Man-to-man sex: It's all about the power! Right?

[gjorg]

Very few men are really bi-sexual. So enjoy,enjoy,enjoy!

 

[The Dragon]

Ramwella,
This really resonated with me., because this dynamic also happens
between males and females.

 

[UtahCock]

i used to fuck this guy from the states based here in london. exmilitary type. he LOVED talking about his ass as his pussy, cunt, or whatever. in fact, he'd be yelling about his pussy, not talking about it, while he was getting pounded. I thought it was hilarious - wonderful. totally different from the silent grunting you get from so many of my fellow brits in the sack. i told my friends: 'the great thing about fucking americans is that it's just like you're starring in a porn movie!' i don't know why people are so censorious.

Not all Americans are like your friend. I would say there are just as may quiet sex guys on this side of the pond.

 

[UtahCock]

I am a full-fledged bi-sexual. I honestly enjoy having sex with men and women, but for different reasons. When I'm with a woman, it's more about pleasing her. I get more aroused watching her react to my techniques. When it comes to sex with a dude, for me, it's all about the power struggle-- stripping his masculinity for a little while.

I started messing around with guys when I was a junior in college. He was a good friend and my roommate. Watching porn together, squirting contests and tag-teaming a girl is how we started out. Then it was wrestliing, jerking off, bjs, but that was just "okay" for me. I probably would have left guys alone if he and I had not gone any further.

But then I fucked him, and his hole was like a Pandora's Box for me! I liked the way it felt, and my mind was having a total power trip! I still remember it: Him on his knees, grabbing onto the desk legs and chair, head in the cushion and my big dick halfway up his ass! I knew this guy's girlfriend, his teammates, even his family. But I was the only one in the world who saw him (6'3, 235# wrestler) in that position, getting power-fucked by another dude-- ME!!

I don't get off on fucking a guy who already knows that he's a bottom. That's too easy. I like fucking a guy (an almost "str8" guy) who would never consider himself a bottom until I showed him. He's reluctant, very nervous. Thinking "Don't tell anyone!" And for the longest time, he's totally paranoid about what happened and about me having that power-- owning some private part of his masculinity (as it once was).

For me, there's nothing better than showing a guy that he's got a "man-pussy"!

Too twisted? Anyone guys understand?

I dont understand why everyone is pretty much high fiving this guy. I find this approach to sex rather unsettling. THse motivations seem to come from an unhealthy place. Just my opinion. I know alot of people will disagree. ITs just seems like this stems from some issues about masculinity and self and dominance.

I am bi too and have always strived for a relationship of equals. I love sex wiht both men and women. I am a top and for me, I dont get turned unless i know the other person is enjoying themselves. THAT make sme hot to think I am giving the other person ppleasure. But I do not like forcing myself ont others. KNowing i am thicker than most I am actually prety concerned about thurting my partner. And one of thebiggest turn offs for me is when a guy begs me to rape his ass. To make him my bitch. It is jsut such a turnf off for me.

But hey thatsm e. Like I said, i am sure a lot of poeple will disagree.

 

[The Dragon]

As a petite woman with a penchant for tall, physically powerful men,
I find their raw power conflicting.
Their sheer physical size and strenght satisfies the "part" of my sexuality that is switch/submissive and yeilding...but then it, at other times seems to throw down the gauntlet to my switch/dominant-aggessive "parts".
At these times the need to subjugate and dominate "him" is very strong.
The juxtaposition of petite femininity dominating such raw physical masculinity is a huge rush.
Dragonfly

 

[cgttown]

Hmmmm...I found the original post unsettling at best. I concur with what a few have said here that this sounds twisted and somewhat sadistic. Now, I understand that S&M is a sexual taste for some, but this guy is talking about "vanilla" sex that is all about dominance, power, and force. That just doesn't do it for me.

I do enjoy sex with both genders, though I self identify as primarily straight. Sex with guys is totally different than with women for me. Frankly, with another guy I can concentrate more on my own pleasure than with a woman. With women, I'm very attentive to their needs. Actually, this just came to me that when I do have m2m sex, I'm a total top, and by far the bottoms I've been with are generally those who get off on giving a top pleasure and gettin him off. I think that's what I like about the sex--I get to be the focus.

Wow, um, this post just really got me thinking about a lot of things and why I pursue what I do. I need to think about this some...

 

[TitanicJake]

I think what can turn people on is fucking someone who feels conflicted at the time. It's like they are thinking "this is wrong this is wrong" with "I can't believe I like this!" It is the shock as they would NEVER have EVER thought of themselves in that position. Some have begged me to stop and I go to pull out and when the tip of my cock is about to come out they would say "Wait" and we would be perfectly still for a few moments. Just hard breaths and feeling their pulse rapidly beating. I would start massaging their body with my hands. 9 times out of 10 they say "Just fuck me" "Keep going" and that is such an amazing turn on for me.

 

[ndkid]

i thought this was hot. we all have different things that turn us on. this is just his thing. he shouldn't be condemned for it. it wasn't rape, it was consentual!

 

[dhsdad]

I am a full-fledged bi-sexual. I honestly enjoy having sex with men and women, but for different reasons. When I'm with a woman, it's more about pleasing her. I get more aroused watching her react to my techniques. When it comes to sex with a dude, for me, it's all about the power struggle-- stripping his masculinity for a little while.

I started messing around with guys when I was a junior in college. He was a good friend and my roommate. Watching porn together, squirting contests and tag-teaming a girl is how we started out. Then it was wrestliing, jerking off, bjs, but that was just "okay" for me. I probably would have left guys alone if he and I had not gone any further.

But then I fucked him, and his hole was like a Pandora's Box for me! I liked the way it felt, and my mind was having a total power trip! I still remember it: Him on his knees, grabbing onto the desk legs and chair, head in the cushion and my big dick halfway up his ass! I knew this guy's girlfriend, his teammates, even his family. But I was the only one in the world who saw him (6'3, 235# wrestler) in that position, getting power-fucked by another dude-- ME!!

I don't get off on fucking a guy who already knows that he's a bottom. That's too easy. I like fucking a guy (an almost "str8" guy) who would never consider himself a bottom until I showed him. He's reluctant, very nervous. Thinking "Don't tell anyone!" And for the longest time, he's totally paranoid about what happened and about me having that power-- owning some private part of his masculinity (as it once was).

For me, there's nothing better than showing a guy that he's got a "man-pussy"!

Too twisted? Anyone guys understand?

You're funny. I think it can be about power. I had a very similar experience in college..and it was my junior year also. It was not about power for us, but I can relate to bring out the bitch in man. Secretly, it tickled me to fuck football players and soccer players,etc. Men who were in frats and were generally the alpha men on campus. Screaming and all when I fucked them like whores.

Don't get into that much these days..but ah...the memories.

 

[dhsdad]

Hmmmm...I found the original post unsettling at best. I concur with what a few have said here that this sounds twisted and somewhat sadistic. Now, I understand that S&M is a sexual taste for some, but this guy is talking about "vanilla" sex that is all about dominance, power, and force. That just doesn't do it for me.

I do enjoy sex with both genders, though I self identify as primarily straight. Sex with guys is totally different than with women for me. Frankly, with another guy I can concentrate more on my own pleasure than with a woman. With women, I'm very attentive to their needs. Actually, this just came to me that when I do have m2m sex, I'm a total top, and by far the bottoms I've been with are generally those who get off on giving a top pleasure and gettin him off. I think that's what I like about the sex--I get to be the focus.

Wow, um, this post just really got me thinking about a lot of things and why I pursue what I do. I need to think about this some...

I agree with this, when I used to fuck guys..it was all about me. I did not care about there needs, etc. With chicks..you have to take care of them..and that's cool too!!

Just different.

 

[Hellboy0]

Lots of different view points here.

What really gets me going when I'm with a guy, is the process of revving him up. To listen to someone starting to lose control of his inhibitions, to watch his body responding almost instinctively is one of THE biggest turn ons for me. I guess you could call it a power trip: I'm the one pulling the strings and they're asking for more. And this can happen on either the 'receiving' or the 'giving' end of things.

It's great when I can find someone else who feels the same, who's ready to be just as uninhibited, nasty, powerful, and raw...and isn't afraid to take control, too.

I don't think this is an exclusively man-on-man experience. My lady friends feel the same, that power and control in a sexual relationship (one night stand, fuck buddy, long-time partners) is not a bad thing, but is constantly negotiated.

 

[moderateman8,5"]

hah. very intresting opinion. as a 100% straight man I can't really relate. I only give it up to my girl.. She is so beautiful and sensual.. When we make love, it's all about passion, love and gentleness.. Never about power, eventhough I know that i can and i have beat and submitted a fellow mma guy that weighed 300 lbs and was pure muscle. His technique on the other hand was lacking.. Sometimes she wants me to really just TAKE her and submit her.. It's quite rare though.. I just love to look into her beautiful brown eyes and show her how much i really love her by giving her multiple orgasms.. mentally and physically.. That's just my two cents.. sorry for the offtopic

 

[dickthrobbing]

For me, there's nothing better than showing a guy that he's got a "man-pussy"!

Too twisted? Anyone guys understand?

Not twisted at all

The bit about showing the other guy also works for me in reverse.

I have come to realising or even accepting my bi sexuality only recently, sex for me with a female is more passionate and is still my main turn on but there is something in the inner mental power of sex with another guy especially if its supervised by someone else to date this supervision has only been by a woman but my next step is for the supervision by a guy

 

[sjcgymrat]

Yeah, you nailed it. Read my new member post about how I got into big dick. I was on the losing end of the situation you describe, and the knowledge that the other dude totally had be by the balls WITH PICS of what I did for him was both terrifying and intensely erotic.

 

[D_Circumcisus Skinless]

I don't know how I fit in this discussion, but just about everyone, Female and Male(in such cases) want me to beat them up Sexually with my Dick, I do get a thrill out of it, but it does puzzle me sometime as to why!, I like to start out slow and build up to the Teeth rattling end, I'm a very Passionate dude and sometimes it....well most likely all the times, Manifest by becoming beast like when I'm about to Nutt, check me out then you'll kind of see why!

 

[At.your.cervix]

I think man-to-man sex needs to involve some lubricant as well.

 

[lopo2000]

As mentiones by some posters, having sex, homsexually or heterosexually, have different motives. Even in straight sex, there's lusty sex, there's romantic sex, there's rapist kind of sex...As well as in gay sex, we have one night stand, we have loving sex, we have lusty sex...I guess all these motives can be applicable to all kinds of relationships there are...

 

[Brensta]

Sex with a guy for me definitely involves a power trip. I like having to give up my control in a situation and replace it with trust

 

[lopo2000]

Sex with a guy for me definitely involves a power trip. I like having to give up my control in a situation and replace it with trust

A nice different angle of viewing it...

 

[TomCat84]

I think the OP just has what he likes. As for me, being a bottom, sometimes I feel like a nut and sometimes I don't. But make no mistake- even if the top is dominating me, it's only pretending. The bottom is ALWAYS in charge.