i got set up at a "casual" lunch at a married couple's house today. they played it off so well(along with the other two women there who are in commited relationships as well,but they were both solo 'cause thier husbands were at work)the woman they tried to set me up with was a new neighbor that moved down the block from the married couple. she's from wisconsin,has a great job,great personality,attractive ect. but there wasn't a spark there for me.every chance they got they would try to pair us up,and even try to make plans for us all to be together somehow.afterwards when it was just me and my friend(the man of the married couple)he couldn't understand why i didn't ask out his neighbor. and he asked me when i was going to be happy again. i explained to him(as calmly as i could)that i am happy but i'm trying to get my life back together,and i'm not ready to be in a relationship just yet. yes i know i'm 37 but shit! i'm just not where i wanna be at right now. this isn't the first time my married/relationship friends have done this to me.thanks but no thanks.