Hi ladies, Since we got married almost three years ago, my wife continues to show quite a lot of interest in some arse play (my arse BTW). We've tried Thai beads a couple of times but to he honest, with the beads inserted and her giving me a well lubricated hand job at the same time, there was too much going on for me to fully enjoy my orgasm. I recently started to read up on prostate massaging or milking and how it can lead to explosive orgasms. My main concern when it comes to arse play is the possible mess but I think I could overcome this fear by giving myself an anal douche beforehand and then asking my wife to wear a latex glove (BTW the concerns are all mine and not hers LOL). So, ladies at LPSG do you have any advice for me or my wife? I have tried massaging my prostate on my own using a well lubricated finger but it wasn't very successful. Thanks in advance for any advice you think may be usefull.