1. How long have you been married?
31 years, together for 35 (we're 54 and change)
2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?
Maybe a week, but she is willing most days and encourages me to hit her up for just about any kind of sex in her sleep. Well, she's not asleep by the time things get going. Last time (Saturday) started with head and moved to excellent doggy style PIV. In fact, some of the best head she's given me and good other sex has been in the night like that. No daytime thoughts/worries to get in the way.
3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?
Two days. Yeah, Sunday morning.
4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?
I am truly ashamed to say once, yes, without my wife's permission, on a business trip, with a stripper when I was real lit, about 20 years ago, and it wasn't good. The only good part of the experience was that we used a condom. I've never told my wife because the potential damage to our relationship wasn't worth unloading my guilt over an act that was stupid, wasn't a good experience, was never going to happen again because it was completely not worth it, and that she'd never otherwise learn of.
5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?
Apart from the blowjob that one time, no. I've been tempted a few times, but the memory of the one time and the thought of hurting her by doing something without her permission (again) was more than enough to keep my dick in my pants.
All the stories about marriage killing sex life aren't true for most of the guys I know, though there certainly are plenty of sexless marriages out there, to the partners of which I express deepest condolences.
Yes, many women tend not to get the male sex drive. I've adopted the simile, it's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it. My wife's drive is way less than mine, esp. after menopause, but she remembers and accommodates me, for which I love her all the more. It helps that she knows I'll do anything she wants in bed and turn her into a thoughtless puddle when she orgasms from me going down on her (last time was Sunday morning

).