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1. How long have you been married?

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?
 
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1. 26 years

2. Day before yesterday.

3. Yesterday

4. Yes, but it was her idea.

5. Yes, but it was her idea.
 
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I'm married but gay, so these are my answers (regarding my husband):
1. Married 12 years, but together 33 years.
2. 22 years??? (there are medical/pain issues)
3. Never (he's not a bottom, and I wasn't either when he was capable).
4. Yes.
5. Yes.
 

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The two responses from men married to women totally throw me off my preconceived notions.
I hope more guys respond.
I think we probably all have a simular theory about why men, married and otherwise decide to seek sexual pleasure from other men.
I am straight, divorced, my cock wasn't touched by wife in the last half of our 10 year marriage. She was a cock sucking freak when we dated.
Women just do not understand. Now at 57 I've never touched or been touched by another dude but damn I'm ready.
 
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1. How long have you been married?

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?

1. Will be 35 years this year.

2. Five days ago.

3. Two days ago.

4. Yes, with her knowledge and consent.

5. Yes, with her knowledge and consent.
 

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1. How long have you been married?

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?


1. 23 years.
2. Never
3. 1 year, 2 months
4. Yes
5. No
 
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1. How long have you been married?

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?

1. 6.5 years
2. A couple months
3. 4 days
4. No
5. No
 
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The two responses from men married to women totally throw me off my preconceived notions.
I hope more guys respond.
I think we probably all have a simular theory about why men, married and otherwise decide to seek sexual pleasure from other men.
I am straight, divorced, my cock wasn't touched by wife in the last half of our 10 year marriage. She was a cock sucking freak when we dated.
Women just do not understand. Now at 57 I've never touched or been touched by another dude but damn I'm ready.
I totally agree with your statement "women just do not understand". Aside from the primal urge to copulate, if a man does not ejaculate often enough, it does get kinda messy..lol! (Yeah, I know women have their periods, but that's not a true parallel).
In this day and age, even a "quickie" requires planning, so the spontaneity and excitement of a sexual encounter is lost. I personally became tired of constantly battling a wife full of reasons why NOT to have sex, so I don't even pursue relations (even to the point I divert from the subject anymore).
I find more enjoyment and less bullshit busting nut with a few buds while watching porn. Blow our loads, clean up, have a few brewskies and enjoy the evening. Nothing more. Just release of tension and that's all.
 

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1. How long have you been married?
22 yrs

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?
10 yrs

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?
1 week, 5 months prior last time

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?
Yes

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?yes
 

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1. How long have you been married?

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?

I will say I am married to a man.... not that it should matter.

1) 6 years but 14 together ttl
2) 6 days
3) 6 days
4) no
5) no

Hmm my lucky number today seems to be 6 lmao
 

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1. 44 years
2. 10 years. But I get plenty of oral. In fact, we never fuck without me getting oral first. And, if my wife doesn't want PIV sex, she still blows me and finishes me off with her hands.
3. 10 days
4. No
5. No.
 

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1. How long have you been married?
31 years, together for 35 (we're 54 and change)
2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion?
Maybe a week, but she is willing most days and encourages me to hit her up for just about any kind of sex in her sleep. Well, she's not asleep by the time things get going. Last time (Saturday) started with head and moved to excellent doggy style PIV. In fact, some of the best head she's given me and good other sex has been in the night like that. No daytime thoughts/worries to get in the way.
3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife?
Two days. Yeah, Sunday morning.
4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage?
I am truly ashamed to say once, yes, without my wife's permission, on a business trip, with a stripper when I was real lit, about 20 years ago, and it wasn't good. The only good part of the experience was that we used a condom. I've never told my wife because the potential damage to our relationship wasn't worth unloading my guilt over an act that was stupid, wasn't a good experience, was never going to happen again because it was completely not worth it, and that she'd never otherwise learn of.
5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage?
Apart from the blowjob that one time, no. I've been tempted a few times, but the memory of the one time and the thought of hurting her by doing something without her permission (again) was more than enough to keep my dick in my pants.

All the stories about marriage killing sex life aren't true for most of the guys I know, though there certainly are plenty of sexless marriages out there, to the partners of which I express deepest condolences.

Yes, many women tend not to get the male sex drive. I've adopted the simile, it's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it. My wife's drive is way less than mine, esp. after menopause, but she remembers and accommodates me, for which I love her all the more. It helps that she knows I'll do anything she wants in bed and turn her into a thoughtless puddle when she orgasms from me going down on her (last time was Sunday morning :)).
 

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I totally agree with your statement "women just do not understand". Aside from the primal urge to copulate, if a man does not ejaculate often enough, it does get kinda messy..lol! (Yeah, I know women have their periods, but that's not a true parallel).
In this day and age, even a "quickie" requires planning, so the spontaneity and excitement of a sexual encounter is lost. I personally became tired of constantly battling a wife full of reasons why NOT to have sex, so I don't even pursue relations (even to the point I divert from the subject anymore).
I find more enjoyment and less bullshit busting nut with a few buds while watching porn. Blow our loads, clean up, have a few brewskies and enjoy the evening. Nothing more. Just release of tension and that's all.
Can I be one of you buds, please?
 

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1. How long have you been married? 16 yrs

2. How long has it been since your wife has given you a blowjob to completion? 4 months

3. How long has it been since you fucked your wife? 8 hours

4. Have you gotten a blowjob outside of your marriage? technically yes, while separated but not divorced

5. Have you had sex outside of your marriage? again, while separated
 
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