Anyone have any interesting lines or ways to break the ice? Any interesting stories besides, I met him online or in the sauna? I have a friend who is divorced with a live-in girlfriend and I suspect that he would love to walk the bi side. Back when he used to drink, our conversations ranged all over the place and I found him to be very liberal and open-minded when it came to sexuality. Unfortunately I never had the guts to say or suggest anything as I wasn't gutsy in my younger years. He has a hot tub and we used to take turns naked while we were partying including his girlfriend. We weren't walking around naked but used the shadows at night to get undressed and slide in and out between beers. One night, it was just he and I and I slid my shorts off and climbed in. After ten minutes, I noticed him in his bedroom getting undressed and he came out and quickly jumped into a very small hot tub. After a few minutes of drunken conversation, I stood up and sat on the edge and complained that I was getting hot. He instantly agreed and then sat on his side. I got a bit gutsy and gave my cock a few tugs and he brushed his a bit (don't think it was my imagination). We both slid back in and resumed conversation. He has an outdoor shower and he climbed out eventually and showered off and disappeared into the sliding door off his bedroom. I got out and showered and worked up a semi and while I was rinsing off, I turned and saw him standing there through the screen watching me as we talked some more. He was really drunk but he didn't take his eyes of me while I was drying off. At one point, I heard him mutter Geez! under his breath. Couldn't tell if he was in a stupor or if he was trying to "communicate" with me. And that was it. Since then, he has given up drinking so I guess we haven't been in one of those private, carefree modes in a long while. Stumped as to how to make something happen without scaring him off or changing our relationship. He would be the perfect safe, hung friend that I have been looking for. Any stories out there would be appreciated.