Married/Divorced exploring with married buddy?

[bravesoldier]

Did you suck his too? How’d you guys compare in size?

Yes, I did suck his dick and he was an awesome size. He wasn't horse hung but he had one of the most beautiful, thick uncut cocks that ever slipped past my lips. I always remember the coloring of his head, which was a dark purplish-red. It was the hottest, smoothest cock and felt like wet glass in my mouth. His was the first cock I sucked when I thought I could become addicted to sucking cock. He wasn't overly long, I'd say about 6-6.5 in length and nicely thick. He and I were about the same size, only I was cut, which I always hated. I always wondered if I'd have inherited my Dad's foreskin length and sexy puckered hole at the tip if I'd not been circumcised. Man, he had a hot looking foreskin.

My bud was a married guy who had a hunting camp a good way from home and used the camp also to secretly suck cock. It was good while it lasted. He's getting around the age of 70 now and what I gathered the last time I talked to him, I think he's suffering from ED.

 

[Torontoguy411]

Man, got horned up reading that!

So hot you got to suck his uncut cock. I like hearing guys describe how they compare in size to their buddies like you did.

I take it you're into older guys?

HOw often did you get to see your dad's dink? Did he like to show it off to you when he was hard? Or you only see it soft.

Did you find out why you are cut and he's uncut?

 

[FrankieGuile]

Didn’t say/mean that at all. Just talking about my interpretation and experience.

Interesting that’s how you took what I said.

Thanks for the clarification. Then a guy can take no notice of other men (completely ignore them, in fact) and still maintain his confidence in his masculinity in your opinion. The question was raised because you seemed to go out of your way to equate confidence in one's masculinity with noticing another man's body in a way more than a straight dude normally would.

 

[farmfit]

Wondering if other guys explored their first guy experience with a close buddy who was married?

A few years ago I finalized my divorce (54 now), and up until that point had considered myself str8. Sure, I was confident enough in my masculinity to notice a good looking guy on the street, or admire a nice body and cock in the locker room, but I had never had the feelings of "I want to suck that man's dick". The most I had ever done was compare with a couple buddies, and while drunk let a guy blow me in university on a dare.

I went through a pretty nasty divorce with a bitter woman who could never take responsiblity for her role in breaking down the marriage. I had a couple close buddies who were amazing supports during my separation and moving into my own place. One of those guys was my best friend, a married dad, my age, and I've known him for 20 years. We did a lot of things together including travel going to the gym, going to sporting events, hanging out in each other's back yards, etc. His wife wasn't the nicest person, and I knew their relationship was pretty much roommates after their two sons moved out. He often made jokes about not getting sex at home at all, but that was almost a standard line from most married guys

One night at my new condo, we were hitting the vodka pretty hard, and my buddy kept bringing up the topic of sex and masturbation, and making comments about how much I must be jacking off now that I have my own place, and hanging out naked and enjoying being single. He kept asking about what porn I was watching and how often I was jacking off. Then he just blurted out "so how big is your dick?" He went on about how we've travelled together and gone to the gym but we've only seen each other soft. He said from what he's seen he assumed I'm longer and thicker than him. I said I hadn't measured in years, and wasn't sure, so he challenged me to compare with him.

I had been into the vodka enough to have my guard down, so I agreed, and we stripped, and jacked ourselves hard, and he put our dicks together and compared. Feeling my buddy's hand on my cock like that was electric - like super charged energy going through my cock while he compared them. Then he was visibly turned on even more when he discovered I was longer and thicker than him. By now both our precum was leaking all over his hand, and he kept looking up at my smiling and feeling us both up. He then pulled back a bit but didn't let go of my cock, and just kept stroking me. I couldn't resist any longer, and reached for his cock and stroked him as well. I could hardly believe I was doing this but moreso I couldn't believe how hard and turned on I was to be jacking my best friend's cock. I suggested we go to my bedroom, and we ended up on my bed stroking each other, and then I felt that almost forgotten feeling of a mouth on my cock, and I looked down and saw him sucking me. I was losing my mind, and eventually he pulled off, and I went right to his cock and put a penis in my mouth for the first time. It was amazing - I just did to his cock what I like having done to my own. He was moaning like a whore and holding my head as I blew him.

That night we blew each other, showered together, and he crashed at my place in my bed and we slept together naked. In the morning we woke up and blew each other again. I didn't feel any remorse at all and didn't regret anything that we did. He went back home later that morning, and we started texting and sending pics of our dicks back and forth.

We jacked and sucked often after that, and a couple months later I took his ass cherry and mounted that hot beefy dad ass of his. It was the tightest thing I have ever fucked.

We talked about what happened a couple days after the first time we did this, and confided to each other it was our first time ever being with a guy and how great it felt. We did this for 3 years including going away on "just us guys" weekends together and stayed naked the entire time at a cottage and fucked like rabbits.

Unfortunately his job took him to the UK last November, and that was the last time I got to suck his cock and fuck his amazing ass. We still text dick pics back and forth, but I miss that experience with him. I probably would never have tried it with a guy if I didn't trust him like that.

So, I wondered if any other guys had their first experience with guy sex in adulthood, and it was with a married buddy similar to my experience. Would really like to hear about how others made the leap to explore guy fun together.

The pic is my married buddy blowing me in a hotel room on a weekend away. Seeing his ass always makes me hard knowing I took his ass cherry and mine has been the only cock ever in there.

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Fuck yeah man! We need to see you tearing that ass up! I love seeing daddies fuck!

 

[Ferguson1727]

Let be buddy come fuck my ass

 

[chrisrobin]

Quick answer, YES and you'll probably find more men married to women looking for cock than single bi or gay men. Tons of them everywhere.

as I can attest to!

 

[Ben Tramer]

Wondering if other guys explored their first guy experience with a close buddy who was married?

A few years ago I finalized my divorce (54 now), and up until that point had considered myself str8. Sure, I was confident enough in my masculinity to notice a good looking guy on the street, or admire a nice body and cock in the locker room, but I had never had the feelings of "I want to suck that man's dick". The most I had ever done was compare with a couple buddies, and while drunk let a guy blow me in university on a dare.

I went through a pretty nasty divorce with a bitter woman who could never take responsiblity for her role in breaking down the marriage. I had a couple close buddies who were amazing supports during my separation and moving into my own place. One of those guys was my best friend, a married dad, my age, and I've known him for 20 years. We did a lot of things together including travel going to the gym, going to sporting events, hanging out in each other's back yards, etc. His wife wasn't the nicest person, and I knew their relationship was pretty much roommates after their two sons moved out. He often made jokes about not getting sex at home at all, but that was almost a standard line from most married guys

One night at my new condo, we were hitting the vodka pretty hard, and my buddy kept bringing up the topic of sex and masturbation, and making comments about how much I must be jacking off now that I have my own place, and hanging out naked and enjoying being single. He kept asking about what porn I was watching and how often I was jacking off. Then he just blurted out "so how big is your dick?" He went on about how we've travelled together and gone to the gym but we've only seen each other soft. He said from what he's seen he assumed I'm longer and thicker than him. I said I hadn't measured in years, and wasn't sure, so he challenged me to compare with him.

I had been into the vodka enough to have my guard down, so I agreed, and we stripped, and jacked ourselves hard, and he put our dicks together and compared. Feeling my buddy's hand on my cock like that was electric - like super charged energy going through my cock while he compared them. Then he was visibly turned on even more when he discovered I was longer and thicker than him. By now both our precum was leaking all over his hand, and he kept looking up at my smiling and feeling us both up. He then pulled back a bit but didn't let go of my cock, and just kept stroking me. I couldn't resist any longer, and reached for his cock and stroked him as well. I could hardly believe I was doing this but moreso I couldn't believe how hard and turned on I was to be jacking my best friend's cock. I suggested we go to my bedroom, and we ended up on my bed stroking each other, and then I felt that almost forgotten feeling of a mouth on my cock, and I looked down and saw him sucking me. I was losing my mind, and eventually he pulled off, and I went right to his cock and put a penis in my mouth for the first time. It was amazing - I just did to his cock what I like having done to my own. He was moaning like a whore and holding my head as I blew him.

That night we blew each other, showered together, and he crashed at my place in my bed and we slept together naked. In the morning we woke up and blew each other again. I didn't feel any remorse at all and didn't regret anything that we did. He went back home later that morning, and we started texting and sending pics of our dicks back and forth.

We jacked and sucked often after that, and a couple months later I took his ass cherry and mounted that hot beefy dad ass of his. It was the tightest thing I have ever fucked.

We talked about what happened a couple days after the first time we did this, and confided to each other it was our first time ever being with a guy and how great it felt. We did this for 3 years including going away on "just us guys" weekends together and stayed naked the entire time at a cottage and fucked like rabbits.

Unfortunately his job took him to the UK last November, and that was the last time I got to suck his cock and fuck his amazing ass. We still text dick pics back and forth, but I miss that experience with him. I probably would never have tried it with a guy if I didn't trust him like that.

So, I wondered if any other guys had their first experience with guy sex in adulthood, and it was with a married buddy similar to my experience. Would really like to hear about how others made the leap to explore guy fun together.

The pic is my married buddy blowing me in a hotel room on a weekend away. Seeing his ass always makes me hard knowing I took his ass cherry and mine has been the only cock ever in there.

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This is a beautiful story. Great account of two men enjoying the sexual tension and release that two horny men can experience together. I don’t think it necessarily means you are gay. I wish more men could just let their guard down and allow themselves to be sexually curious. I think in most instances like this, the curiosity leads to mutual masturbation and release without penetration or kissing. It’s the excitement of being horny, seeing another man aroused, and wanting to see what it looks like when the other shoots off.

 

[Ben Tramer]

Oh nice, I’m sure the full video was hot as hell

Most of the truckers I jerked off with on the interstate said they were straight or married but liked being horny with another dude. Their erections and fast, forceful ejaculations bore this out. Many came within seconds of stimulation and wanted to do it again soon.

 

[FrankieGuile]

This is a beautiful story. Great account of two men enjoying the sexual tension and release that two horny men can experience together. I don’t think it necessarily means you are gay. I wish more men could just let their guard down and allow themselves to be sexually curious. I think in most instances like this, the curiosity leads to mutual masturbation and release without penetration or kissing. It’s the excitement of being horny, seeing another man aroused, and wanting to see what it looks like when the other shoots off.

It is the very definition of gay; at least, it certainly isn't straight.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Quick answer, YES and you'll probably find more men married to women looking for cock than single bi or gay men. Tons of them everywhere.

Probably. But they are largely invisible

 

[Torontoguy411]

It is the very definition of gay; at least, it certainly isn't straight.

Says the guy who defines himself as half gay (50%). Not sure the value of your statement here guy.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Quick answer, YES and you'll probably find more men married to women looking for cock than single bi or gay men. Tons of them everywhere.

Probably. But they are largely

Had a married bud once who'd tell me stories about the women he'd fucked while he was sucking my dick and begging for my cum. Amazing how fluid sexuality is.

Yes I thought I was straight. Then I thought I wasn't.

 

[ManchesterTom]

I would say about 80% of the sexual encounters I’ve had has been with married men.

Your profile name implies working in an environment that is very macho and where almost every Male would be presumed 100% straight, which is obviously not the case.

 

[Ben Tramer]

I disagree. I think there is a shit ton of wiggle room within sexual preference and that everything is not always black and white. Why would it not be natural for many men to be curious sexually about other men? They have the same equipment and male evolutionary drive for sex with multiple partners and if anything they are curious as to how they compare size wise, how they ejaculate, etc. As a gay man, my not being sexually attracted to a woman in completely different from a straight man wanting to see what another man (an evolutionary competitive mate) looks like. Straight males are naturally wired to become aroused when they see another male aroused because it means a potential female partner is likely near and Mother Nature never wants an opportunity to procreate pass.

It is the very definition of gay; at least, it certainly isn't straight.

 

[Richard Licks]

I would say about 80% of the sexual encounters I’ve had has been with married men.

Forty percent I think.

 

[chrisrobin]

Most of the truckers I jerked off with on the interstate said they were straight or married but liked being horny with another dude. Their erections and fast, forceful ejaculations bore this out. Many came within seconds of stimulation and wanted to do it again soon.

I agree with you about truckers, most claim wives or girlfriends but enjoy the release of spunk with another guy. Get a rucker when he's been on the road a few hours and his cock rises hard and out it shoots - so I am usually aware and ready for the first time. After a couple of minutes they mostly want to go again and often more experimental rather than a need to shoot a load

 

[Ben Tramer]

I agree with you about truckers, most claim wives or girlfriends but enjoy the release of spunk with another guy. Get a rucker when he's been on the road a few hours and his cock rises hard and out it shoots - so I am usually aware and ready for the first time. After a couple of minutes they mostly want to go again and often more experimental rather than a need to shoot a load

I’ve had some really hot experiences on the road where we showed each other our erections through the window and pulled over down the road and I made them shoot their load all over themselves. Most seemed genuinely interested and turned on by me.

 

[Ben Tramer]

I agree with you about truckers, most claim wives or girlfriends but enjoy the release of spunk with another guy. Get a rucker when he's been on the road a few hours and his cock rises hard and out it shoots - so I am usually aware and ready for the first time. After a couple of minutes they mostly want to go again and often more experimental rather than a need to shoot a load

I’ve also watched truckers shoot their loads high enough in the air that I could see it shooting up while they were driving. That caused me to nearly wreck and made me immediately begin shooting all over the inside of my car.

 

[DukeMuscularBeetle]

This post is fantastic, so great to hear you were able to bond with your best friend in that way (although, a shame he's moved to the UK - but that could be a good thing for those of us over here )

I've found more straight, married friends are becoming more open as we're getting older. Some are downright flirty, others are pretty handsy, others enjoy just the physical contact with a best friend.

In fact, a married buddy and his family are visiting this weekend coming... there will be some teasing and contact I expect!

Also, that picture... wank material. lol.

 

[Ben Tramer]

This post is fantastic, so great to hear you were able to bond with your best friend in that way (although, a shame he's moved to the UK - but that could be a good thing for those of us over here )

I've found more straight, married friends are becoming more open as we're getting older. Some are downright flirty, others are pretty handsy, others enjoy just the physical contact with a best friend.

In fact, a married buddy and his family are visiting this weekend coming... there will be some teasing and contact I expect!

Also, that picture... wank material. lol.

The sexual tension between two straight men or between a gay man and a straight one can be beautiful. It’s pretty intense, not knowing how far it will go or where it will end up.