Me and DaveyR have been together for 20 years and still love each other.
I know that's soppy but it;s true.
I think it's because we are best of friends as well as partners that we have lasted so long. we talk about everything together,little things, big things,how we feel, etc,etc.
Yes we see guys in the street and say "Oh my god' he's nice" but that's only nature but at the end of the day we respect each other!