Married And Masturbating

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Something I haven't talked to other men about much is masturbation after marriage. We all go solo every now and them but I'm curious if your masturbation habits changed much after you got married. In the first year or two did your frequency diminish, stay about the same or increase? I don't mean as a part of partnered sex, but rather just that personal need or private pleasure. To put it another way, does having regular pussy handy reduce your need or desire to jerk off?
 

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Sex with my wife every night (generally speaking) and twice each Saturday and Sunday (general speaking). I still seem to find time to masturbate daily with plenty left for my wife.

My wife used to masturbate twice a day until she met me. Now she does it once a year, at most.
 

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To put it another way, does having regular pussy handy reduce your need or desire to jerk off?

I'm not married, but I'm seeing someone regularly for a few months now. I'm usually a beat it twice a day kinda guy... but with him, seeing him a couple times a week? I really can't be bothered, because the sex is so good. I jerk off solo maybe once a week these days.
 

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No. I like sex much more than my wife does. Over the years, sex has decreased drastically, so masturbating has increased. I’m in my 50s, but I still need to bust a nut daily.

That’s exactly what happens to most couples I think.
 
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Something I haven't talked to other men about much is masturbation after marriage. We all go solo every now and them but I'm curious if your masturbation habits changed much after you got married. In the first year or two did your frequency diminish, stay about the same or increase? I don't mean as a part of partnered sex, but rather just that personal need or private pleasure. To put it another way, does having regular pussy handy reduce your need or desire to jerk off?
Your desire to jerk off exponentially increases the longer you are married. Also, your skill increases as well.
 

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Late 50's and wife and I have much less (if any) sex for many reasons (mostly medical on her part)--she never gets horny....and as a guy, we get horny at the drop of a hat ..... so, I watch alot of porn and just take care of things that way. We have been together for over 30 years, and you can't expect the same level of passion/excitement as when the other person is scarce (when you date you only see each other for a few hours/days if lucky)-- once you cohabitant you find that life makes you put things off (I'm tired, etc)- Not in a bad way, just in a comfortable way.

And even when we were more active...I still jacked off alot. XXX porn has different/unique/ new stimulation.
 

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Since my 9 years of life I masturbate regularly, I started in 1954. So far, I have been about 27595 times masturbating in it is included a small number of sexual intercourse with women.
In 1974 I met my wife. With her I had more or less sexual contact from 1974 to 1986, from which 2 boys were born. By the way, of course, I still had my masturbation since 1986, I masturbate only because I just like it better. I know that this is an impertinence for my wife and I'm grateful that she stayed with me until now. That my wife stays with me is the only reason I can imagine the masturbation to curb something.:)
 
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Since my 9 years of life I masturbate regularly, I started in 1954. So far, I have been about 27595 times masturbating in it is included a small number of sexual intercourse with women.
In 1974 I met my wife. With her I had more or less sexual contact from 1974 to 1986, from which 2 boys were born. By the way, of course, I still had my masturbation since 1986, I masturbate only because I just like it better. I know that this is an impertinence for my wife and I'm grateful that she stayed with me until now. That my wife stays with me is the only reason I can imagine the masturbation to curb something.:)
My late wife loved her sex but also like to masturbate me, sometimes she be sorting me out while her fingers were pleasuring her. After the kids when she went of sex she did for a while masturbate me, then preferred to watch me solo till I eventually just did it when I felt in the mood. Some wives like to masturbate their men, know their men masturbate and so demand less like for pussy poking.
With the current love of my life its sex to the fullest extent and masturbation at will.
 
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The number of times I jerk off is probably the same as when I was single, but the duration is way less.

I used to marathon edge for hours almost daily as a pass time. Now I am lucky if I can jerk for 15 mins in the morning after she goes to the gym and before my kids wake up.
 

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Something I haven't talked to other men about much is masturbation after marriage. We all go solo every now and them but I'm curious if your masturbation habits changed much after you got married. In the first year or two did your frequency diminish, stay about the same or increase? I don't mean as a part of partnered sex, but rather just that personal need or private pleasure. To put it another way, does having regular pussy handy reduce your need or desire to jerk off?
Fk ??!! I wish that
Married and regular pussy handy was true!!!
 
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I've been married for ten years and we dated for 5-6 years before that. My marriage and particularly my kids are motivation to avoid masturbating, but it isn't easy and I have often relapsed.
 

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I've been married for ten years and we dated for 5-6 years before that.

My wife and I co-habited pretty much from when we got together, though it was then over five years before we married. Before I met her and was single I generally masturbated once/day with odd days when it was more than once and odd days when I didn't do it at all. When I met her that changed to having sex most days, often twice, and only masturbating about once a week. Since then the sex has declined and I now masturbate more than I have sex, though it varies from one week to the next.

My marriage and particularly my kids are motivation to avoid masturbating, but it isn't easy and I have often relapsed.

I can understand wanting to prioritise sex with your wife over masturbation but not sure what to make of the kids being motivation not to do it. Certainly they can reduce the opportunity to masturbate, but no more than they reduce the opportunity to have sex.

Or did you mean when conceiving them? Certainly, for me, that is the only time I have been really disciplined about making sure everything I released went into her.
 
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I can understand wanting to prioritise sex with your wife over masturbation but not sure what to make of the kids being motivation not to do it. Certainly they can reduce the opportunity to masturbate, but no more than they reduce the opportunity to have sex.

I never caught my father masturbating. I certainly wouldn't want to put my kids through that.

Besides, parental internet controls don't well if you disable them out of your own addiction.