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*rolls eyes*

It's one thing to look DISCRETELY, with RESPECT. It's another thing to stare with your tongue hanging out of your mouth, slapping your meat. I don't mind when someone looks at me, however there is a boundary about it. Something I've posted in other Pissing/urinal threads. Someone who actually tried to touch me, No way, not happening.

Makes me wonder, who's passing sanctimonious judgement now?

no, i understand completely, the only standards that matter are yours. as long as you're the one doing something people find offensive, it's allowed, otherwise it's shame on them and alert the authorities.

and i'd like to be there when you try to explain to the dude (who doesn't want you lookin at his junk, and catches you looking at his junk), that you were doing it discreetly and with respect.
 

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Amazing how people here contradict themselves. They talk about showering... they talk about doing it together, they talk until anything and everything becomes common,,, then someone get upset at a man at the urinal.
Today, one presidential candidate is accused of indecent actions with a woman and Penn State has alligations of child abuse.
Where are the boundries.
I do find interestting reading here....
 

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I think he thought he was gonna be the last on in the bathroom so he was just gonna rub one out before leaving so when you came in he got a better image to finish with. He was hard already he would have done it anyway could have just come in while he was finishing you were just an aid to speed up the process and if it bothered you then you could have went in a stall or just finish ignore him and leave. I mean I've encounterd things in the bathroom not as big as this but I just pretend I don't hear or see anything and leave.
 

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one would imagine that the standards which matter most are the law.


which is a greater threat to the community, an old man masturbating in a public toilet or a priest sexually abusing children for decades? The law condemns one and turns a blind eye to the other.

is that the law you're talking about?
 

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which is a greater threat to the community, an old man masturbating in a public toilet or a priest sexually abusing children for decades? The law condemns one and turns a blind eye to the other.

is that the law you're talking about?
as i said earlier, it's often a stepping stone crime.

you mistake the law for those who choose to (or not to) enforce it.
 

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which is a greater threat to the community, an old man masturbating in a public toilet or a priest sexually abusing children for decades? The law condemns one and turns a blind eye to the other.

is that the law you're talking about?
You mean the law that has convicted many priests for sexually abusing children and the law that has had ongoing investigations into so many of the dioceses? I think you would have a bigger/better bone to pick with the fact that they typically go unquestioned by anybody for a long period of time... hiding under the radar of the law... only until way later does one come forward with the accusation.
I think he thought he was gonna be the last on in the bathroom so he was just gonna rub one out before leaving so when you came in he got a better image to finish with. He was hard already he would have done it anyway could have just come in while he was finishing you were just an aid to speed up the process and if it bothered you then you could have went in a stall or just finish ignore him and leave. I mean I've encounterd things in the bathroom not as big as this but I just pretend I don't hear or see anything and leave.
Why didnt the old man do it into a stall? Why in hell would he do it at the urinal instead?
 

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Amazing how people here contradict themselves. They talk about showering... they talk about doing it together, they talk until anything and everything becomes common,,, then someone get upset at a man at the urinal.
Today, one presidential candidate is accused of indecent actions with a woman and Penn State has alligations of child abuse.
Where are the boundries.
I do find interestting reading here....

Well it's a sad state of affairs that the republican party is even considered a political party, they are insane.
 
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thanks for all responses, i'm noticing there is a pretty even balance between what is acceptable and what is not. I'm still firmly in the belief that a public urinal is not the place for masturbation.
 

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Has anyone else encountered this? What did you do?
I'm a live and let live guy. I don't care what other people do as long as they are not harming anyone. To me, having a wank at a urinal isn't harming anyone. I've seen men of all ages wank at a urinal in the mens room over the years. It doesn't offend me at all. Men get horny and need to get off. A stall would be more discreet, but for some guys it's the exhibitionist factor. I'm more amused by it than weirded out. If they get off on looking over at me, great. Never has any guy ever walked over to me where I felt threatened, and perhaps that's why I''m nonchalant.

To punch a guy or report him to the authorities for having a wank at a urinal? Really? To me that's overreacting big time. Just take your piss, wash your hands, and move on. I would have a different opinion if the guy tried to come on to you or approach you, but that wasn't the case.
 

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I'm a live and let live guy. I don't care what other people do as long as they are not harming anyone. To me, having a wank at a urinal isn't harming anyone. I've seen men of all ages wank at a urinal in the mens room over the years. It doesn't offend me at all. Men get horny and need to get off. A stall would be more discreet, but for some guys it's the exhibitionist factor. I'm more amused by it than weirded out. If they get off on looking over at me, great. Never has any guy ever walked over to me where I felt threatened, and perhaps that's why I''m nonchalant.

To punch a guy or report him to the authorities for having a wank at a urinal? Really? To me that's overreacting big time. Just take your piss, wash your hands, and move on. I would have a different opinion if the guy tried to come on to you or approach you, but that wasn't the case.


I agree completely! While I would never jack my big donkey dong off at the urinal (unless I was in a porno LOL or totally alone in the bathroom LOL), it is harmless (inappropriate at the most). I would be a bit more weirded out if he were to masturbate in public or around women, and very much so around children; but in front of a urinal in a place where men are all pulling out their dicks? Just ignore it and walk away. Yes, the man is a bit strange. That said, should he be harrassing others in the bathroom while jacking it, then it's time for the law to intervene.
 

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I agree completely! While I would never jack my big donkey dong off at the urinal (unless I was in a porno LOL or totally alone in the bathroom LOL), it is harmless (inappropriate at the most). I would be a bit more weirded out if he were to masturbate in public or around women, and very much so around children; but in front of a urinal in a place where men are all pulling out their dicks? Just ignore it and walk away. Yes, the man is a bit strange. That said, should he be harrassing others in the bathroom while jacking it, then it's time for the law to intervene.
why is it ok to upset men but not women...

here's a question: where do male abuse survivors go to piss?
 

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why is it ok to upset men but not women...

here's a question: where do male abuse survivors go to piss?

Perhaps young boys shouldn't go into public restrooms alone; they should be accompanied by an adult. There are loads of perverts out there!

If you're a boy who's been victimized by a man in a public restroom, I suppose therapy and time are the only healers.

All that said, if the man is just masturbating in front of a urinal in men's bathroom, provided he's not bothering anyone, I don't see where the big problem is (he may be a bit crazy and should be stayed away from).

Masturbating in public includes men, too!

It is more intimidating to be masturbating around women because men can easily overpower them (general sexual interplay is that women are passive, men are active).


With regard to young boys: well, if the man who is masturbating at the urinal is bothering children, it needs to be reported immediately to the police - no exceptions!
 

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F*&k it
If he needs a wank, let him wank,
Come on were all men and we all know what it is to be horny.
And even if he is looking for sex and looking at your cock doesnt mean he should be attacked.
IF you walked in and a woman was fingering herself looking to be fucked it would probably be different.
Some gay men are deeply supressed and this is the only way they know to find a sexual partner.
And also some (straight or gay) men just like to have a wank at a urinal.

LIBERATE YOURSELF
 

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F*&k it
If he needs a wank, let him wank,
Come on were all men and we all know what it is to be horny.
And even if he is looking for sex and looking at your cock doesnt mean he should be attacked.
IF you walked in and a woman was fingering herself looking to be fucked it would probably be different.
Some gay men are deeply supressed and this is the only way they know to find a sexual partner.
And also some (straight or gay) men just like to have a wank at a urinal.

LIBERATE YOURSELF


I agree with you - it would be harmless, and never should anyone be attacked for such an act (it is silly and cruel). That said, if there is harassment by the man masturbating, it must be stopped immediately - no excuses!
 

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Today as i finished work, i needed a leak after i'd left the store so i went to the public toilets in the shopping center, it was closing time so there was only one guy in there. The guy was an older gentleman at one urinal in a row of around 15 urinals. I picked one about 3 or 4 down from him. As i pulled out my todger and let my stream go, i noticed the man obviously staring at my piece from the corner of my eye, i then noticed his dick was hard and he was vigorously rubbing it. i got freaked out, so left.
Has anyone else encountered this? What did you do?
I find it particularly strange.

If it happened in a bar or club, I wouldn't think anything about it. I might even enjoy it. However, in a public restroom, where little boys might wander in, it would bother me. It would bother me a lot. I'd have to say something.
 

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no, i understand completely, the only standards that matter are yours. as long as you're the one doing something people find offensive, it's allowed, otherwise it's shame on them and alert the authorities.

and i'd like to be there when you try to explain to the dude (who doesn't want you lookin at his junk, and catches you looking at his junk), that you were doing it discreetly and with respect.

Word, TJ.
 

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I get the feeling some posters here are going to spending a lot of time in urinals when they get older :p

... and then there's a crackdown on that particular place and people who've been using it for "innocent" cruising lose a perfectly good place.

I'm not sure how innocent this really is. Imagine if there were no ladies and gents toilets and we all shared the same facilities. It probably wouldn't be uncommon for guys to try and catch a lady's attention with some inappropriate behavior and we may all be quick to say 'it happens, get used to it, this is the real world.' but like dolfette pointed out this may just be a stepping stone to something far more sinister. Men do get raped, and don't be quick to think he's too weak to over-power you so your safe because he may not be or he may have something to help with that.

I'm sure there are places where you can get away with some 'innocent' cruising but a toilet open to the general public isn't one of them. If that happened to me I'd leave him be, then immediately report him to any available security and go with them to make sure they get him.