Man Law 101 on Massages?

D_Bob_Crotchitch

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I get massages on a regular basis. I have lower back injuries, neck/shoulder problems, and psoas troubles. I am nude but covered by a sheet. Nothing freaky happens. I get a lot of glute work. My muscles lock up in that area. I get abdominal work too. I don't get hard. They don't get hard. I feel better. No playing with my goods.
 

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well its been a few days, how did it go??!!

Aye dude, been busy as heck lately. But yeah I went ahead and did it man. Au natural...lol. It def took some getting used to initially, especially because every massage ive had at Massage Envy, I was covered by a sheet and "blanket". The guy(a different dude) only had a light sheet so it was kinda of uhhh....nippy? lol

Anyway, it was kewl. Think i was so focused on not getting hard that I was not as relaxed and didnt dig the massage as much. Plus dude stayed away from the glutes so that probably helped...lol. So yeah..non event. Have one this weekend so will try to go 2 for 2...

Oh, and the ass massager (previous dude) moved outta state...damn.
 
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Oh yeah? Can you talk more about the psoas technique?

Sure, the iliopsoas is a deep muscle of the lower abdominal area. It is a hip flexor. It is palipated by pressing firmly into the pelvis around where the wings of the hip bones are and down to just just above the pubic bone. One technique is to kinda grab onto the iliac crest and firmly press into the space behind the bone, the space in between the hip bone and the lower part of the 6 pack. With the right pressure and intensity, the emotional release can be intense!
 

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Aye dude, been busy as heck lately. But yeah I went ahead and did it man. Au natural...lol. It def took some getting used to initially, especially because every massage ive had at Massage Envy, I was covered by a sheet and "blanket". The guy(a different dude) only had a light sheet so it was kinda of uhhh....nippy? lol

Anyway, it was kewl. Think i was so focused on not getting hard that I was not as relaxed and didnt dig the massage as much. Plus dude stayed away from the glutes so that probably helped...lol. So yeah..non event. Have one this weekend so will try to go 2 for 2...

Oh, and the ass massager (previous dude) moved outta state...damn.

When you go back for the next, tell the new guy that you need glute work and that he can remove as much draping as necessary. This will let him know that you are not a prude and he can do what he needs to. I've had guys remove drapes completetly if I say that I don't need all the draping or am not concerned about being covered up!!
 

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Has anyone seen the report about the masseur who is suing John Travolta for making inappropriate gestures? I find it all too hard to believe really. If a masseur doesn't like what he's experiencing, he can end the session. In this case it went on and the guy got paid AND sued. In my experience, if I sense that the masseur is VERY professional including the draping and saying no when I say it's not necessary then I do absolutely nothing that might make him uncomfortable etc. Boners happen but stroking while the guy is doing your legs is inappropriate if you don't know who is working on you. I remember going to a guy regularly in Prague. Nothing ever happened but I did bone up. After one particular session I was laying on my back with my dick pointing to the ceiling and the masseur placed a hand towel on the bottom of the table and said, I'll let you clean up and walked out. I took it as "CLEAN UP" so I did. I rubbed one out and every time I went back he'd leave the towel and leave the room.
 

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Has anyone seen the report about the masseur who is suing John Travolta for making inappropriate gestures? I find it all too hard to believe really. If a masseur doesn't like what he's experiencing, he can end the session. In this case it went on and the guy got paid AND sued. In my experience, if I sense that the masseur is VERY professional including the draping and saying no when I say it's not necessary then I do absolutely nothing that might make him uncomfortable etc. Boners happen but stroking while the guy is doing your legs is inappropriate if you don't know who is working on you. I remember going to a guy regularly in Prague. Nothing ever happened but I did bone up. After one particular session I was laying on my back with my dick pointing to the ceiling and the masseur placed a hand towel on the bottom of the table and said, I'll let you clean up and walked out. I took it as "CLEAN UP" so I did. I rubbed one out and every time I went back he'd leave the towel and leave the room.

yea, pretty sad that the masseur decided to take a double payday then go out and let everyone know AND extort some money because he saw a payday.
 

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Got a massage today. Dude really knew what he was doing. Could tell by the questions he asked and how he tailored the massage, even after his initial pre massage evaluation.

2nd time stripping the boxer briefs and its been kewl, but then again, haven't had glutes worked like the first guy...lol. Either way, think I'll stick with it...it's def easier for them to do unrestricted hamstring/glute work. At one point dude complained about the sheets getting in the way but I let it go...lol. He def got some good stretches in and recommended a 90 minute session next time around so he could get more stretching in to address tightness from running. Got a little wood during the stretching but got it under control.

Will be back in 2 weeks.
 

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I always go nude and have gotten over getting hard - it happens. Sometimes w/ men, sometimes w/ women - I used to be really obsessed with not getting hard but I figured I couldnt be the first guy to get hard when his body is being massaged and stretched. Now, this is only when I travel so I could care less who sees me nude or hard. But I wouldnt stress it - love when I get a great deep tissue massage with stretching, and the thought of doing that with any clothes on is depressing.
 

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Hopefully you will get comfortable enough to be just the sheet over you. Glute work is amazing and they really can't do it well thru the sheet or shorts... I think the erection is a natural part of relaxing... i've had one of my therapist stretch me before as well... it's always good in a massage.
 

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Yeah, stretching is key for me. Def seeing the benefits of reg massages/stretches in my runs. I had one massage with just the sheet before and it was different...lol. But yeah, I'm def starting to get more comfortable with this thing.
 

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Got a massage today. Dude really knew what he was doing. Could tell by the questions he asked and how he tailored the massage, even after his initial pre massage evaluation.

2nd time stripping the boxer briefs and its been kewl, but then again, haven't had glutes worked like the first guy...lol. Either way, think I'll stick with it...it's def easier for them to do unrestricted hamstring/glute work. At one point dude complained about the sheets getting in the way but I let it go...lol. He def got some good stretches in and recommended a 90 minute session next time around so he could get more stretching in to address tightness from running. Got a little wood during the stretching but got it under control.

Will be back in 2 weeks.

So what happened with this massage not getting glute work in like the 1st guy? Just not as good?

Also, I think this guy telling you that the sheet getting in the way was him letting you know that he is cool with removing it either fully or for the area he is working. All you have to do is tell him you are cool with it also, and your massages will get WAY better!!!