It’s very difficult to get real numbers on queerdom because sexuality is so varied and individual, because anyone can embrace whatever identity, because of fluidity and chosen lifestyle, because how wide the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum is. But yes, I’d wager that around half of dudes with queer dimensions are either closeted or are “out” but still contend with a lot of internalized phobias, queer insecurities, homo resentments, masculine fragility, etc. This forum is just more proof of that. But you seem basic and a bit crazy. So, no point in engaging with you.