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Almost every night. But if you're talking about someone else's husband, then the answer is most emphatically no.
 
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Only if everybody knew about it and was ok with it..
 

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No, never. It's happened in the past but only because the guy lied about his marital status. At this point in my life, I want some with whom I could I could have a relationship. Married men need not apply.
 

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this:

Yes. But no one gets to lie about it.

and i want his wife to look me in the eye and tell me she's okay with it. not some phone call or him telling me it's alright with her. if you can't be honest about it, don't do it.
 
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no i couldnt sleep with a married man it goes against all my morals.
 

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Don't sleep with married men or anyone in a relationship, be that they are living together or has a girlfriend etc.
 

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Oh, you didn't ask if I have before. Just if I will.

I have before (not married to me, that is) and I thought he was divorced. I found out they weren't even legally separated. I hate liars.
 

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Only if he was officially separated from his wife and the divorce hadn't gone through yet... But that said, I'm not a fan of baggage, so it would probably be a no anyway.

I would never want to be the "other woman". I could never do that to another woman out of respect for her (even if I don't know her).
 

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Single men only; married men and attached guys don't interest me at all.

I've met men and flirted with them and as soon as I find out that they are involved with someone I am absolutely not interested.
 

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and i want his wife to look me in the eye and tell me she's okay with it. not some phone call or him telling me it's alright with her. if you can't be honest about it, don't do it.

I'm okay with not talking to her. My husband never ever meets my extras. He doesn't want to. If they need to meet him, we are incompatible. I introduced him to only one. Only because he lives around the corner, and we spend an inordinate amount of time together. I wanted my husband to meet the real man, and not make some larger than life gollum in his head. But most of these dudes aren't ever going to meet him. Consequently, there are two who I constantly have to remind that I'm married, but legitimately available. They always ask, "What time does he get home? Are you sure there aren't going to be any surprises?" I always answer, "Three P.M. But if he comes home early without calling first, we'll figure out who is staying and who is going out. He knows you're coming over." I don't thinkthey hbelieve me.
 

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They always ask, "What time does he get home? Are you sure there aren't going to be any surprises?" I always answer, "Three P.M. But if he comes home early without calling first, we'll figure out who is staying and who is going out. He knows you're coming over." I don't thinkthey hbelieve me.

Haha!! Very interesting. Do you notice any difference in fucking style/lovemaking styles between married men and single? Or how about a difference between men who believe in closed relationships vs open? (Or do you only go for men who believe in open relationships - sorry, I haven't followed enough of your story to know the gist there.)
 

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Haha!! Very interesting. Do you notice any difference in fucking style/lovemaking styles between married men and single? Or how about a difference between men who believe in closed relationships vs open? (Or do you only go for men who believe in open relationships - sorry, I haven't followed enough of your story to know the gist there.)
I was talking about my experiences with single men, and their reactions to my marriage given that they dint have the option of checking with my husband that our activities are acceptable to him. Sanaxx had written that she would need to have the wife look her in the eye and tell her it was okay to play, but because my husband won't talk to my partners, I have no such requirement of the wives of married men.

Until you asked, I hadn't ever thought about it before, but while some of my partners have girlfriends, no one I meet with one on one is actually married. The married men I have been with have always had their wives with them. Group activities. So, I can't really answer the question about differences in styles between married and single.

As far as men who don't believe in open relationships, I'm married. My partners have to take me at my word that I'm in an open relationship. I assume they believe me. I go out with them in public and don't hide. I can't be too touchy-feely in public because of my husband's job. (Adultery is illegal for military enlisted and we prefer that my actions do not cause him to be investigated. ) But I never shy away from the good night kiss/grope session by my car in the parking lot. My partners know they can see me on most weeknights if I'm not working, and that weekends and any day before base duty I'm home with my husband. Most seem to take me at my word.

The two that don't? I have long suspected they have girlfriends and are projecting their sneakiness onto me. I have no proof of that, only suspicions based on my understanding of human nature. Is there anything different about those two compared to the others from which I might extrapolate generalizations? Yeah. Those two are more sexually curious, and more likely to bring me presents meant to be used during playtime, and less likely to want to go out somewhere with me. They'll happily hang out and watch movies or play video games, but I almost never meet up with those two in public.