At work I work primarily with 1 girl and 1 guy, the girl i get along fine with but with the guy...we get along but, there's always this underlying "turf war" that seems to arise. He tries to tell me what to do when i get soft on him, so i have to act tough on him to get him to stop. I'm the one "officially" in charge of the section and I do have more seniority so i feel it's right that I'm the one in charge (though i'm extremely passive about it) he still is always ready to pop up and try to challenge me it seems like and it just gets annoying. Is this how all straight male relationships are? Cause I'm gay and used to just ignoring straight guys.