Kinda wanna know if I've overstepped a boundary.
So I arranged for a massage this afternoon. I don't drive so he came to me. On his website, seems very legit. I only wanted a massage as got back problems. I'm bi.
Get there and he asks me to get naked. No towel. I'm on my stomach mainly fine. Some ball grazing.
On my back, some more grazing - times when he moves my balls to do more stuff.
He then massages my stomach and I pop a boner.
He then puts massage oil on my cock. I look up confused and he says
'Don't worry it's okay'
In a panic, I don't say anything.
He then says 'do you want that area massaging' and I said 'uhhh no'
And he carries on.
I have a boundary weird thing about essentially paying for sex. I know for some people it isn't but for me it is.
We then wrap up and I get dressed. We're chatting, he mentions he's single. Fine.
Afterwards, I message him saying 'look I didn't say no because of you but I don't like the idea of paying for it but if you want some fun or a date then let me know' and now he's saying that I'm innapropriate.
Am I?
So I arranged for a massage this afternoon. I don't drive so he came to me. On his website, seems very legit. I only wanted a massage as got back problems. I'm bi.
Get there and he asks me to get naked. No towel. I'm on my stomach mainly fine. Some ball grazing.
On my back, some more grazing - times when he moves my balls to do more stuff.
He then massages my stomach and I pop a boner.
He then puts massage oil on my cock. I look up confused and he says
'Don't worry it's okay'
In a panic, I don't say anything.
He then says 'do you want that area massaging' and I said 'uhhh no'
And he carries on.
I have a boundary weird thing about essentially paying for sex. I know for some people it isn't but for me it is.
We then wrap up and I get dressed. We're chatting, he mentions he's single. Fine.
Afterwards, I message him saying 'look I didn't say no because of you but I don't like the idea of paying for it but if you want some fun or a date then let me know' and now he's saying that I'm innapropriate.
Am I?