Married And Choosing Condoms As Your Method Of Contraception

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Is there anyone else here that is in a long term relationship or married have chosen condoms to be there method of contraception? I’ve been with my wife now for over 10 years and from day one, apart from a handful of times we experimented with pulling out, we have always had protected sex. She had tried the pill and other forms of contraception before we met and never took to any of them, but was willing to try again for me, but we chose to stick with condoms.
 
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Other forms of contraception made her sick so condoms were the only form on birth control short of surgery that would work....her pussy was too good to pull out
Absolutely our story! Sometimes I am a bit too quick to cum to pull out, and after an accident which mean she needed a morning after pill she said condoms are a must
 

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Absolutely our story! Sometimes I am a bit too quick to cum to pull out, and after an accident which mean she needed a morning after pill she said condoms are a must

How much do you like it when you pull out compared to when you wear a condom?

If it makes a big difference then the snip (if you aren’t planning a family) or maybe the coil or cap?
 
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How much do you like it when you pull out compared to when you wear a condom?

If it makes a big difference then the snip (if you aren’t planning a family) or maybe the coil or cap?
I’d rather wear a condom than pull out.
Cool and cap are a no from my wife. Too much hassle and a bit to invasive for her. Her first choice is condoms. We don’t want kids, and she has mentioned that even if I get the snip she hates the mess of unprotected sex, so condoms are the most sensible option. 10 years of not knowing any different, this is just how sex feels for me now, and I kind of like it
 

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I’d rather wear a condom than pull out.
Cool and cap are a no from my wife. Too much hassle and a bit to invasive for her. Her first choice is condoms. We don’t want kids, and she has mentioned that even if I get the snip she hates the mess of unprotected sex, so condoms are the most sensible option. 10 years of not knowing any different, this is just how sex feels for me now, and I kind of like it

I was more thinking how do you like it before you pull out. If it isn’t a big thing wearing a condom then go for it.

Getting the snip too would be a lot more reliable though, and try the thinnest condoms you can get.
 
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I was more thinking how do you like it before you pull out. If it isn’t a big thing wearing a condom then go for it.

Getting the snip too would be a lot more reliable though, and try the thinnest condoms you can get.
Getting the snip isn’t for me. I’d rather not and keep with the condoms
 
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We used condoms for many years. She has a copper IUD in now and she was the one that prompted me to stop using condoms. Different scenario here, but she actually prefers it raw and doesn’t mind the cum as long as I don’t pull out and finish on her. It’s either in the vagina or on myself if I am about to cum as far as she’s concerned.
 

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My ex husband and I used NFP plus condoms in the danger zone.
No pregnancies (this was before Plan B and the like were easily accessible).
However, I was never assured, and any late period was an uneasy time.
If a couple is positive they don’t want biological kids, one or both should be sterilized.
Next best option is the iud if hormonal bc is off the table.
 

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Sex with a condom is just not as good for me or most people. The mess after is kinda the fun part to. if I was faced with such a dilemma as you are going through, I would go for the snip job.

Plan B would be to invest in ulta-thin condoms. I think Japan produces some of the thinnest condoms in the world. You get as close as you can to skin on skin.
 

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I pulled out for about 5-6 yrs until we decided to have a kid. Shortly after she wanted a tubal ligation, but we used condoms in the interim instead. I definitely remember a negative effect to the quality and intensity of sex, but also being happy about the quantity, as it seemed to uptick.
 

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We used condoms for some years and then the snip. IUCD produced a pregnancy and the pill produced dodgy side-effects (Modern pills are less of a problem) Tried cap year ago...what a fiddle-about for her. I Iiked condoms
 
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We used condoms for some years and then the snip. IUCD produced a pregnancy and the pill produced dodgy side-effects (Modern pills are less of a problem) Tried cap year ago...what a fiddle-about for her. I Iiked condoms
Glad to see I’m not the only one that likes condoms :)
 
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