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Inwood: Well golly, every one's been so nice except for that unfortunate cap locks finger problem.
Gig, I don't hate you. I like reading your posts. Just a comment or three. He's only said he'll support the amendment. As to states being considerate of other states. While state's are required to recognize as lawful other states laws they aren't required to consider other states when making their laws. If they were Florida probably wouldn't have the bankruptcy laws which allow people to shield millions of dollars from creditors.
I don't see how it's any more shitty for 4 guys to make a decision about gay marriage then it is for one man to make a decision about draging the country into war. But no matter what either of our opinions are about those decisions, in both cases, those same men are empowered by the relevent consititutions to make those types of decisions.
As to taking baby steps. It's always easier to tell someone else to wait on their full rights while you have your own. Cases in point, slavery-yes I know old news but still it's there, women voting, interracial marriage-egads. In each case, there were predictions that our world as we knew it would go to hell if those things changed. They did and it didn't.
Those were just some items to maybe consider. Personally, I'm not that interested in the marriage debate right now. I know I started the thread. I think there are more important things in the world to deal with and I'll leave the heavy lifting to others right now. Would I marry another man? I would have married my first companion if the option had been available. But I think of marriage as being a very serious undertaking and is not something to be entered into lightly.
Mr. Grantstephens, in regards to genetics, uh...men are men and women are women being scientifically proven...well, not exactly. There was an article recently that it's been found out that there are a lot of women who are men and vice versa. One of the cases they talked about was a woman who is visually and, if you cut her open, internally all woman. However, if you take a genetic sample, she's all man. And apparently this is a lot more common then had been known. I think the story was either on the CNN site or in the New York Times paper. It appears that what seems so self evident, sometimes isn't.
As to it being a civil rights issue perhaps your right. Maybe a better term would be it's a human rights issue. That gets the UN involved and makes it more international in scope.
Again this has been a great piece of response. Not too much dissing of other opinions. More a statement of what you feel about the issue with a little commentary/critique on the side which was what I hoped to get. Thanks so much.
Gig, I don't hate you. I like reading your posts. Just a comment or three. He's only said he'll support the amendment. As to states being considerate of other states. While state's are required to recognize as lawful other states laws they aren't required to consider other states when making their laws. If they were Florida probably wouldn't have the bankruptcy laws which allow people to shield millions of dollars from creditors.
I don't see how it's any more shitty for 4 guys to make a decision about gay marriage then it is for one man to make a decision about draging the country into war. But no matter what either of our opinions are about those decisions, in both cases, those same men are empowered by the relevent consititutions to make those types of decisions.
As to taking baby steps. It's always easier to tell someone else to wait on their full rights while you have your own. Cases in point, slavery-yes I know old news but still it's there, women voting, interracial marriage-egads. In each case, there were predictions that our world as we knew it would go to hell if those things changed. They did and it didn't.
Those were just some items to maybe consider. Personally, I'm not that interested in the marriage debate right now. I know I started the thread. I think there are more important things in the world to deal with and I'll leave the heavy lifting to others right now. Would I marry another man? I would have married my first companion if the option had been available. But I think of marriage as being a very serious undertaking and is not something to be entered into lightly.
Mr. Grantstephens, in regards to genetics, uh...men are men and women are women being scientifically proven...well, not exactly. There was an article recently that it's been found out that there are a lot of women who are men and vice versa. One of the cases they talked about was a woman who is visually and, if you cut her open, internally all woman. However, if you take a genetic sample, she's all man. And apparently this is a lot more common then had been known. I think the story was either on the CNN site or in the New York Times paper. It appears that what seems so self evident, sometimes isn't.
As to it being a civil rights issue perhaps your right. Maybe a better term would be it's a human rights issue. That gets the UN involved and makes it more international in scope.
Again this has been a great piece of response. Not too much dissing of other opinions. More a statement of what you feel about the issue with a little commentary/critique on the side which was what I hoped to get. Thanks so much.