Hi everyone. I'm actually a very happily married woman who has recently started dating another man at the request of my husband. He has been interested in watching me with a "larger" guy for a few years. When he first brought it up, I was not at all pleased with the idea. But over the past two years, we've fantasized about it a lot when we're intimate and things have progressed to the point to where we found a guy we both liked. I've found this board on the advice of a girlfriend who was with a larger guy a while back. She said she received some good suggestions on ways to enjoy sex with her man more so that it wasn't so uncomfortable. While I haven't had intercourse yet with the guy I'm dating, I must say the idea scares me to death. He's huge. In fact, he's probably three inches longer and much, much thicker than any guy I've ever seen in real life. (Porn movies don't count :redface:. We have had oral sex and that was quite a challenge in itself. Still, I think he enjoyed himself with me. I know I enjoyed what he did to me.:smile: At any rate, thanks for kind welcome. Hoping to receive lots of advice on making this as pleasurable as possible for all involved. I'm going out with him again on Friday night and not sure where that will lead. We'll see.