I am very promiscuous, a bottom, and open to kink, SM, BD, WS, etc. However, there need to be limits and a bottom needs to have some way of stopping things when they go too far. I have had a couple of incidents in which the top seriously abused me beyond what I thought should have happened and beyond our initial agreements. Truthfully, I probably enjoyed it on some level, but there should be limits, and if the bottom feels it has gone too far, he should have some sort of recourse. Having said that, I have never reported a top to the police--although in two instances I should have--for the very reasons that my sexual activities that I do voluntarily would probably taint any testimony I give about being raped. So, I just accept it and pray that no one ever kills me.