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For thoes of you who are in a M/F relationship does your wife or GF know you enjoy same sex sex or you enjoy anal play and does she mind stimmulating your prostate or rimming you??? Just wondering if that satisfies your M/M urges or do you have a buddy on the side?
 

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Married, my wife doesn't know I like guys. Should have told her when we were dating. Now she would hate the surprise. But since I'm faithful to her, which is the same for a bi guy as for anyone--the decision to be faithful to one person doesn't depend on sexual identity or preference--I see no reason to tell her now. Yes, I often wish I had male sexual contact, but it's no different in my opinion than a straight guy who lusts after other women after he marries. As far as what my wife does to satisfy me, let's just say that I never was into anal play much, so that's not an issue that ever comes up with us.
 

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Mine doesn't know that I suck dick. She'd flip probably. But she's not into sex now so I get off the best way I can. That happens to be by sucking cock and getting mine sucked.
 

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Let's face it some men choose to be restrained in their sexuual acitivities by their own consciences and also by the restraints our society imposes. That is a choice. Others, choose not to be bound. They are unfaithful and have chosen to be so.

However, most of us, if we are honest, recognize that simply being married does not get rid of that animal lust we all carry with us. "In my mind" I am shamelessly promiscuous; "in my mind" I enjoy fucking sexually attractive persons of both sexes; and, I am happy to say, that no one gets hurt. In real life, I chose to "follow the rules"and be content with the delightful lubrication which my brain and body manage to deliver to my cockhead and which my generous foreskin contains long enough for me to get to someplace where I can insert a finger and move it through the slippery lubrication before I sop it up with a tissue. I often wonder if the person who triggered all that in me would be pleased to know that he/she had had that effect on me.

For many years I have had two friends who have had the hots for me,as I have had the hots for them, for many years. I am happy to know that I remain sexually attractive to them as I hope they are complimented in knowing that they are sexually attractive to me. Only in my mind, and I presume in their minds too, have we had sexual relations and I believe our relationship would not be broken if I was to cross the line with either of them. They know my family and I know theirs.

In summary I would say that knowing who and what you are sexually and acting on that are not the same. I need the friendship of men;, particularly of men such as my two friends; for many years that has been enough.









The brain is our most powerful organ of sex; wise persons recognize that and get some satisfaction on both sides of their sexuality that way. And, IMHO, the wise person will keep the secret thoughts to himself.
 
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My wife knows I like anal play has joked about using a strap on but it will never happen :( we hardly ever touch each now which sux. I do have a desire to have some hott fun with a guy. She doesn't know, I really wonder what it would be like.
 

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I have to say that reading the replies to the OP make me feel like I'm the Lone Ranger in my situation sometimes. I'm bi, married, and totally on the DL. Wife does not know, and she wouldn't understand in the least. Tried fighting off the desire for m2m interaction for years, but never whipped it. Actually have had a couple of regular fbuds (male) over the past few years, and that was a better situation than a random hook-up for sure. I've been sucked off by lots of guys, but never by my wife (although I certainly tried to get that to happen when we were first married), and maybe that's a good picture of our sex life.

What intrigues me about the posts on here is that I have met many, many married men who hook up with other married men and whose wives don't know. But judging from these responses, you'd think that was the unusual behavior with the more common one being either a)having the desire but not following up on it or b)telling the wife from the get-go and some range of acceptance of the desire for cock.

Is it my age? I'm in my late 40's, and back when I was dating and eventually got married, most women in my circle of exposure would have politely said "thanks, but no thanks" had a guy told her he wanted a family and all but he also liked cock. Are people that much more tolerant than they were 25 years ago?

I think I'm forever destined to remain living the dual modalities. Such is life.
 

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I have a profile on a couple of swingers websites. Initially I was surprised when I got contacts from guys who in their profiles described themselves as straight and wanting to meet women, who asked to meet me for sex. They always wanted to suck my cock and be fucked, and lose their virginity. I'm getting quite used to it now, and quite enjoy meeting these guys who really want to feel my large cock in them. Sometimes if they are really tight, I suggest they try fucking with me lying on my back, so they can kneel over me and lower themselves onto my cock. They usually leave with a smile on their face.
 

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I have been interested in penis (not really guys and relationships with them) for some time now. Years probably. I have also been married for 4 years, and with my now wife for almost 10. Basically ever since high school I've looking at porn of all kinds.

My wife has always known I like anal play on myself. We have toys, a strap-on and have practiced prostate massage in the past.

I JUST came out to her last night that I am bi-curious. We are both open minded people, and have always had gay friends. She was totally cool with it and basically said "yeah i know". She was a little surprised when I told her I look at dicks in porn, and jerk off to the thought of sucking a guy off, but she was fine with it. She said, "yeah, curiosity is normal".

I wont and havent cheated on her, she knows how to please me just fine.

If anything, this coming out with add a little spice to our sex life.
 
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I have been with someone for 7 years,have a kid with her, she figured out that I love cock.at first she would finger me and than eventually she got a strap on. When she fucked me she would get off so bad,she's also a squiter, she would drenchmy ass and bed.. We eventually found someone who would come over and have a threesome with us, I loved it while he fucked her and she got right off from watching me blow him and him fucking me than Cumming on me. She's also bi so not only do we have a male friend we've also done a few of her girlfriends.
It's the best being in a relationship with a woman who is bi and open minded.
 
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