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I'm going to be started Swedish massages soon, just to unwind.

I've selected a female therapist, since I don't want a man to touch me. However, I've heard it's normal to get a hard-on when being massaged. But how should I react to it? And how usually do massage therapists react to it?
 

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I just had a great sports massage by a woman while vacationing in the Caribbean. Woman was nothing to speak of but her hands were incredible. When she messaged my upper thighs right into my groin my cock sprung to immediate attention. It was very obvious under the towel she had over me. I am sure she noticed as she never left the room for me to get off the table. So I dropped the towel and was still sporting a pretty good semi while I put my robe on. I almost ran to the shower to relieve the pressure. Hope you have a similar great experience
 

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Most of the time they don't react to it.

I've had one who used to say "oops" or "uh oh" playfully when it happened, or when she'd ask me to turn over as she would lift the drape off of me and hold it (the drape) up while I flip and then she'd put it back down.

Another one wanted to say something, I think, but she just managed to work out a "hmmhmm" throat clearing tactic.

You yourself should probably not say anything about it, just let it happen and relax, which is the point of the massage.
 

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Dude, the body reacts the way it wants to.. You'll get hard and then you'll get soft and then you'll get hard again.. This happens during a massage just like it happens during your sleep or during the day.. It doesn't matter.. All you have to do is lie back and enjoy the message.. No one will be offended or upset unless you grab it and say, "suck this!"..

Don't react at all if your cock gets hard.. Don't look at it, don't apologize and don't look at the girl rubbing you down.. Just enjoy.. Now if she says something then obviously you can reply.. The best reply is, "This feels so good, you're so good at giving a massage, thank you".. Maybe she'll flirt with you or grab your cock but it's all up to her.. Just get hard and leave the rest up to her.. If you're cool and not creepy then maybe you'll get some action on your next visit.. But getting hard is a good thing..
 

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I could not handle a massage by anyone not willing to go all the way it would just get me worked up too much. At least with my wife they always end in a happy ending.
 

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I get erections easily with touch, but it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I was nervous about it at first, but now I convince myself to relax and not let it bother me. I get a little hard sometimes, but not a raging boner like I was worried I would have. They usually bunch the towel up over your crotch anyway, so it isn't as noticeable.

I could not handle a massage by anyone not willing to go all the way it would just get me worked up too much. At least with my wife they always end in a happy ending.

That's the benefit of getting massages with your partner. Neither me nor my girlfriend are trained at massage, but they always end with us getting off.
 

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I had weekly massages for years, never got a boner.

I did have to fart, every damn time :(


For fun buy a really mean looking plastic insect and put between your legs under the sheet, then when the therapist pulls the sheet back mayhem will ensue!
 
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Get massages regularly. If its remedial (sports) and they are doing their job its not particularly sexual. If you think about it and focus on not going to get hard then chances are you will. If you focus on the treatment and giving feedback etc its difficult to let your mind wander too much.

If its relaxation massage then that's probably a whole new ball game.