Married Women
- Thread starter B_CheatingStacy
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- lgej,
You raise an excellent point about "identity"...one that I missed. I certainly agree that her lack of commitment to anonymity speaks volumes about the situation. Perhaps she's really trying to get caught.
I only do open and honest relationships. Unless I hear from the other partner(s) directly, I don't get involved. End of story.
CheatingStacy, how long until somebody blackmails you? One of these days, you'll meet up with a guy in a hotel room, and next week, you get an email saying that unless you hand over $10K by next Tuesday, your husband gets to see all the pics and emails. Not just your husband, but your coworkers, your siblings, your parents, and everyone else in your life. Don't think it can happen? I've seen it happen to somebody.
CheatingStacy, how long until somebody blackmails you? One of these days, you'll meet up with a guy in a hotel room, and next week, you get an email saying that unless you hand over $10K by next Tuesday, your husband gets to see all the pics and emails. Not just your husband, but your coworkers, your siblings, your parents, and everyone else in your life. Don't think it can happen? I've seen it happen to somebody.
Hey stacy you better hope your man doesn't have a bi side or a desire for big cocks too or you guys could run into each other on here 
just kidding nyuk nyuk, I don't find cheating a turn on at all but my wife and I are very open with each other about what we like or want and what is off limits.
I won't pass judgement on anyone elses kinks or turn ons but for my personal feelings I am willing to seek out my wife's fantasy and make it happen if she so desires and the same for me she will make whatever I want happen but I won't break her trust and vice versa I respect her way too much
just kidding nyuk nyuk, I don't find cheating a turn on at all but my wife and I are very open with each other about what we like or want and what is off limits.I won't pass judgement on anyone elses kinks or turn ons but for my personal feelings I am willing to seek out my wife's fantasy and make it happen if she so desires and the same for me she will make whatever I want happen but I won't break her trust and vice versa I respect her way too much
Yes, it is a turn-on, for me anyway. Gives an affair or a one-night stand a bit of spice, knowing she's married. Married people fuck outside their marriages, why not? I certainly did with my ex, and so did she, we both knew but didn't discuss the details. Now I'm married again with a totally open marriage, only we do talk about things, we both think that's a better way.
Incocknito
Sexy Member
Its a turn off for me. Even though I might want to have sex with a married woman or take her out for a meal etc (she might even ask me)...I won't. Because she's married.
It's the same even if she has a boyfriend. Damn my morality.
It's the same even if she has a boyfriend. Damn my morality.
Its a turn-on for me, monogamy is not natural. If it's open and honest it can make a relationship stronger. My wife has had lovers during our relationship so is relaxed if I sleep with another woman. We dont make a habit of it but we dont believe monogamy is the only way to a successful marriage.
I agree...if you have to hide then you shouldn't stay in the marriage. Why not just tell him...you never know he may actually end up encouraging you to continue doing it! There are a lot of cuckolds who had their wives introduce them into the lifestyle.
two-fister
Cherished Member
It's always a turn on, but my experiences of it are different.
I've been involved in the swing scene for a few years now, and being a well-hung black male, there seems to be no shortage of married white men who want to see me fuck their wives, and yes...it's a turn on to know that I'm hitting spots that he(the hubby) never can, and that she's making sounds that he's never heard before.
I've only been with one married girl on the sly...and it was pretty damn hot, I knew what nights her hubby was at work, and I would go to their place and we would smoke weed and go at it like crazy...but she was kinda of a ho it turned out a few other of my friends had "hit it" as well.
If I have the feeling that you really ARE playing around for the variety, and sure that there won't be any unwelcome emotional attachments, then sex with a cheating wife would be a turn-on.
disgusting...boner killer...deceitful...i'm running out of negative words. Here's a suggestion to put the idea that your marriage is A-ok minus the whole bedroom deal: Tell him you've been cheating and see how it goes from there.
I'm not married, and I'm a huge momma's boy...but if I found out she was cheating on my dad, I'd never speak to her again. I hope you don't have children.
I'm not married, and I'm a huge momma's boy...but if I found out she was cheating on my dad, I'd never speak to her again. I hope you don't have children.
Don't leave. The moral indignation of these people is near fever pitch, and is totally inappropriate. They apparently didn't read the part that said "no judgments."
Me: married isn't at turn on.
At.your.cervix
Superior Member
I know this sounds skanky, but I love fucking married women; seriously, the sex has always been fantastic. I don't go out looking for them, but when I'm just looking for some NSA sex and I meet a married woman is looking for something she isn't getting at home, I have no guilt because I figure that it's her choice. Almost always, they're not looking for love, just somebody who's sexually interested in them, unlike her husband, and can hopefully give them a good fucking, also unlike their husbands. And when they find that they've landed a hung partner, it's always serious party time. What's so wrong about showing a woman that she IS sexually desirable to men by pleasuring her and pleasuring yourself in her body? Then there's also the added benefit that a married woman won't likely mistake love for lust either.
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