I disagree -- even with grandma. You see, grandma, grandpa, great-grandma and great-greandpa; had social restraints placed on them: family, community, and the church, and everyone abided, accordingly. Now the men may have gone astray, but the women just turned their heads, ignored it, and didn't run and get a divorce.
Now, women are commiting adultery -- worse than men. Perhaps, the US should just ban marriages...then the churches would be up in arms. The Bible (those who believe) doesn't say anywhere that a person should marry (and it they don't, the're doomed to hell)...it says, "it's better to marry; than to lust and burn in hell!" Fornication (not being married and having sex...is just as bad, according to most religious affiliations.)
That's why many men in this denominational churches are married. Ask me if they're happy, I wouldn't know...but the better of them put on a good front on Sunday mornings, holding hands as they enter church, smiling, and pretending they love one another.
I believe in monogamy; yes, there are men and women in this country and other countries who do, too. It's a matter of personal preference; each person is different. As I've mentioned earlier, if a man or a woman, can't stay with one person -- for better of for worse (since they took the vows -- and lied, eventually) -- then it's OK for them to remain single.
Fifty and seventy years ago, life wasn't any easier; more struggles, less money; technology wasn't rampant, either. You see, the community looked out for one another and helped one another, not like displaced communities, today. So, whose fault is it? Bush, Obama (both are married -- followed the rules), Congress, your Mayor, or your Governor...and I bet...where you live, they aren't single -- and, yes, they're married. As yourself why?