Married or in a relationship? how much sex?

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  1. B_werfghj

    B_werfghj New Member

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    just curious here, I would much rather hear from married people, or people in a long lasting relationship. but its not my site ;) so everyone can join in :)
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  2. Dr Rock

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    who lives in the east 'neath the willow tree? Sex
    2 or 3 times in any given 24-hour period, ideally.
     
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    With the nature of this site, you might want to clarify: alone or with others?

    If it's with others, do you count by number of orgasms, or number of sessions?
    (Some people have more than one orgasm during a single session.)
     
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    couldn't agree more Rock,
    reminds me of that gutter mouth song, "perfect world"
     
  5. Imported

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    orionsword57:
    couldn't agree more Rock,
    reminds me of that gutter mouth song, "perfect world"
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    When I was younger, the fact that I was very well-endowed and had a big appetite made sex in both the morning and evening literally a necessity in my life, especially with my wife, for whom being fucked only once at any one time was never enough, and also with most of the women I've been with in later life who gravitated to me because of my size and capacity. Now is a greatly different story, of course, more like once a day and only on weekends with my current lady.
    We're both very happy with that.

    Sorry for the reminiscing...
     
  6. DC_DEEP

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    Having been in a relationship for "a few" years now, I feel I fit your description (although I'm not "allowed" to be married).

    For us, it is variable. Sometimes, twice or more a day. Sometimes, once every several days. It mostly depends upon how tired we are, but even then sometimes that does not factor in. I tend to have the stronger sex drive of the two of us, and in an ideal world, I would have sex every time I passed the refractory period.

    My partner and I are both pretty active, and he is even much more type-A than I, so at the end of the work day, when we go to bed, if one of us falls asleep before the head hits the pillow, we don't have sex. If we are in bed, and awake for more than a couple of minutes, we will probably have sex.
     
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    We have been married over 30 years. Except for some unfortunate situations beyond our control we usually made love every evening. Since her last surgery things have wained until recently. Now that the whole hormone thing is worked out, we make love every morning. It is GREAT!!!
     
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    Rock, I thought you don't do relationships.
     
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    The wife needs time to recouperate, I would say 3 - 5 times would be the max in any one week.

    She is very tight, even after 5 years of marriage she has issues with sorness. She usually needs a day between intercourse.

    Anyone else have this problem?

    Just my 2 cents, J.
     
  10. Dr Rock

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    I don't anymore :)
     
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    I don't anymore :)
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    Not even for a week or two? *bats eyelashes hopefully*
     
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    Technically I'm still married since the divorce is not yet final. During our marriage we had sex about once a week. He'd want it more often than that but toward the end I really didn't want to be anywhere near him.
     
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    Not even for a week or two? *bats eyelashes hopefully*
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    ... of course, limited exceptions might be made in very rare cases ;)
     
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    petite_asianbabe: How do you define '1 time'? One lovemaking session (that may include 2 or more rounds) or cumming once? :)

    I've been having sex with my bf for over a week now, so far its been twice a day everyday except for 1 day of no activity becuz I went down on him for the first time and went too far and it hurt.
     
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    I voted in the 4-7/week bin. I counted days/week and, yes, often it is more than once/session. Our 8th wedding anniversary is this week and we have 3 kids.
     
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    ... of course, limited exceptions might be made in very rare cases ;)
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    *jumps up and down excitedly ala Retarded Animal Babies and gives herself a black eye with left boob*
     
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    Yeah, that IS a good question. I still lose count either way, but that's because I'm 22.
     
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    Yeah, that IS a good question. I still lose count either way, but that's because I'm 22.
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    Stamina....

    Jon, when you gonna invite me over????
     
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    My wife and I , on average, have sex once every day, three times on Saturday, and three times on Sunday, plus once in the morning at least one day a week brfore work. So.. 12 times a week!
     
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    I've been with the same girl for a few years now. Like all relationships, in the beginning there was a lot more sex.

    Now, its found a natural point - like 3 or 4 times per week. During the week, it can be hard to find time for sex. We may do it one morning or evening. It depend on what's going on. On the weekend, we'll sleep in and usually have sex before we get out of bed and then again on Saturday and/or Sunday in the evening.

    But, when we are on vacation it all changes. If we are going to a big city with lots of things to do (New York, London, Hong Kong) it's maybe once a day. If we are at a beach resort, it's at least twice - sometimes 3 or 4 times. There is something about the sand, the sea, the booze, the weather, the skimpy bathing suits, that gets us both going. We turn into sex monsters - doing it in the hotel room, near the beach, near the pool.....

    Yes, I love to go on vacation.
     
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