Married but a little bi-curious?

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If you are married or in a similar heterosexual connection, do you have sometimes bisexual interests?
 
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That's me, too. She knows about it, and we joke about having a threesome. Although, she would rather have another girl. I guess that makes her bi-curious, too.
 

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Been married several years, love my wife dearly, but always been fascinated by cock. And the curiosity is only getting stronger. It'd be great to find someone my age and circumstances to fool around with; I get occasional overwhelming desires to suck cock. Not sure why, as I've never done this before, but there it is.
 
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no. my interest is making my bigger than average cock even bigger. I will look at pics of big cocks, but don't want to have sex with the owner.
 

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It's the young men who post and insist they are 100% gay or 100% straight who I think should be a little less sure. I thought of myself as a pretty "regular" guy and in my early teens I suffered from erections when they were most inconvenient. By happy circumstance I bonded with a new guy in town who was my age. We had the privacy and we were uninhibited in that we did what came very naturally as we bonded in friendship. We embraced a side of our sexuality which we had not thought about before. Both of us are today happily married men yet very grateful for the loving relationship we had then and continue to have today. We are no longer sexual partners but the love remains.
I suspect that many married men have repressed the very idea that they could now or ever could have been sexually attracted to another man. Genuine male bonding in our society is too rare.
Many see this as being true because males have so feared being suspected of being gay that they do not form firm bonds with other men. Genuine male bonding does not necessarily involve sex.
"Don't knock it if you haven't tried it."
Today, I can hardly call myself curious; I know that I have been able to relate fully (sexually) with both men and women. I add that I have never cheated on any partner, male or female. And, I also admit that at a visceral level I can still be "stirred" by a sexually attractive man and also by a sexually attractive woman.
My hope is that more men and women will take the time and the opportunities to become more fully acquainted with their own complex sexuality.
 
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Corius...I couldn't agree with you more. As a gay man, I feel liberated from the sexual repression which coats our "100% straight" american society. It's too bad really. I feel bad for many straight people, those who do not have the courage to explore their inner sexual desires. [just as long as it involves consenting adults, it's all good]
 

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My story is almost line per line as CORIUS's.

I think those days of inhibited sexual male bonding made me a more attentive lover when I got married. Still have very strong urges today....
 

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Been married several years, love my wife dearly, but always been fascinated by cock. And the curiosity is only getting stronger. It'd be great to find someone my age and circumstances to fool around with; I get occasional overwhelming desires to suck cock. Not sure why, as I've never done this before, but there it is.



Couldn't have typed it better myself.

Anyone in Connecticut agree???
 

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Strong urges have developed as an adult to have sexual contact, primarily oral, with other males. Don't know where this came from. I finally have tried it when I found a married guy with similar feelings. We meet from time to time and play around a little. We primarily blow each other. Would like to find other guys but that is tricky. Any one in Idaho in a similar situation?
 

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Since I was in my teens, i've enjoyed wacking with friends from time to time. Even entered into mutual blow jobs with a couple of them in college, both whom are now married. I consider myself straight, but I don't have any hangups about same-sex sexual pleasures. I agree that the 100% straight or 100% gay are a minority and are on the fringes of the two ends of the scale. Most people fall somewhere in between.
 

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I'm kind of the opposite. I'm gay, and in a serious, commited relationship with my partner. But I've always had some curiousity about what having sex with a woman feels like. I've never done it, but it is something I think I'd like to do at some point.
 

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Been married several years, love my wife dearly, but always been fascinated by cock. And the curiosity is only getting stronger. It'd be great to find someone my age and circumstances to fool around with; I get occasional overwhelming desires to suck cock. Not sure why, as I've never done this before, but there it is.

+1 for me!