married to small, but want big

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That ugly comment was unnecessary and uncalled for. :mad:

A man would be so lucky to have a cock big enough to fill a loose, bucket cunt. It's the sign of a man who's won the Olympic Gold Medal of Penis Size.

Olympic Gold Medals come from hard work not luck of the draw

besides bucket cunt filling cocks scare most women
 

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the advice you gave was good
but the problem with defending her is no one is bothered that she wants big
it's that her first thought isn't a differnt possition or a strapon or a dildo, her first thought is I want a man with a bigger dick
sorry that's slutty

It may be. I'm not really defending that as I agree it is an unfortunate thought. Honest, unfortunate and yet very human. We are all less Righteous than we love to think we are.

My comment is not really even about defending her. It's what the retaliatory comments chosen are about. Why target large vaginas? Of all people men with less than porn star sized penises should know what a cut that is to any woman who reads it who has a larger than average depth or width.

How righteous and holy men are when they level the sneers and jeers but god lets string a woman up and let her hang by a noose if she says anything bad about less than porn-star sized dicks.
 

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Yes "it was like a spoon in a coffee cup" means small penis because no women have large vaginas, I totally see your point, a vagina comes in one size and everything outside that is a FREAK VAGINA!


:rolleyes: You're so clever. I bow to your all-holy, all-righteous, all-knowing judgment. I hope I'm never as Holy as you Holy Man.
 

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I would always rather have one that was too big for me (whatever that means), as opposed to too small.

Blessings to you Drifter.

I'm sorry I went off in this thread. But it really rubs me the wrong way to see people saying mean things about men with smaller than porn-star sized cocks or women with larger than average size vaginas.

What ever happened to compassion?

Yeah yeah...I guess I'm stupid for hoping people might actually exibit some on a message board of all places.
 

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Blessings to you Drifter.

I thought that you had renounced your faith :smile:

Some people need to have more experience before they get married. This is best for both partners. Inexperience can lead to both unfulfilled desires (and regrets) and ignorance of what you really like.

If you deal with all these things before you get married, you have a better chance of being able to settle down.

If I was the OP's husband, I would want her to try a seriously big cock. If it turns out to be not such a big deal, then we can get on with our lives, if it is a big deal, then bye bye and give me my life back.
 

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Shame on all the guys in this thread that don't give a fuck about her marriage and demonstrate that by saying shit like "hey do i fit the bill?" and "no there's noting wrong with that ever come up north?".


I feel sorry for her husband. Not cause his dick isn't 9 inches, but because he loves someone who is thinking about leaving him because she wants a guy with a bigger dick.
 

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Shame on all the guys in this thread that don't give a fuck about her marriage and demonstrate that by saying shit like "hey do i fit the bill?" and "no there's noting wrong with that ever come up north?".


I feel sorry for her husband. Not cause his dick isn't 9 inches, but because he loves someone who is thinking about leaving him because she wants a guy with a bigger dick.

Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but I agree with you.
 

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This is for the guys and girls: I'm married to a smaller guy, about 5". I long often for the experience of a larger man. Am I wrong to want that? Would I be wrong to pursue it? I'm 25 and he's 28.

We have the opposite problem, and it took 31 years before we realized that her experiencing pain during intercourse was due to my girth, I won't go into the whole story again here, but the point is that I didn't go looking for a larger pussy and my wife didn't go looking for a dick that would fit her better. We have been together over 33 years. We did do a lot of oral and now she dilates her vagina and is learning to relax.
 

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I think you should talk to him about it, and be up front...and/or do some kegels to get a tighter vagina so you can get filled up more. Honestly, if he puts in the effort to jelq or use other methods to enhance his size, and if you put in the effort to do some kegels, theres NOTHING you should be complaining about and if you guys both put in that work he'll feel like hes well larger than average.

Also, size has nothing to do with how long the duration of sex is. I cant imagine women even believed that...or perhaps its just girls on THIS board.

Average length I've always thought was 6". I think the average girth is a little high from calculated data...proportionally speaking.


You should feel ashamed with yourself if you married someone and cheat on him JUST for size purposes. If you love him make the effort, if you don't...why the fuck marry him in the first place?
sex and love are to different things. Lots of men have said ."who you marry and who you beat off to are two different women"
Well, I am probably headed towards the same thing. the man I am probably going to marry is not my favorite sex partner and I do not want to give up my sex partner.
 

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Shame on all the guys in this thread that don't give a fuck about her marriage and demonstrate that by saying shit like "hey do i fit the bill?" and "no there's noting wrong with that ever come up north?".


I feel sorry for her husband. Not cause his dick isn't 9 inches, but because he loves someone who is thinking about leaving him because she wants a guy with a bigger dick.

The only caveat that I would place on your opinion is that she doesn't say that she wants to leave her husband.
 

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sex and love are to different things. Lots of men have said ."who you marry and who you beat off to are two different women"
Well, I am probably headed towards the same thing. the man I am probably going to marry is not my favorite sex partner and I do not want to give up my sex partner.

My wife says something similar, "There are the men you marry and there are the men you fuck ...and they're not always the same man." I adore my wife but with a 3.5 inch penis we both knew (and agreed) that she would have other lovers. Sex, believe it or not is very important to most folks. If sex isn't working for both partners...trouble is on the way. It's possible to resolve it and continue to be faithful...but it will take a lot of work.

I had to chuckle about some defensive posts claiming the problem isn;t a small dick but a loose pussy. Ha! When we were dating, my wife bought me some extra small condoms and mercy fucked me. Her tight pussy (within a couple of minutes) grabbed hold of that condom and my penis slipped right on out. It was my most humiliating moment with her. She loves my oral skills and that's how we are intimate. She's had lots of huge dicked lovers over the years. We both love our lifestyle.

marcus
 

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I wonder how much your discontent has to do with size and how much to do with other issues, e.g. his staying power, his skill as a lover with his tongue, how he rides you, his adventurousness, etc. As much as I appreciate a big cock, one of my best lovers was a thick five inches, and I have never come more for another man.

How open is he to a dildo for you, if your pussy is too big for him? How about introducing another lover in the mix, who is hung the way you want?

Or are you discontent with the relationship, and cock size is only part of the problem. PM me if you want to talk in private.

Good luck.
 

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Shame on all the guys in this thread that don't give a fuck about her marriage and demonstrate that by saying shit like "hey do i fit the bill?" and "no there's noting wrong with that ever come up north?".


I feel sorry for her husband. Not cause his dick isn't 9 inches, but because he loves someone who is thinking about leaving him because she wants a guy with a bigger dick.


careful when you say ALL men
 

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My wife says something similar, "There are the men you marry and there are the men you fuck ...and they're not always the same man."

Wow I so want to comment on this, but nothing good would come of it.

I adore my wife but with a 3.5 inch penis we both knew (and agreed) that she would have other lovers. Sex, believe it or not is very important to most folks. If sex isn't working for both partners...trouble is on the way.
Oxymoron

It's possible to resolve it and continue to be faithful...but it will take a lot of work.
You two did a fine job.

I had to chuckle about some defensive posts claiming the problem isn;t a small dick but a loose pussy.
I never read that anywhere in any of the posts. The only thing I saw was, "do you think he would be wrong for pursuing a tighter pussy?"

Ha! When we were dating, my wife bought me some extra small condoms and mercy fucked me.
You have some confidence issues and really should be spending your time on a mental stability message board rather than a large penis board. Im not saying this to be mean, but there are some intrinsic issues that you really need to deal with.

Her tight pussy (within a couple of minutes) grabbed hold of that condom and my penis slipped right on out. It was my most humiliating moment with her.
ahhh... you're another one of those SPH guys, arent you? It all makes sense why the title of this thread attracted you to read it.