This is my biggest fear. If she becomes lesbian suddenly I would feel bad but at least that would be an easy fix- just divorce her. How could I deal with my wife becoming a religious zealot all of a sudden? That's not really grounds for divorce and I would have to try to work her through it. It would be painstaking and like if she wouldn't pull out of her idiospasm, I would have wasted even more time- possibly years trying to work it out with her before I divorce her. Also, imagine if we had kids.. If she wanted to like put them in religious school and force them into her religion I might just slap a ho.