Is it worth it? I almost got married once. I'm glad I didn't. Over the past 6 years I've learned a lot from married couples. Most of what I have learned is negative. It seems like you sacrifice so much just for someone to love for a few years and then get a dirty messy hate filled divorce. I've always wanted to get married and have some kids. But now I don't want to ever get married. I've held on to my "dream" for a long time and now I don't want it whatsoever. But there is one exception. There is one girl who I think I could. She is completely unlike any other woman I've ever met. But she never wants to get married and she's had that belief for many years. What are your thoughts? What does it take to actually make it worth it?