Man's dick is his pride?

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hmm,i dunno if it was discussed in other threads but i just wanna ask you guys..do you think the bigger your penis the bigger your ego/pride like in sex,in satisfaction or in comaparing with other buds?how confident are you with your size?


well,i could say that im confident with my size..when it comes to sex,i always want my gurl to be satisfied though sometimes im not fully satisfied..i dunno,its just that i want to please her and ill be disappointed if she didnt enjoy it..do you guys feel it that way?

Yes, your dick size is your pride. You can take pride in the size of your penis and would be respected by your friends. And also if you have a big penis, you can make a girl reach her climax easily.
 

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all i know is that i'd rather be a tall guy with a small cock. if your tall, u get pussy. if you're short and hung, nobody wants to see it :(
 

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The range of opinions in this thread are nothing short of amazing.

I notice that it's mostly average or smaller guys who think big penis= pride.
Most of the bigger than average guys are indifferent.

I have also heard the height vs success with ladies thing before. It's the same way. Some agree that tall is better, and some dispute it. I'm not short but I never get any, so...
 

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I think it makes a difference. Like fallingwater and viking are saying you don't know the difference because that's the way it's always been. It's like being attractive or unattractive. You won't know the difference unless you are attractive and become disfigured in an accident or some other tragedy.
 

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It seems to me that some people are confuting pride with self-esteem. Certainly a big dick is something one can be proud of, just as one could be proud of being tall, or good looking, or athletic, or rich, or educated, or smart, or any other personal characteristic.

But basing one's self-esteem on such a characteristic is ludicrous. Self-esteem is the knowledge that one is sufficient to life -- confidence that whatever life throws at you, you will be able to deal with it. How on earth is a big penis, or any other surface characteristic, going to give you this?
 

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It seems to me that some people are confuting pride with self-esteem. Certainly a big dick is something one can be proud of, just as one could be proud of being tall, or good looking, or athletic, or rich, or educated, or smart, or any other personal characteristic.

But basing one's self-esteem on such a characteristic is ludicrous. Self-esteem is the knowledge that one is sufficient to life -- confidence that whatever life throws at you, you will be able to deal with it. How on earth is a big penis, or any other surface characteristic, going to give you this?

I think you are right. Self-esteem is a good thing, and almost necessary to get through life. Pride can be a very bad, even dangerous thing.
 

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The range of opinions in this thread are nothing short of amazing.

I notice that it's mostly average or smaller guys who think big penis= pride.
Most of the bigger than average guys are indifferent.

I have also heard the height vs success with ladies thing before. It's the same way. Some agree that tall is better, and some dispute it. I'm not short but I never get any, so...

I think the reason the bigger than average guys are indifferent is that they live it. So they know it doesn't necessarily equal pride. This is kind of like my incessant whining about having small breasts - the busty women often don't care about them, but I would think if I was busty, I'd be showing it off all over the place! I guess it's just when you don't have something that you want, you think it must be really great to have that. I also think this about rich people, but rich people are not always so happy, either. (But then again, I'd like to find out how "miserable" it is to be filthy rich, too! :biggrin1: )
 

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What a lot of truth and good sense has been written in this thread about a topic that rings bells for most of us. It would be boring for me to try to add anything more that was significantly original. My dick is a good size, and I suppose I just enjoy it! I enjoy the look, the size, the feel - but then I probably would if it were a 'standard' of around 6". As to 'comparing' it with others and getting some kind of 'pride' from that - honestly, I've never thought about it. Even so, I'm still envious of the 10-inchers !
 

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I know this thread has just about died out, but I wanted to add that, while I try to avoid being "cocky", two women in the last couple years have commented that my confidence (and their lack of ability to manipulate me, which was stated explicitly by one and implied by the other) was probably due to my large penis.
 

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hmm,i dunno if it was discussed in other threads but i just wanna ask you guys..do you think the bigger your penis the bigger your ego/pride like in sex,in satisfaction or in comaparing with other buds?how confident are you with your size?


well,i could say that im confident with my size..when it comes to sex,i always want my gurl to be satisfied though sometimes im not fully satisfied..i dunno,its just that i want to please her and ill be disappointed if she didnt enjoy it..do you guys feel it that way?


my penis does not define who I am..there is more to a relationship than sex...you sound like a very shallow person
 

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im definitely concious of my penis. It gives me pride, even though I dont really bring it up with anyone. gives me an edge over some guys...i can think to myself "my penis is larger than yours" ..if i need to for some reason hehe
 

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I find pride in my own penis, but more pride in my own strength. Not just physical, but real mental and intellectual strength aswell. Some guy may have a bigger cock then me, but that's not going to help him when he's knocked out or been proven wrong is it?
 

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as far as i am concerned the size of my phalus is a personal thing, but not what gives me pride or confidence in a relationship... there is a shit short old "64" year old White man i work with that has a verified 10ish inches and he is on his 5th marriage and its shakey at best... a "big dick", wont keep a relationship, nor will it make a man more secure... to me what makes me feel more secure is how i deal with people every day, pride in my people, and what i accomplish in my life...
 
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Simply, the guys with huge dicks who brag about them and walk around "cocky" (no pun intended), obviously have nothing else going for them. That means intelligence, wit, charm, or talents, because their entire course of action revolves around the means to an end that their penis is huge so they must be worthy.

The huge guys who DON'T, realize they have something special to give the world rather than a larger than normal organ for urinating and reproduction.