I’ve always been interested in this, but hesitant to participate because I didn’t want to interfere with a marriage. No judgement towards anyone, just not my thing.
A few months ago I began talking online with a married man. He was interested in having someone service him on a regular basis and assured me that his wife was aware, and that she was supportive of it. He said that she’d always had trouble giving him oral due to his size, and that she was fine with him seeking another outlet for that as long as it wasn’t behind her back.
I thought there was a possibility that he was lying to me, since I had told him up front I wasn’t interested in being involved in infidelity. He understood and told me a time that I could come over when his wife would be present. I agreed, and sure enough, his wife was there to greet me at the door. She was a great hostess, making me a drink before the three of us chatted.
After about half an hour it was clear that everyone involved was happy with the arrangement. We were about to get started, but before we did, she went and got me a pillow for my knees lol. She then said “I’ll leave you to it” and left the room.
Since then I’ve gone to visit 3-4 times a week. Most often it’s similar to what I described above. The three of us will chat for a bit and then his wife will excuse herself. On a few occasions she’s asked if she can stay to watch. When she does she sits off to the side and watches silently. It was a bit weird at first but I got used to it. The most recent time she watched, she asked if I could take my panties off while I went down on him.
He’s never shown any interest in anything like that. He’s completely happy to drop his pants, sit back and relax, blow his load, and then pull his pants back up.
It’s a pretty interesting, and surprising, situation. But so far it’s going very well.