Massage from a guy

If you were getting a massage, as a guy, would you be okay if another guy gave you a

massage? Ia it weird? Or only weird if you make it werid?


I have been given many massages from guys. They were great. Most all were professionals.
 
It's only weird if you make it weird.

I prefer masseur over masseuse but have to say there are a number of women who've given me excellent massages.
 
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I prefer male massage therapists, but it has nothing to do with my orientation. They do tend to be stronger and deeper, but also less apprehensive. Like, I always ask for really intense pressure, usually joking that I want to feel like I've been through a pasta press. In my experience guys are more prone to go for it than women. It's like I'm challenging them to try to break me.

It's like when I order Indian or Thai food - the spice level I prefer is well beyond what white people usually ask for, a la "if it doesn't end with calling a fire truck, it's not hot enough."
 
I agree with the others. Men are stronger and they understand what feels good and where tensions build up. I'm more comfortable with a guy. Like the bonding and the intimacy.
 
I've never received a professional massage in a sexual context (nor have I sought it out), so it never mattered. Mostly all were for the purpose of treatment after an auto accident or other injury and some were done by women and some were done by other men. While sometimes I enjoyed the more delicate touch of a woman's hands, sometimes I also welcomed the firmer strength of the guys' hands when it came to actual pain reduction in treating an injured area. So again, in a non-sexual massage, where the goal was either to get better or just to feel good and relieve muscle tension, I have no preference and to me there is nothing weird or uncomfortable about whatever the gender of the person doing it.

Of course if I was to receive a massage specifically for the purpose of sexual pleasure, I'd only choose a woman to do it.
 
I’ve had from both. Sometimes the man can give a stronger massage.
 
Men normally have stronger hands and that makes it better for me. We have a female in my small town, that is connected with the chiropractor office.

She started off and said, if I do it too hard, just let me know and i will back off.

I thought - right! She worked me until I was hurting. She is married and I commented on her strong hands. Her reply was yes, I am the jar opener of our household! :p