Married and bi.. with an urge to gay sex

SilverSoldier

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1. Leave your wife unless you've been in an open relationship all of those 12 years. It's not fair to her, unless you're okay with her cheating on you.

2. If you want to stay married, then try to stop cheating. If she finds out, she may leave you, which may make you happy and relieved that you didn't dump her.

3. See a therapist. You could be a sex addict or on the road to becoming one. It sounds like you're out of control, and getting more extreme or you wouldn't be posting about it.


I absolutely agree with the above. This is NOT all about you. You made commitments with another person who has feelings, and when she finds, unless she is a huge exception, your life is shit buster.

I SO disagree with using people and you are a user in this case. You need to come clean or get some counseling. Either way, you are going to be one sorry dude if you claim any love for your wife.

For what it's worth.