I am pretty new here and not sure if this is the place to pour my guts out, but why not? Its the internet, anything goes. Here is the jist of it. I love my husband very much who is 15 years my senior, 48. We get along great, hes sweet, hes caring, a great dad to our baby, however, our sex life is so bad it is getting to the point I want to cheat, and even leave him at times. I come here to look at other guys because he just does not do it for me. In my past, I NEVER, I mean NEVER had trouble satisfying a man. I was told how great I was many times and how I gave the best head too. I have tried EVERYTHING with him. He just is not very sexual. I have read books on how to satisfy him and he lays there like a slug. The only thing that really seems to stand out is when I give him head but when I have sex with him, it barely lasts and the only working postion is me on top which I get so sick of. Maybe its his weight that effects it? We have used viagra and while it does help , I hate how old-fashioned he is in the sack. I always ask him what he likes best and I always hear 'everything you do is good my love.' I want him to talk dirty he never does. I have tried sexy panties and he only says 'underwear is just underwear'. I was really in the mood tonight and he lasted I think less than a minute before he lost his hard on. Our insurance no longer covers viagra and we can't afford to pay it out of pocket. I love him with all my heart, its just that I am a very sexual person and I have needs that need to be met and I can't see the rest of my life this way. Any suggestions?