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I think a lot of these discussions about whether a guy is really straight or bisexual are actually discussions about masculinity vrs femininity. (Now, before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, I think it is okay and fine if you are a feminine gay or bisexual guy. Okay?)
I think there is a stereotype that if a guy is gay or bisexual then that means he is feminine, more female than male, probably wants to be a drag queen, dress as a woman, and may even want to BE a woman. I think this is why some bisexual guys prefer to call themselves "straight" -- because there is a societal perception that gay guys and bisexual guys are feminine and want to be women. (I'm bisexual but often mistaken for being straight, because I am masculine and, though I love women, I do not want to be one -- and I love being masculine!)
I think there is a stereotype that if a guy is gay or bisexual then that means he is feminine, more female than male, probably wants to be a drag queen, dress as a woman, and may even want to BE a woman. I think this is why some bisexual guys prefer to call themselves "straight" -- because there is a societal perception that gay guys and bisexual guys are feminine and want to be women. (I'm bisexual but often mistaken for being straight, because I am masculine and, though I love women, I do not want to be one -- and I love being masculine!)