Married bi/curious male
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I told my wife in the heat of some sexy talking and playing. In hindsight not the best time. I should explain our history and then I will tell how it worked out.
We are high school sweethearts in the midwest, only ever had sex with each other. I had shared BJ's with a friend in JR high as we got older we stopped once we had meet our girlfriends, turned out to be our wife's. So as my wife and I got more willing to talk about fantasies I started to get back in ouch with my bi side. We got a few toys and I even had her start to use the dildo on my ass when I was in the mood. after a few years she would fuck me with a strapon. One night after many years she was pushing me to tell her a fantasy so I did. I told her that I was bi and that I wanted to have a bi MMF threesome with her. She got a bit upset and started thinking that I was going to leave her for a guy. I had to talk her down and drop it for some time. A few days or a week later she started asking more about it and within a few years we opened our relationship.
We are high school sweethearts in the midwest, only ever had sex with each other. I had shared BJ's with a friend in JR high as we got older we stopped once we had meet our girlfriends, turned out to be our wife's. So as my wife and I got more willing to talk about fantasies I started to get back in ouch with my bi side. We got a few toys and I even had her start to use the dildo on my ass when I was in the mood. after a few years she would fuck me with a strapon. One night after many years she was pushing me to tell her a fantasy so I did. I told her that I was bi and that I wanted to have a bi MMF threesome with her. She got a bit upset and started thinking that I was going to leave her for a guy. I had to talk her down and drop it for some time. A few days or a week later she started asking more about it and within a few years we opened our relationship.
I thoroughly understand , after my wife accepted the fact that I was Bi and eventually started playing with me when I was with a guy, our marriage became so comfortable and honest. We both ended up getting the type of sex that we had fantasized about. I have met several coujples here who are in the same situation, we all hang out together and we certainly have a lot of fun playing.
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Great to see such a positive report. Have others had a similar good response? Thanks for the post!
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there comes a point in the relationship that it is going past casual that I stat that I am bi-sexual, of course being openly out in the BDSM/Leather Community practically insures that any potential fem partner is going to be open to poly-sexuality
My girlfriend knows and We have 3ways 2 guys and her and she loves it as she has 2 guys pleasing her and I am able to watch her get fucked having mult-orgasms waiting my turn is such a fucking turn on for Me!! Bill
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I noticed the same thing. I don't want to be dishonest so I deleted my profile. Would be great to find a woman who understands.
I never shared it with my wife and we are now no longer together. I didn't have sex with men before I was married, not once unless you count adolescent jerking off with a buddy. Wasn't even curious until I checked out gay porn for the first time. She would not have understood at all. I didn't like sneaking around to be with a guy but after we stopped having sex all together I didn't feel guilty about it. Now I don't have that problem anymore but in my next relationship with a woman I want her to know. Better yet be cool with it and have MMF time together. Losing hope of finding unless someone has an idea.
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Women lie, lot of them will say its a turn-off then secretly admit they like the bi thing at least to some extent.
Finding one that is into it all would be ideal, but IMO I just keep it to myself. Women don't tell everything either.
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When i was dating girls, I found that generally speaking they weren't into it. They didnt care for me dressing as a girl or doing stuff with guys.
the girls who knew about the dressing and doing stuff with guys were pretty cool about it if they knew before we started dating. I think it was finding out after the fact that was the issue.
the girls who knew about the dressing and doing stuff with guys were pretty cool about it if they knew before we started dating. I think it was finding out after the fact that was the issue.
Yeah, I've been really careful about how I answer some questions, until this week. I have seen a few women answer yes/doesn't matter.....either none of them answered my message, or weren't my type/too far away.
OH yes...it was my first "real' girlfriend...lol, I remember that day. We were overseas for carnival, and they have the gay pride the day before.
And my girl trying to be really cute goes over to these dudes (at least she picked out the somewhat handsome ones) and tells them that my boyfriend is going to pull it out...lol. And so I head on over...and pulled it out...to her total astonishment. Her jaw really dropped out when I briefly engaged in a little swordplay. And briefly...as to avoid arrest.
Then she asked me a bunch of questions mostly out of curiosity...have you fucked guys in the ass? And I said yes, many times and it's very enjoyable. It completely blew her mind and she was shocked. Because It was difficult for her to understand. It took some time for her to grasp the idea and she eventually somewhat accepted the fact but be broke up for other reasons.
Later on I had a girlfriend who asked me straight out if I went both ways, and I told her yes. She thought I was joking until I showed her a bunch of photos of me boning a buddy of mine. And she said the pics were so hot, lol, and later admitted that she was bi curious and fully accepting of the fact. But eventually she didn't want to have a longer term relationship with someone who was bisexual. She wanted to have a partner who was straight, and married a good guy...not to long ago.
And my girl trying to be really cute goes over to these dudes (at least she picked out the somewhat handsome ones) and tells them that my boyfriend is going to pull it out...lol. And so I head on over...and pulled it out...to her total astonishment. Her jaw really dropped out when I briefly engaged in a little swordplay. And briefly...as to avoid arrest.
Then she asked me a bunch of questions mostly out of curiosity...have you fucked guys in the ass? And I said yes, many times and it's very enjoyable. It completely blew her mind and she was shocked. Because It was difficult for her to understand. It took some time for her to grasp the idea and she eventually somewhat accepted the fact but be broke up for other reasons.
Later on I had a girlfriend who asked me straight out if I went both ways, and I told her yes. She thought I was joking until I showed her a bunch of photos of me boning a buddy of mine. And she said the pics were so hot, lol, and later admitted that she was bi curious and fully accepting of the fact. But eventually she didn't want to have a longer term relationship with someone who was bisexual. She wanted to have a partner who was straight, and married a good guy...not to long ago.
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It really depends on the woman.
In my own admittedly limited experience, admitting bi inclinations to a woman is usually a relationship killer, but telling a guy you are bi is more often just a speed bump, if even that.
My 2 cents only, of course.
Good luck!
In my own admittedly limited experience, admitting bi inclinations to a woman is usually a relationship killer, but telling a guy you are bi is more often just a speed bump, if even that.
My 2 cents only, of course.
Good luck!
Thanks for the reply. The way things are right now, I want to continue on this trek. I love to suck cock and if losing my lady friend, then so be it. Cock is so much more exciting for me. Kissing and hugging guys is still off limits for me. I just love to kneels down, worship a nice cock and then spend time sucking and making love to it. I have learned to swallow and that is another great plus for me. I say I am Bi and hopefully that is what I am, I still want to suck a nice hot pussy.
I've found the same thing most of the posters have said. . Women find it a deal breaker most the time. . Which I don't understand. If you never cheat, then the women should know you are going to be with her and her only. It should not matter if you have been with guys in the past. . If a guy is dating another guy, there appears to be no issues with one of the guys being bisexual. .
Hi, I am very much into the Bi Lifestyle. Recently I joined a small group of Bisexual Married males and females. They have invited me to play with them and I am supposed to meet a Bi Lady this weekend at their Party. Looking forward to possibly hooking up with her for a continuing "relationship" I am finding out that many women enjoy watching a guy suck a cock. As one said to me, it is as much a "turnon" for women watching men have sex as men watching women have sex. Maybe things are starting to change, people are getting more aware of their inner secret desires.
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I was in the lifestyle before I met my current (second) wife. I had had a few MM oral experiences and enjoyed them, but I just considered myself curious. When I met my wife, I told her early in the relationship that I would never be monogamous. She had never had any lifestyle experience, but she'd always been bi-curious... Since then, we've been very active in the lifestyle together, and she's become bi-furious!
Regardless, most of our play in the first years were MFM threesomes and couples-play where there was no MM interaction. As we got to know one specific couple, he and I started playing together so we were a fully bi foursome. Since then, most of the threesomes that we've had have been MMF where the guy and I play and we both fuck her. She likes watching me with other guys and I love watching her fuck other guys.
We're both pretty much completely open to lifestyle and bi play with few limits.
Regardless, most of our play in the first years were MFM threesomes and couples-play where there was no MM interaction. As we got to know one specific couple, he and I started playing together so we were a fully bi foursome. Since then, most of the threesomes that we've had have been MMF where the guy and I play and we both fuck her. She likes watching me with other guys and I love watching her fuck other guys.
We're both pretty much completely open to lifestyle and bi play with few limits.
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