massage and erection.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by cliche1881, Jul 19, 2012.

  1. simbablk

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    I'd just ignore it. I would hope the masseuse is professional enough to understand that this sort of thing just happens sometimes and continues to provide the service I'm paying for.

    Simba
     
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    Why? Every man...straight, gay, bi, trans, and a-sexual, responds to physical stimulation.

    And, besides, who among us has not had an inappropriate or poorly timed erection, at some point in our lives?
     
  3. simbablk

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    Exactly.

    Simba
     
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    I am calling my husband right now and telling him to read this thread. Thank you so much for posting and all of you for answering. He absolutely refuses to get a massage because he knows this will happen to him.

    He's too damn self-conscious about his "downstairs." I told him to lighten up, but maybe this post will give him a shot in the arm.
     
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    I am a licensed Massage Therapist and this is a normal reaction for men 9and females also become aroused). A professional LMT would not be disturb and will continuing with the massage. It happens....oh well
     
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    true..massage therapist here...happens to most guys. its natural
     
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    I agree, it's probably easier to say something - put the guy at ease, even if the masseur want to put a towel over the hard on, it is better if he says that hes fine with it but doesnt want to look and covers over. silence can be embarassing
     
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    it happens to everyone - just can't tell with women
     
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    Many of times when I'm getting massaged, I'm not aroused.
     
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    Same thing I say to the person giving me a Brazilian wax and I get hard...nothing.
     
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    Any therapists ever have a guy that ejacutates accidentally? I often wonder if I will if they keep rubbin' too much!
     
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    wanna give me a massage and see if it happens to me? :)
     
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    I'd like to give you one :)
     
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    It happens all the time. I think if someone is worried about getting an erection during a massage, they aren't totally relaxing. Just because you get a boner, doesn't mean it's about sex. It's just the body's natural way of responding to touch. If the massage therapist "goes there"...it's not about the massage at that point. I've had people blow a load just from a good massage...without any penis touching. I just hand them a towel to clean up. lol
     
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    OC...would love to book you for a massage if you are ever in the Baltimore/DC area!!! :newangel:

     
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    My massage therapist is a female. So unless I leave her this would never happen to me.

    I have, however, gotten erection while SHE gave me a massage and she just continued around it as though it isn't there. She's very professional and I respect that tremendously!

    Simba
     
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    I once got an erection while having an ultrasound of my testicles. The technician was rubbing my sack with this what-ever- it's called. He put this jell on the instrument and eventually covered my balls with the jell. Anyway I got an erection and my penis came out from under the folded towel he had placed over it. He repositioned the towel, as there was a young female trainee he was instructing at the monitor. She didn't see the offending penis, as he was standing between us. I thought it was sort of funny. I have never had a massage.
     
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    hahah thanks Mikey. For the record tho...when I travel, I never work. :) You'll have to come to my area. lol
     
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    That's alot to work around Simba :)
     
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