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Because here is the deal: my husband and I haven't had sex for 6 weeks now. When I start to talk to him about it, he is dismissive (don't want to further the conversation) and says "You are the one with an issue, I am fine".
Then, he voices that he tried to have sex the other day, but he wasn't feeling great, so he gave up. Detail: he very often doesn't feel great.
I asked him "that's ok, we can wait until you get horny." His response was puzzling: I don't know when will that happen, because historically, when I am horny you are tired and vice-versa. He said he doesn't have to be horny to be ok to have sex, he may get horny maybe later when it is happening.
This is such a devastation to me. His undertone indicates that we don't have sex because I don't know how to initiate and/or have the timing for it.
All the venting aside, HOW DO YOU, IN A +7 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, KEEP SEX ALIVE AND INTERESTING? DO YOU OFTEN COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER'S BODIES? ARE YOU STILL HORNY ABOUT EACH OTHER? IS SEX SCHEDULED AND PLANNED ALL THE TIME?
Please, help me out.
Then, he voices that he tried to have sex the other day, but he wasn't feeling great, so he gave up. Detail: he very often doesn't feel great.
I asked him "that's ok, we can wait until you get horny." His response was puzzling: I don't know when will that happen, because historically, when I am horny you are tired and vice-versa. He said he doesn't have to be horny to be ok to have sex, he may get horny maybe later when it is happening.
This is such a devastation to me. His undertone indicates that we don't have sex because I don't know how to initiate and/or have the timing for it.
All the venting aside, HOW DO YOU, IN A +7 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, KEEP SEX ALIVE AND INTERESTING? DO YOU OFTEN COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER'S BODIES? ARE YOU STILL HORNY ABOUT EACH OTHER? IS SEX SCHEDULED AND PLANNED ALL THE TIME?
Please, help me out.