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Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by Randyvoorburg, Aug 12, 2007.
I feel like having a massage now from a naked masseur lol
Every. Single. Time.
And then you have that awkward moment when they ask you to shift and you have to do the nervous tuck and turn (if you can, unless they want you on your back, then you're hooped).
I agree with you there. It's just a term, but people also tend to mess it up by calling both male and female a "masseusse". Then again, when a lot of people hear the term "massuesse" or "masseur", they tend to think of rub down with happy ending. Personally, if going to give a massage I've gotta be professional and not think of it as something sexual. I don't know...Maybe that's why it's just simply "massage therapist" now. I couldn't care either way, since it is the same thing.
What is the customary tip amount?
Through the years I have had many massages both in the U.S. and Mexico. I have only had one bad one, and that was caused by the inexperience of the massage therapist. He was obviously new and thought light stroking and gentle touch was a massage. Not!
I have had both male and female therapists. The boners happen with all of them. I have had happy endings and a few blow jobs to finish the job. Never was one asked for or expected. On the other hand all of them were well received because, as stated earlier, having a massage does concentrate blood, relaxes the body, and presto....
the only massage i ever had was after a half marathon. the race provided the massage for free after the finish line. I walked over and laid facedown on the table and this girl started massaging my legs and back. then when she started rubbing the back of my legs and my butt i instantly got a boner. then she said i was done and i could go. i may not have a huge dick but i am still 7X5.5 when hard, plus i was only wearing my short running shorts. i had to try and hold my shoes in front of my dick as i walked back over to join my friends.
I have had a few massages all from male therapist, not by request just happened. Each time I receieved the massage, I did get a hard on. The first couple of times it happened the more you fight it the more tension you cause in you r body and the therapist can sense that. They he just said try to relax, not sure if he could tell I was getting a hard on. I wasn't turned on or attracted to him, since i am Str8 but the sensation my body felt was was just amazing. After the massage, the erection went away. One therapist told me not to worry about it, it happens to a lot of guys and when it gets in the way, we will just move it over. That's exactly what we did. Love getting massages!
Been having a massage regularly for years, but never had an erection until last time. Usually I leak a lot of precum, but it took having a massage therapist's tongue up my ass to get me hard.
I've been to this place a few times before, all seemed perfectly civilized and above-board, but I got a lot more than I bargained for a few weeks ago. Recently moved apartment - and booked a new guy to ease the tension and stress of the move. Massage was going well. Neck and back were feeling a lot better. I love having my butt cheeks massaged - always amazed at how tight they get, and it always feels amazing to have them worked on. Anyway, I may have made it a little obvious how much I was enjoying this part of the massage - guy started working his fingers in closer, then deeper, and then within minutes, he is kneeling on the massage table, with his tongue up my ass. I have no idea how long he was there - time seemed to stand still, then he got off and went back to the massage as if nothing strange had happened.
He was a good-looking guy, great hands, and it really was an awesome massage (even before the rimming). He apologized afterwards, and I kind of shrugged it off. Ok - so I know it's wrong, but at the same time, it felt so good.
It's been a few weeks now, and almost time for a return visit.
LOL. This brought back a funny memory.
When I was taking my State "Boards" for Massage Therapy, I had to test on one of my classmates, who always seemed to select ME to work with, when we were given choice, because he was an athlete and like that I was the biggest guy in the class - and said I gave great deep-tissue massages.
When the instructor said: " Do a pelvic release for me, please " - which entails putting your one hand on the subject's back, above his buttocks, and the other hand just above his pubis - I started to break out in a sweat.
Kevin was quite endowed, and as we were starting this procedure, he began to get an erection.. while his private area was covered, the head of his penis suddenly was pressing against my hand and I was in an utter panic! He started to giggle... and I kept giving him 'the look' - as in: KNOCK IT OFF, DUDE! I'm going to fail this test!!
Later, we had a good laugh about it. I am sure, I'll never forget it!
I'm a part-time qualified masseur and I can tell you that it is not uncommon for customers to get erections, whether gay, straight or bi. Honestly, I think the percentage of people who get MTB's (Massage Table Boners) because they are actually aroused is lower than most of you might think. I would say that most MTB's are caused by increased stimulation of blood flow and strictly physical bodily reactions to nerve stimulii that are not brought on by conscious arousal.
Honestly, there is nothing to worry about. There isn't a massage therapist in the world who works with men, who has not experienced MTB's on a regular basis, in fact it's part of our training to learn procedure when such things occur. We do not see it as an insult, we see it as a work related symptom and work around it professionally.
In fact, MTB's are not the only bodily reactions that massage can illicit; I've had female customers that have queefed, become extremely moist to the point where they had to inform me of it, male and female customers that have farted.
Trust me, a stray boner is one of the least offensive things a massage therapist can have happen to them.
I was in Vegas and got a massage from a male therapist who said he was straight but was cool enough to let me be nude during the massage and that I could jerk off but he would not do anything to help. He did help in the end by playing with my nips to help me get off and shoot. He was totally cool with me jacking as he massaged me. I agreed to not grope him nor expect him to give me any sex. But...I had him back two more time during my 7 day stay and it was great. He was 15 years experienced and I felt great.
I've never gotten erect during a massage. I've had peeps try to make me hard but they didn't succeed. One gay played with my nuts, and even fingered my corona. Still didn't work. I have to want too or I can block it out.
I cant help but get an erection during a massage. I dont think it would matter who was giving me one either. Just so relaxing.
I meant one guy. He must have been bi. He was married, and enjoyed women. I was honestly scared at one point that he was going to lean over, and start sucking it.
I am straight/married and I was getting a massage by a male therapist, I wasn't attracted or turned on at all as he massaged, but towards the end, he started massaging my hand and palms, and my cock got so hard so fast, I couldn't control it. Not sure what it was about having my hand stroked and massaged, but it was frightening how turned on I got.
I pretended to be asleep, and hoped he didn't notice.
The body is a mine-field of zones. You even have reflexology points on your hands and feet for your testicles.
I'm a masseur, and during training we learn that things like this are natural and will happen at times. How we react to it should be rational and depending upon each individual occurrence, different. For example, if I felt that the client had come for therapy with the intention of recieving sordid services, I would firmly but politely end the session and inform them that their behaviour had been inappropriate, and ask them never to return as a customer again. However, if the erection (or other natural bodily event) appeared to be completely accidental, most of the time I would completely ignore this and continue delivering the massage.
Other things that can happen include...farting and other gastric reactions, blushing, even queefing, as well as nervous reactions (involuntary jerks and moans).
Most of the time, I don't encounter anything untoward.
I suppose, in a roundabout way I am saying that if any of you got an erection during a massage with me, it wouldn't bother me. But if you tried to make me tend to it, then it would absolutely bother me.
Some therapists are very uptight and make people feel terrible over things like this, as I've learned from co-workers in the field. Personally I think it's bad practice. Accidents do happen, and as therapists we are supposed to behave professionally and do our best never to make a client feel bad for anything that might happen during service, even when something unfortunate happens.
Anyway, thought I would give my two cents since I work in the field.
DiabloBoi, I agree. If it is necessary to work groin muscles, and such, tell me before you reach down there. I had one massage peep I had to quit going too. He liked to tip toe through the pubics way too much.
Massage table Erections are so common that you eventually just stop noticing until the client either makes you aware of his erection or the accidental brush. Erections are normal and being a massage therapist you are paid to provide a relaxing experience for your client through touch so if that person does become aroused its no biggy but the way you handle it is.
I always ignore it and go about business as usual, I also ease the minds of clients who tend to express their embarrassments by explaining to them that its normal and happens a lot making them more relaxed.
Also, on a side note. When I do notice clients erections it is a personal indicator that I am doing something right and enjoy that seemingly normal touching can arouse someone. However, I have never taken it further then an "accidental" brush with clients who try to positions their cocks in the line of touch