Man-to-man sex: It's all about the power! Right?

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  1. ramwella

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    I am a full-fledged bi-sexual. I honestly enjoy having sex with men and women, but for different reasons. When I'm with a woman, it's more about pleasing her. I get more aroused watching her react to my techniques. When it comes to sex with a dude, for me, it's all about the power struggle-- stripping his masculinity for a little while.

    I started messing around with guys when I was a junior in college. He was a good friend and my roommate. Watching porn together, squirting contests and tag-teaming a girl is how we started out. Then it was wrestliing, jerking off, bjs, but that was just "okay" for me. I probably would have left guys alone if he and I had not gone any further.

    But then I fucked him, and his hole was like a Pandora's Box for me! I liked the way it felt, and my mind was having a total power trip! I still remember it: Him on his knees, grabbing onto the desk legs and chair, head in the cushion and my big dick halfway up his ass! I knew this guy's girlfriend, his teammates, even his family. But I was the only one in the world who saw him (6'3, 235# wrestler) in that position, getting power-fucked by another dude-- ME!!

    I don't get off on fucking a guy who already knows that he's a bottom. That's too easy. I like fucking a guy (an almost "str8" guy) who would never consider himself a bottom until I showed him. He's reluctant, very nervous. Thinking "Don't tell anyone!" And for the longest time, he's totally paranoid about what happened and about me having that power-- owning some private part of his masculinity (as it once was).

    For me, there's nothing better than showing a guy that he's got a "man-pussy"!

    Too twisted? Anyone guys understand?
     
  2. danerain

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    Okay, that made me hard
     
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    Sexual interactions between people can have millions of different motives. Yours seems a valid motive for a straight guy reconciling his feelings toward getting off on sticking his cock up a guys ass. The power exchange turns you on and this isn't uncommon at all. I get off on a little power exchange now and again, both submissively and through domination, depends on my mood. I'd call that an element of what I see as 'piggy sex'. Guys fucking guys for the sake of fucking guys. It's fuckin hot is what it is. But it's a small part of the spectrum gay sexuality.

    Hairyguy
     
  4. ramwella

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    I can respect that. Thanks for a different perspective.
     
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    Yes I welcome you to the Bisexual Community. I feel the same as you exactly.
     
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    Too bad it isn't a bigger part of the gay community.
     
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    I have to disagree. When my man and I have sex it is very loving. It has never been a power thing.

    I can will forget a time once when I was fucking him and he came while looking me straight in the eyes. I felt like I saw right through to his soul. It was the most incredible thing I have ever experienced.
     
  8. earllogjam

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    Full nelson submission fucking on the floor. Leave them begging. Leave them sore.

    Raw, violent, piggy, sweaty, nasty, salty, hair pulling. bites to the neck MAN to MAN anal sex.

    Yes. I understand.:smile:
     
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    Try a POWER BOTTOM.

    It's power in REVERSE.

    My ass let's you out when I say so!
     
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    One is the aggressor, one the submissive. The aggressor is not always the pitcher but is sometimes the catcher.
     
  11. MovingForward

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    ME too!!
     
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    bisexual here and like having a sense of dominance and power when fucking both sexes. But also a pussy cat if you rub me the right way in the right places.
     
  13. DC_DEEP

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    If that works for you, that's fine, I suppose. It almost sounds like a rape fantasy, though. So, I guess for me, it's not all about the power.
    That is one of the most revolting and disgusting terms/phrases I have ever heard.

    That phrase grosses me out almost as bad as "man-pussy."
     
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    The OP was hot, but this is the entry that made me hard. Wow.
     
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    I think is where straight guys get the idea that gay guys are after them. LoL
     
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    I agree with forties, I've had one or two moments like that with my BF... It's hard to describe the impact it has on you.

    Hairyguy
     
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    That is such a hot description, I wish more people were able to put their words like this. It would make understanding the impact and event had on someone much easier to understand for all of us who don't experience it that way.
     
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    For me and the bf it is a power thing. Many parts of our life, I have responsibility and obligation. Sex is different. I like the feeling of being completely under his control. giving him both the power and responsibility during sex. It's being able to completely trust your partner and simply let it happen. being totally submissive with the bf during sex has resulted in some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had.
     
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    jPerhaps it's the way you approach sex generally, but I confess I am very much put off by any talk of power in sex. Sex is the most intimate of human contacts and when you introduce the neotion of "letting another man know he has a "man pussy" and gloating over the discomfort afterwards by th one who has "been shown" you have reduced it all to a tawdry game. The ideal in any sexual reltionship ought to be a sense of satisfaction for both parties and a greater sense of unity for both. It is apparent to me that we will all have to be much more careful ot the language we use if we are ever going to achieve anything that approaches a healthy attitude toward sex generallyl There is, in my view, absolutely no place for the kind of abuse and degradation that is suggested in some of the posts.
     
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    I can certainly understand where you are coming from, but it goes too far for my personal sexual tastes. Much like you, I experimented with another guy in college. Your second paragraph was very similar to how it started for us. Yes, part of the excitement was being able to be rougher and aggressive, almost to the point of the two of us actually wrestling for dominance. Even our kisses were aggressive, and a tad competitive. However, it was never about stripping a guy of his masculinity. If anything, I found the bottom to be more masculine. It takes a real man to take a hard pounding and be willing to trust his partner like that.

    We both topped and bottomed for each other. Your third paragraph is very similar to what we would do when we would take turns bottoming and topping. I enjoyed reveling in his strength and power as a man when he would top me and he would when I topped. It was very dominant sex but without much of the humiliation you seem to build into it. Though, we did try out some humiliation. It didn't really do anything for me. He enjoyed it more than I. It spoiled the intimacy of it for me. Your fourth paragraph does nothing for me at all. To each his own, I suppose. But I do understand, at least, partly where you are coming from.
     
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