Man-to-man sex: It's all about the power! Right?

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When it comes to sex with a dude, for me, it's all about the power struggle-- stripping his masculinity for a little while.

Hmmm. Well, I don't consider myself bi, so maybe this is the difference, but I don't think that I would view sex with a man that way. Were I to do it, I think it'd be out of friendship or something, not out of a craving for power.

But then, if a guy's interest in sex with a man is based on power, and not sexual attraction, then is he really a bisexual, I wonder.
 

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Wow. Somebody's got some ISSUES.

If you don't ask, I won't tell.

:eek:
I'm not sure what you mean by that, but I think anyone who calls a man's ass "man-pussy" is the one with issues. Sounds a little self-loathing to me. Men do not have pussies. That's Basic Human Anatomy 101.
 

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It'ss not a power thing with me. I've knowlingly been bi since around 13 but i just love the difference between men and women. It's great knowing your giveing a female pleasure with your body but with men it's much more basic almost instinctive. The pleasure you get is the same but coming from different places and i find i can forget about having to try and just go with my feelings, letting my body take me on a journey.
 

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Psychologists at U. of Texas at Austin (see NY Times, July 31) have come up with 237 different reasons why people have sex. I wonder how many or how few of them have to do with "power." As for me, sex is always about love and pleasure, or just pleasure, not power.
 

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When it comes to sex with a dude, for me, it's all about the power struggle-- stripping his masculinity for a little while.

Too twisted? Anyone guys understand?

The only time I've even remotely thought about doing that is when guys I loved really betrayed me. They broke my heart.

It sounds too much to me like major personal issues with power, and control. If they are willing to do that with you, it's their business. I just don't get off on degrading anybody or making them feel less of a man. I feel like a bigger man because I am empowered to lift people up.


Now come on Doc, let's go play. I'll lift your legs up while we fool around.
 

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Full nelson submission fucking on the floor. Leave them begging. Leave them sore.

Raw, violent, piggy, sweaty, nasty, salty, hair pulling. bites to the neck MAN to MAN anal sex.

Yes. I understand.:smile:


OMG -- that is fucking hot considering the source (!)(!)(!)
 

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Not twisted, ramwella - but the power you think of when it comes to bud-to-bud sex isn't always ina one-way path.

I can definitely appreciate your stance, though - especially from a large-penis perspective.
There's a head-clouding rush of male phremone-flush in pinning down a guy with your tool - it's the yelp-surprise reaction when you push in far enough or to the hilt - :eek: - that's unique to us that plys the dominance trip. I know I definitely enjoy it when I find a big fella who can take me that deeply (when I'm lucky enough to find the big fella who'll LET me slam all the way down). I definitely enjoy it when I get to be the pinned-and-mounted submissive (as I'ma big fella that CAN take the slam all the way down), so I can appreciate the power of that wrestler-type coupling.

But I guess a bit opposite of you, as I prefer the power matched with mine - I don't see being submissive as necessarily being passive. I see it more in a football/rugby type format: two larger-than-average linebackers going head-to-head in aggression, to see who can go down deeper on the other furthest and longest. This is the ideal scenario for me, because I like to see if the big guy can go head-to-head to me in agressive sex- I've had the same scenario in three-ways as well, where me and another hung bear taking on a "power bottom"-type big fella, or me and another big bear agressively being tackled by a hung "power-top" type big fella to see who can hold out longest getting pinned (I've always liked this one best).

So there you go - wrestler-type power (overpowering and plow-pinning to the mat while the overpowered keeps yelping "Uncle" over and over again), and football/rubgy type power (going head-to-head deep-throat 69ing in competition to see who can come first, or hold out longest). Same power, different contact-sports.
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I am a full-fledged bi-sexual. I honestly enjoy having sex with men and women, but for different reasons. When I'm with a woman, it's more about pleasing her. I get more aroused watching her react to my techniques. When it comes to sex with a dude, for me, it's all about the power struggle-- stripping his masculinity for a little while.

I started messing around with guys when I was a junior in college. He was a good friend and my roommate. Watching porn together, squirting contests and tag-teaming a girl is how we started out. Then it was wrestliing, jerking off, bjs, but that was just "okay" for me. I probably would have left guys alone if he and I had not gone any further.

But then I fucked him, and his hole was like a Pandora's Box for me! I liked the way it felt, and my mind was having a total power trip! I still remember it: Him on his knees, grabbing onto the desk legs and chair, head in the cushion and my big dick halfway up his ass! I knew this guy's girlfriend, his teammates, even his family. But I was the only one in the world who saw him (6'3, 235# wrestler) in that position, getting power-fucked by another dude-- ME!!

I don't get off on fucking a guy who already knows that he's a bottom. That's too easy. I like fucking a guy (an almost "str8" guy) who would never consider himself a bottom until I showed him. He's reluctant, very nervous. Thinking "Don't tell anyone!" And for the longest time, he's totally paranoid about what happened and about me having that power-- owning some private part of his masculinity (as it once was).

For me, there's nothing better than showing a guy that he's got a "man-pussy"!

Too twisted? Anyone guys understand?

I'm pretty sure that you just became every nelly bottom on this site's newest and best wet dream. Its not twisted, its just a power thing like you said. You like being in control, and, in my opinion, you like going after a man's, and I use this term because I can't think of a better one, innocence. A man that never considered bottoming or anything like that before agrees to bottom for you and that just drives you wild, you like the challenge of getting a top to bottom and you love the fact that you will always be the first one to have fucked him and he will always remember that. At least that is my take on it :)
 

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That phrase grosses me out almost as bad as "man-pussy."


I think it's hot to tell a guy who is fucking me ..."work that pussy" it's just dirty talk in bed. Or even if a guy tells me he is going to fuck my pussy. HOT.

As far as your thread title. NO, it's not all about power. One guy asked me did I want him to (pretend) "rape" me. I said no thanks.
 

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I have to disagree. When my man and I have sex it is very loving. It has never been a power thing.

I can will forget a time once when I was fucking him and he came while looking me straight in the eyes. I felt like I saw right through to his soul. It was the most incredible thing I have ever experienced.


wow....that is incredibly hot and sweet at the same time.
 

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Sex with men can be definitely be a dominance thing with me. I feel the same way about sex with women too. It just depends on how I'm feeling at any given time. There's something very hot about exerting your dominance over another human being, but at the same time there's also something very hot about having someone else's dominance exerted upon you. Of course there's also something to be said for slow, tender, soul-merging love making. It probably has something to do with moon phases or something LOL
 

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I think it's hot to tell a guy who is fucking me ..."work that pussy" it's just dirty talk in bed. Or even if a guy tells me he is going to fuck my pussy. HOT.

As far as your thread title. NO, it's not all about power. One guy asked me did I want him to (pretend) "rape" me. I said no thanks.
:biggrin1: If that works for you, that's cool... but if I were fucking your ass and you said that, it would take me about 2 seconds to go limp. Now, if you were to say "work that ass..." it would be a much different story!