married to small, but want big

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  1. naughtyncgirl

    naughtyncgirl New Member

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    This is for the guys and girls: I'm married to a smaller guy, about 5". I long often for the experience of a larger man. Am I wrong to want that? Would I be wrong to pursue it? I'm 25 and he's 28.
     
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    Does your husband know this?
     
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    Well do you think he would be wrong to pursue a woman with a tight vagina instead of a loose one?
     
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    Not Iowa, that's for sure. (Iowa)
    Nothing wrong at all baby, you ever travel up north?

     
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    If you're 25 why does your profile say 27? Are you averaging you and your husband?
     
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    I can definately identify with that one! Was married to someone 4-1/2 inches for 16 years. He constantly complained that he couldn't last because i was too hot & too tight ( put the blame on me of course). What i couldn't understand was..if he can't last..and gets off..why he can't do something to take care of MY needs? Sometimes it's not just a size issue..after all....who gives a rats behind how small the penis is..if he gives ORAL that will rock your world..make sense? I kicked him to the curb after 16 years of begging..but i still have one problem....finding a man who can last longer than 2 minutes..lol
     
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    If that's a consistent thing, it's BS, but I did run into a ... ladyfriend, who was that tight, I must have cum after 5 minutes, but then again that was just round one.

    And I really can't imagine how tight you must be to be tight to a sub fiver. Presuming you're of birthing age, that's hot.


     
  8. ktrout1981

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    yes, it would be wrong.

     
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    First off the average is 5.1-5.5 so he isn't really that small. secondly you have to know his feelings, you may want to offer him a new experience if you are asking for one. It's not fair if you get to try another man without him trying another woman. and if he isnt okay with it get a toy that he can use on you, so you get the size and he doesn't get jealous.
     
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    I think the median of what you propose to be average is one SD below what is generally accepted as average.
     
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    I don't think it's quite on standard deviation, but yeah, "average" seems to have been shrinking according to some people.
     
  12. LACJohn

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    I think you should talk to him about it, and be up front...and/or do some kegels to get a tighter vagina so you can get filled up more. Honestly, if he puts in the effort to jelq or use other methods to enhance his size, and if you put in the effort to do some kegels, theres NOTHING you should be complaining about and if you guys both put in that work he'll feel like hes well larger than average.

    Also, size has nothing to do with how long the duration of sex is. I cant imagine women even believed that...or perhaps its just girls on THIS board.

    Average length I've always thought was 6". I think the average girth is a little high from calculated data...proportionally speaking.


    You should feel ashamed with yourself if you married someone and cheat on him JUST for size purposes. If you love him make the effort, if you don't...why the fuck marry him in the first place?
     
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    That's not very small from what I've heard. Did you have a bigger man before? Did you not know his size before you guys got hitched?



    No.

    If he doesn't want you to, yes.

    I'm unclear on why that's relevant. :confused:
     
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    JC8 ...... Tight enough to pull off a condom while it's still on your penis..inside of me....does that answer your question?
     
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    I'll bring some lube. :cool:
     
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    do i fit the bill..?? ;~}
     
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    Yeah, whats your ideal size then, original poster?
     
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    A demonstration might be necessary ...
     
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    Your profile says you are 27.
    Get your lies straight, and while you are at it, correct your profile's gender.
     
  20. rob_just_rob

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    Assuming this isn't SPH seeking bullshit, you aren't wrong to want something. You are wrong to pursue it without your husband's okay. Regardless of his response, this sort of thing can easily wreck a marriage, so you need to decide if it's important enough to risk your marriage for.

    (And if it is, why did you get married in the first place?)
     
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