpose then you naked next time should get him doing a VERY nice massage on you!! Let us all know how it goes...

Will def let you know how the next one goes dude. I hear you on the glutes...see alot of folks saying the same thing...just gotta get past that nude mental block..
 

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If you're having trouble with L5, it's probably worth your while seeing a chiropracter or osteopath too. Ideally, have the massage first, then the manipulation.
 

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My last massage was by a guy who started off in a small swimsuit. While massaging me in the nude, he touched me with his cock bulge and I left my hand on the table so he had to touch it while he worked on me. After a short time, I asked him if he would mind me gently touching his body as he worked, he said that he did not mind. I immediately got hard and he worked me thoroughly and when I turned over he admired my cock and gently rubbed it with both hands. After he finished, he lay on top of me and we rubbed our bodies and cocks against each other. I have regular massages with him.
 

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LOL! Your legs were up in the air and in all kinds of positions so that he could go beat off as soon as you left and he would have those in his memory!!
 

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My last massage was by a guy who started off in a small swimsuit. While massaging me in the nude, he touched me with his cock bulge and I left my hand on the table so he had to touch it while he worked on me. After a short time, I asked him if he would mind me gently touching his body as he worked, he said that he did not mind. I immediately got hard and he worked me thoroughly and when I turned over he admired my cock and gently rubbed it with both hands. After he finished, he lay on top of me and we rubbed our bodies and cocks against each other. I have regular massages with him.

see, THIS is the kind of thing that would most likely NEVER happen at a place like massage envy. i've gotten lots of massages at those higher end franchise massage places, and i'm assuming nothing inappropriate ever goes on there. although if anyone has stories from those kinds of place or tips on how to get shit going, i'd love to hear about it! ;)
 

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Welcome and thanks for posting. I think you're getting advice from two different directions here. 1) How to get the best kind of massage for the issue you're having and 2) How to explore your bi-curiosity through massage. It sounds like you'd like this guy to go a step further with the second one?
Assuming that's what you're actually asking (sounds like your boner is at least asking that question!) I'd say just pay attention to the vibe in the air. If there is some mutual sexual tension, you can feel it if you're observant. If you're on your back again without the briefs this time, rock hard, he will definitely let you know if taking another step is a possibility. Just keep in mind that if it's a professional massage center, there's only so much he can do without being at risk of losing his job. If you were doing private massage from an independent therapist, it would be a different story.
 

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Will def let you know how the next one goes dude. I hear you on the glutes...see alot of folks saying the same thing...just gotta get past that nude mental block..

Assuming that pic is you, you should not be 1 bit shy about getting naked in front of ANYONE!!! Your chest looks amazing! Who ever sees you naked will be in for a treat I'm sure.
 

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see, THIS is the kind of thing that would most likely NEVER happen at a place like massage envy. i've gotten lots of massages at those higher end franchise massage places, and i'm assuming nothing inappropriate ever goes on there. although if anyone has stories from those kinds of place or tips on how to get shit going, i'd love to hear about it! ;)

That is exactly why I don't go to MassageEnvy or places like that. Independent MTs are the best!!
 

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Welcome and thanks for posting. I think you're getting advice from two different directions here. 1) How to get the best kind of massage for the issue you're having and 2) How to explore your bi-curiosity through massage. It sounds like you'd like this guy to go a step further with the second one?
Assuming that's what you're actually asking (sounds like your boner is at least asking that question!) I'd say just pay attention to the vibe in the air. If there is some mutual sexual tension, you can feel it if you're observant. If you're on your back again without the briefs this time, rock hard, he will definitely let you know if taking another step is a possibility. Just keep in mind that if it's a professional massage center, there's only so much he can do without being at risk of losing his job. If you were doing private massage from an independent therapist, it would be a different story.

Not looking for a happy ending pimp but def dont mind good massage. Guess it would be easier to relax if I knew where the dudes head is, ya know?
 

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Assuming that pic is you, you should not be 1 bit shy about getting naked in front of ANYONE!!! Your chest looks amazing! Who ever sees you naked will be in for a treat I'm sure.

Appreciate the comp man. I usually get the "these are all my hours" card after sessions with new therapist...lol.
 

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My first massage I got in a resort in D.R and I was in just a towel. I remmeber getting semi hard but didnt really care. I was there for the massage although a "happy ending" request was in my mind but I held back. Id say go nude is better and more comfy, hard or not who cares. Hes a dude so he will understand.
 

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My first massage I got in a resort in D.R and I was in just a towel. I remmeber getting semi hard but didnt really care. I was there for the massage although a "happy ending" request was in my mind but I held back. Id say go nude is better and more comfy, hard or not who cares. Hes a dude so he will understand.

I hear you man...
 

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I go to Massage Envy also and I use a man for my monthly sessions. I get the exact same type of work done, glutes, stretches, etc and I always go nude. I've gotten a few semi's but nothing to be embarrassed about. Used to wear boxer trunks and was actually told by the therapist that if I was comfortable with it, going nude would allow him to have more access to my muscles. It was kind of awkward the first time but after the first 10 minutes or so you don't think about it anymore. Hope you go for it man, it really is a better massage nude.
 

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I go to Massage Envy also and I use a man for my monthly sessions. I get the exact same type of work done, glutes, stretches, etc and I always go nude. I've gotten a few semi's but nothing to be embarrassed about. Used to wear boxer trunks and was actually told by the therapist that if I was comfortable with it, going nude would allow him to have more access to my muscles. It was kind of awkward the first time but after the first 10 minutes or so you don't think about it anymore. Hope you go for it man, it really is a better massage nude.

Gonna take ur advice and try tomm.