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I too am a massage therapist and I agree that sexual arousal during a massage is not uncommon. I haven't had a man become aroused that I know of, but I have had many women become aroused and some have experienced climax without genital stimulation. I believe that tension is tension some times sexual responces are what the body needs to release...who am I to judge. As long as I do not do anything illegal or unethical it is all good in my book.
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I have had sex with a few massage therapists after a good massage got me aroused. I didn't give them money for the sex, so is it prostitution? I did have a "legit" massage that got me so hard that I didn't even try to hide it. She placed the towel over it and continued like it wasn't there. There was no hint of anything further, but when she was massaging my feet, I know she could see my cock throb.
I used to get a massage from this straight guy (lived with his girlfriend) who was great. I would go to his place and he gave great massage. I went about 10 times, once a week, and I would always, at some point, get a hard on, though I wore a towel, and it would show, he never said a word. Eventually my hard on would subside and so it went.
This guy was super fucking hot, he was about mid 30's, tall, muscular and buff, and ruggedly good looking. Super hot body, but I knew he was not available, at least not to me.
After about 10 visits to his place we did the usual, massage face up, hard on, then turn over and huge hard on pressing against my left thigh (I had my cock pointing down).
I always lay down with my hands palms up on the sides of the table and I felt him putting his cock (with his shorts on) on my hand while he massaged certain parts. I thought it might have been an accident, but then again, it just lay there for me to cup and hold, though I never closed my hand around it since I was afraid I might be misinterpreting what was happening. I am very slow when it comes to these things, that is, people coming on to me!
He wne on massaging me, eventually massaging my thighs and his hand rubbed up against my hard cock, then again, not a word was said, and he rubbed it, as though by accident several times, but always keeping most ofm his hand on my thigh.
Then the massage ends, I stand up, my cock is at half mast as I was quite relaxed despite all this and just stood there naked about to go take shower to was off the oil.
Then he tells me his "lower back" is real sore, could I massage him a bit. Like an idiot, still not on to what was happening, I said "sure", hell, I was just happy to be able to rub this fucking stud!!
He slipped his shorts off and was buck naked! Normal sized cock, but absolutely beautiful. He got on the table face down.
I rubbed his lower back, he moved and said lower, then I massaged his "upper ass" area, then he moaned and said nothing, then I boldly went down and massaged his ass, by now I could see his hard cock stiff as hell against his thigh. I also touhed it as I massaged his leg, then massaged his hard cock, he just moaned and di not utetr a word. I pulled on his cock and he stood on all fours on the table with his ass in the air and his raging hard on just pulled up to his belly. I yanked it and maneuvered my mouth towards it
I sucked him and he reached for my hard cock. He couldn't stop playing with my cock, just fascinated by the way my foreskin worked, he was cut. I sucked him and he sucke dme and fisted my cock, again just in awe of my foreskin, I don't think he had ever played with one before.
We both came gallons fairly fast. It felt so strange to have had this happen, since it had been a fantasy of mine. The strange thing is, not a single word was spoken during all this. Then I paid him as usual, for the massage, and walked out.
The next appointment was as if nothing had happened, but then the same scene again, we both got hard and hot and sucked and masturbated and came.
It was great, but at the same time, once it became routine, he really was "straight", and it was strictly sexual on both parts, it got old. he was a great masseur though, and I never paid for sex, but rather the massage.
Anyhow, that is my experience with "legit massages."
This guy was super fucking hot, he was about mid 30's, tall, muscular and buff, and ruggedly good looking. Super hot body, but I knew he was not available, at least not to me.
After about 10 visits to his place we did the usual, massage face up, hard on, then turn over and huge hard on pressing against my left thigh (I had my cock pointing down).
I always lay down with my hands palms up on the sides of the table and I felt him putting his cock (with his shorts on) on my hand while he massaged certain parts. I thought it might have been an accident, but then again, it just lay there for me to cup and hold, though I never closed my hand around it since I was afraid I might be misinterpreting what was happening. I am very slow when it comes to these things, that is, people coming on to me!
He wne on massaging me, eventually massaging my thighs and his hand rubbed up against my hard cock, then again, not a word was said, and he rubbed it, as though by accident several times, but always keeping most ofm his hand on my thigh.
Then the massage ends, I stand up, my cock is at half mast as I was quite relaxed despite all this and just stood there naked about to go take shower to was off the oil.
Then he tells me his "lower back" is real sore, could I massage him a bit. Like an idiot, still not on to what was happening, I said "sure", hell, I was just happy to be able to rub this fucking stud!!
He slipped his shorts off and was buck naked! Normal sized cock, but absolutely beautiful. He got on the table face down.
I rubbed his lower back, he moved and said lower, then I massaged his "upper ass" area, then he moaned and said nothing, then I boldly went down and massaged his ass, by now I could see his hard cock stiff as hell against his thigh. I also touhed it as I massaged his leg, then massaged his hard cock, he just moaned and di not utetr a word. I pulled on his cock and he stood on all fours on the table with his ass in the air and his raging hard on just pulled up to his belly. I yanked it and maneuvered my mouth towards it
I sucked him and he reached for my hard cock. He couldn't stop playing with my cock, just fascinated by the way my foreskin worked, he was cut. I sucked him and he sucke dme and fisted my cock, again just in awe of my foreskin, I don't think he had ever played with one before.
We both came gallons fairly fast. It felt so strange to have had this happen, since it had been a fantasy of mine. The strange thing is, not a single word was spoken during all this. Then I paid him as usual, for the massage, and walked out.
The next appointment was as if nothing had happened, but then the same scene again, we both got hard and hot and sucked and masturbated and came.
It was great, but at the same time, once it became routine, he really was "straight", and it was strictly sexual on both parts, it got old. he was a great masseur though, and I never paid for sex, but rather the massage.
Anyhow, that is my experience with "legit massages."
troyboyism: I heard somewhere that massages stimulate a person's sex drive. It has to do with the movement of the blood within the body but massages also stimulate some part of the nervous system...so in other words popping wood is very natural to the process. One of my massage therapists was pretty hot and by the end of the massage I not only had popped wood but I has also precummed a significant amound... 
I am a licensed massage therapist also. All I can say is please do not deny yourself the pleasure or benefit of a good massage simply because you fear getting an erection or are uncomfortable being naked on the table. An erection does not mean you are turned on by the therapist nor is it an invitation of any kind. It is a totally natural response for many guys and I would never feel the slightest need to make a comment about it. If I am not bothered by it than the client doesn't have to feel self conscious when it happens.
I keep all my clients fully covered with a sheet except for the one body part I happen to be working on at the time. Every legitimate therapist is taught to do the same. I never, ever expose a client's genitals even when I'm turning them over--you are taught in school how to do this.
When a guy is on his back and I am working the leg close to the crotch, only that leg is exposed and the sheet is bunched up over the genitals--and in most cases the guy's hands are resting on both sides of his crotch on top of the bunched up sheet--not too likely the therapist would accidently or intentionally be brushing up against the genitals. What I am saying is that the client is in total control and if the therapist is legitimate, no boundries need ever be crossed. Some clients are perfectly comfortable with very little or no cover at all--whatever works for them. I find that clients who are not shy about their bodies will end up getting a better massage because they are not "guarding" parts of their body by holding certain muscles tight. This of course works against the aim of a massage.
Now of course the glutes are exposed (one at a time) when your are getting them worked. You can always tell the therapist to avoid any part of your body but why you would want to neglect this large muscle group is beyond me. It often is the source or plays a part in many cases of lower back pain. Ideally, all muscle groups should be massaged regularly to help keep the entire body in balance.
I keep all my clients fully covered with a sheet except for the one body part I happen to be working on at the time. Every legitimate therapist is taught to do the same. I never, ever expose a client's genitals even when I'm turning them over--you are taught in school how to do this.
When a guy is on his back and I am working the leg close to the crotch, only that leg is exposed and the sheet is bunched up over the genitals--and in most cases the guy's hands are resting on both sides of his crotch on top of the bunched up sheet--not too likely the therapist would accidently or intentionally be brushing up against the genitals. What I am saying is that the client is in total control and if the therapist is legitimate, no boundries need ever be crossed. Some clients are perfectly comfortable with very little or no cover at all--whatever works for them. I find that clients who are not shy about their bodies will end up getting a better massage because they are not "guarding" parts of their body by holding certain muscles tight. This of course works against the aim of a massage.
Now of course the glutes are exposed (one at a time) when your are getting them worked. You can always tell the therapist to avoid any part of your body but why you would want to neglect this large muscle group is beyond me. It often is the source or plays a part in many cases of lower back pain. Ideally, all muscle groups should be massaged regularly to help keep the entire body in balance.
I have a full body legit massage from a male therapist two or three times a month. I've done this for over two years. He always has me lay naked on the table with a towel around me and the place is always warm and comfortable. He plays soft music throughout and the room is dimly lit. He uses a mixture of essential oils and I find the massage itself helps my body to get rid of toxins that have built up in my system and to relax. I sometimes fall asleep for a few minutes. He always does my back first and after say 40 minutes I turn over and he does my legs, chest arms etc. He removes the towel to massage my buttocks and lower back and my hips, upper thighs and inner legs, replacing it strategically around me while he continues so that I don't get cold. He told me at the outset that he's bisexual but that doesn't bother me in the slightest. I've never got a hard on even when he has massaged my dick and balls which I think gives him some sort of thrill. I know he would like me to make love to him but as I'm not interested I don't throw on a boner. I get along with him very well, he's very good at his job and I see no reason to move on. If he were to misbehave I'm man enough to sort him out. If I change my mind about making love to him I'll feel free to let him know!
I pulled my back out in '95 and had to go to a phys. therapist for about 2 months to get everything worked out.
She was tan, and had these awesome green eyes, she could've been a supermodel without a doubt. She left me with many an uncomfortable basket that I ha to take home to my then wife to"exocise the demon upon her" She alway wondered why I always got worked up from my sessions-I had told her it was middle-aged woman with a missing tooth so she was none the wiser
She was tan, and had these awesome green eyes, she could've been a supermodel without a doubt. She left me with many an uncomfortable basket that I ha to take home to my then wife to"exocise the demon upon her" She alway wondered why I always got worked up from my sessions-I had told her it was middle-aged woman with a missing tooth so she was none the wiser
As a bodyworker, I always find these conversations to be rather interesting.
First, let me explain that not only are there legal issue regarding behavior by both the therapist and the client, but there are professional ethics to consider, and while legalities vary from region to region, ethical standards apply to everyone, although this to can vary from place to place. For example, in my city (there are no state-wide regulations in my state), the municipal code specifically states that it is illegal to perform massage on a client while their genitals are exposed. Does that include woman's breasts? That would probably depend upon the courts. However, in Europe (I generalize, here), it is a normal part of a [Swedish] massage to include female mammary tissue. As for ethics, making any personal comments about any part of a clients body, or making stating an opinion about their [speculated] sexual performance, constitutes sexual abuse on the part of the therapist. Also included in that category would be masturbating in front of the client, or encouraging the client to masturbate; watching a client dress or undress, etc.
So, as a professional and ethical therapist, there are certain activities that I would never engage in. Furthermore, when a [male] client experience an erection, this does not necessarily indicate arousal, because erection is a function of the parasympathetic portion of the autonomic nervous system, and a large number of common strokes used in massage (particularly Swedish) cause parasympathetic activation, which is actually one of the primary reflexive effects of massage in general. However, this varies from person to person, and when you treat a client regularly, you learn things about their particular responses. While certain parts of the body are generally understood to be erogenous zones, my experience has shown that every person is unique. For example, I had one client who, upon touching a very specific part of the ear, would immediately experience an erection. He would go from flaccid to fully engorged within a matter of seconds, upon stimulation to that one point. But everybody has different triggers.
As a homosexual male, I will say that I don't view a client experiencing an erection during a massage as a negative, but to say anything to a client regarding either that, or the size of their member, would be a gross violation of ethical standards. However, many client receive massage, not primarily for its therapeutic benefits, but for the experience, rather, and if having an erection is part of that experience, then I'm all for it. The most important thing is that the client feels comfortable. If a client has an erection, and appears to be self-conscious about it, or uncomfortable in any way, then I will use additional draping to protect their modestly. If a client apologies for an erection, I explain, with clinical detachment, the physiology of the response. If a client says or does anything that I feel crosses the boundaries of the therapeutic relationship, I clearly state that [what the client said or did] was inappropriate, and if the client were to persist, I would not only terminate the session, but also my professional relationship with the client. If either I, or a client, wished to pursue a personal relationship, ethical standards for healthcare providers dictates that enact a minimum period of six months without contact (professional or personal) before attempting to initiate a personal relationship.
Sounds like a lot of rules, doesn't it? Well, it all depends on your ethical standards. In summery, if your getting a massage, and you have an erection, that's not a problem. Anything beyond that is.
First, let me explain that not only are there legal issue regarding behavior by both the therapist and the client, but there are professional ethics to consider, and while legalities vary from region to region, ethical standards apply to everyone, although this to can vary from place to place. For example, in my city (there are no state-wide regulations in my state), the municipal code specifically states that it is illegal to perform massage on a client while their genitals are exposed. Does that include woman's breasts? That would probably depend upon the courts. However, in Europe (I generalize, here), it is a normal part of a [Swedish] massage to include female mammary tissue. As for ethics, making any personal comments about any part of a clients body, or making stating an opinion about their [speculated] sexual performance, constitutes sexual abuse on the part of the therapist. Also included in that category would be masturbating in front of the client, or encouraging the client to masturbate; watching a client dress or undress, etc.
So, as a professional and ethical therapist, there are certain activities that I would never engage in. Furthermore, when a [male] client experience an erection, this does not necessarily indicate arousal, because erection is a function of the parasympathetic portion of the autonomic nervous system, and a large number of common strokes used in massage (particularly Swedish) cause parasympathetic activation, which is actually one of the primary reflexive effects of massage in general. However, this varies from person to person, and when you treat a client regularly, you learn things about their particular responses. While certain parts of the body are generally understood to be erogenous zones, my experience has shown that every person is unique. For example, I had one client who, upon touching a very specific part of the ear, would immediately experience an erection. He would go from flaccid to fully engorged within a matter of seconds, upon stimulation to that one point. But everybody has different triggers.
As a homosexual male, I will say that I don't view a client experiencing an erection during a massage as a negative, but to say anything to a client regarding either that, or the size of their member, would be a gross violation of ethical standards. However, many client receive massage, not primarily for its therapeutic benefits, but for the experience, rather, and if having an erection is part of that experience, then I'm all for it. The most important thing is that the client feels comfortable. If a client has an erection, and appears to be self-conscious about it, or uncomfortable in any way, then I will use additional draping to protect their modestly. If a client apologies for an erection, I explain, with clinical detachment, the physiology of the response. If a client says or does anything that I feel crosses the boundaries of the therapeutic relationship, I clearly state that [what the client said or did] was inappropriate, and if the client were to persist, I would not only terminate the session, but also my professional relationship with the client. If either I, or a client, wished to pursue a personal relationship, ethical standards for healthcare providers dictates that enact a minimum period of six months without contact (professional or personal) before attempting to initiate a personal relationship.
Sounds like a lot of rules, doesn't it? Well, it all depends on your ethical standards. In summery, if your getting a massage, and you have an erection, that's not a problem. Anything beyond that is.
it was at las ventanas in mexico. she was this little mexican lady, not attractive, but there was something about the situation that just sort of...made it happen. she just kinda muttered under her breath "es normal, es muy normal." we ended up talking about her family from san luis potosi and her kids who were at texas a&m. it was a little awkward, but i suppose one must make the best of any situation, n'est-ce pas?
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I get massage from a licensed massage therapist at my chiropractor due to injuries from motor vehicle accident a few years ago. I'm 36 and have gotten erect twice now. I only get aroused when she massages my legs.
My question from the group is should I say something if she doesn't? I know she had to notice. She always keeps a sheet and/or blanket over the hip / groin area but I was fully aroused today and as you can tell from my pics even under a sheet IT'S obvious.
So what would ya'll do?
My question from the group is should I say something if she doesn't? I know she had to notice. She always keeps a sheet and/or blanket over the hip / groin area but I was fully aroused today and as you can tell from my pics even under a sheet IT'S obvious.
So what would ya'll do?
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Well I finally asked her and she says it happens all the time and doesn't bother her at all.
I scheduled an appointment for a massage today. I have only had three "massages" ever, and they were explicitly sexual massage with women. This is my first full body massage with a male masseur. He seems legit licensed therapist etc. How do I know or read if anything additionally more can be expected?
