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Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Stanmeister, Apr 12, 2010.

  1. Stanmeister

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    I get massages several times during the year. The most recent massage I developed a hard on, only the second time this has ever happened. The massage therapist was male, and I am not gay. The hard on developed when he began working my lower abs. It was almost as if he hit something in that region that just kicked things into gear. Is there something in the lower abs that is connected to the pipes that bring about an erection? It wasn't as if this was erotic. I know that erections are not unusual during massages, but they are for me. I just wonder if this guy purposefully went after this spot, knowing what it would produce. After the erection developed he bumped into my penis twice. He was a very good massage therapist otherwise. I am trying to decide if I will go back to him or not.
     
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    There is nothing there on the stomach that would automatically cause a boner when pushed...unless that just happens to be the area where, if rubbed, will turn you on. Maybe it's just how you reacted to his touch or energy. Nothing to be worried about and as you said...its totally natural. BTW..I have a degree in Neuromuscular therapy and Clinical Rehab and do LOTS of massage as well. So it's all good :)

    NOTE: If he does try to take advantage of the situation and it's not something you want...then politely say...thanks but I'm not wanting that. You say he is a good therapist... just mention to him, whether it did or not, it kind of felt weird that you got hard...and you know that its natural...but you just didnt want him to get the wrong idea. If you say it that way...you can keep a good therapist and he knows the boundaries now as well. :)
     
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    Yeah, that's all totally normal. I wouldn't worry about it, or him. You don't mention any creepy vibes or anything. Sounds like the guy was just doing his job.
     
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    Mate, if I was going to get a massage from you I would definetely had a hard on. :wink:
     
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    From personal experience, that area is one of my erogenous zones, so it's just possible that area triggered a basic arousal for you. Sexuality is meaningless- he's a good therapist, you're probably very relaxed, it happens. And if you're here, I'm going to assume you don't have a small penis, so it may have just gotten in his way if he bumped into it twice. I say you should go to him again and if he keeps bumping into your erect penis, you can address it.

    And not to make waves, but you say you're straight, why are you making the assumption your massage therapist isn't? (I've gotten massages by men I'm pretty damn sure are gay and they were completely professional, btw.)
     
  7. Stanmeister

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    I have no doubt that gay people can be very professional. I know that he is gay because he mentioned his partner to me. My original post didn't mean to imply that he is gay. His gayness doesn't bother me, except if he making moves on his clients, which obviously is unprofessional for gay and straight people alike.
     
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    I told my wife I could never get a massage just for that reason. Touch my back, legs, stomach, anything and I'm wood. So, she got me a gift certificate for a pedicure. Nothing harmful about that, right? Well, who knew that my feet were hot spots as well. Yep, just went a couple of weeks ago, and it felt good, real good. OK, probably stupid of me to wear linen shorts, but like I said, who knew? I quickly went from a fantastic moment to one of sheer terror and frantic hand placement. If she saw or knew anything she was a real pro because she never broke expression.

    So now, I'm a hands off guy. Sorry, no touchy 'cause I'm sensitive.
     
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    ???? ummm no
     
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    what does that even have to do with the stomach
     
  11. OCMuscleJock

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    lol he always puts something strange up...dunno whats the deal is.
     
  12. Stanmeister

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    pedicure? Can't imagine that would be erotic! And what's more, I never understood the purpose of these.
     
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    feet are very erogenous to a lot of men, have you had a foot massage? or had your toes sucked on? they can be very hot
     
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    IDK, but I got the joke there. Unfortunately, this isn't quite the long bone it would affect, as the ding-dong isn't muscle, nor does it have an epiphyseal plate...As for the boner, it's not that he's tryin' to get you worked up. It's a normal, er...side effect, for many men who get massages. Massaging an area will increase blood flow, so of course that may also mean more blood flowing to the crotch...
     
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    had to endure those when learning to be a massage therapist...everyone in the class knew I HATE to have my feet touched, so they normally respected that and stayed away...I was the one in class fully nude under the sheet, except for a pair of socks...besides, I'm also really sensitive to touch and get ticklish easily, so when I get a massage, it's usually only my neck, back, and sometimes glutes and hamstrings...
     
  16. Stanmeister

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    I went to the massage therapist for a second massage. Once again he did a abdominal massage and I popped wood. To be honest with you he lingered a very long time in the abdominal region. And he gets awfully close to the main event. I have not had that in previous massages. While he didn't touch me I think I'll go to someone else next time. He was very good with sore muscles. He had very strong hands, but I think I might go elsewhere now, which is too bad in light of the fact that he was one of the best I've ever had in terms of getting deep. Admittedly, I have never had abdominal massage before. I've been reading about it on the web.
     
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