Masturbating during sex - is it normal?

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I am dating a girl who is a little bit older than I am, she is tiny and very sexy and much more experienced than I am (have had way many more partners than I did, mostly because I didn't have so many...), we started dating last summer but we leave far each other and meet once every couple months.
The story is that we have great sex and this is on both sides, she told me that it is maybe because of chemistry or because we do it not too often but it feels great, we have long sessions and quite often during the day.
I am not that well endowed, I consider myself (I hope so) average and not even that good skilled but she is able to drive me very well, she tells me what she likes, what to do bla bla bla, it works very fine but I am wondering why she does need to touch herself while I penetrate her, I know she doesn't need it to get orgasm as she can do it even without masturbating, is it just a plus to add pleasure or is it for some other reason I don't know?
I have to admit that I thought it was just a porn movie stuff and also have to admit that it is a big turn on and that to make love with this girl is great!!!

Thanks for reading

DG
 

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women are different then men. We have enough with putting our dick in a vagina and pumping it. Well women need more, and they know what they want, so don't mind and anjoy yourself by seeing her enjoy herself :smile:
 

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hey fella...enjoy her technique...extra work in that area is only a plus for her and you...uninhibited sex if the spice that keeps us all happy...her extra hand will find your cock and the extra will be ...well enjoyed...yes it is normal for those who want more fun....
 

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I think it shows she is confortable with you and that she knows how to get her pleasure. It is normal in some girls to do that, i find it hot.

Just enjoy and be open for her cues on what she likes, that way sex will only improve and you will keep a sex friend on the long term (hopefully)
 

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Well, with her it's a new world about sex, being a little older than me and having had several partners she is many steps above me and she is teaching me to be less inhibited, she wants me to talk while making love, she wants me to tell her what I like and stuff like that.
She once asked me to jerk off in front of her, I am already shy on my own figure it out to jerk in front of somebody, I am ashamed of my body and even more about my cock but she did menage to have me doing it and it was nice, jerking, stuffing it into her mouth, asking her to masturbate too, it kept growing and growing and we both liked it a lot; she kneeled in front of me and started to blow me while looking at me in the eyes, it was such a controversial feel, I was shy on one side and on the other was enjoying so much the blow, then she asked me how I like it most... then she asks me to lick her, how, where, how fast, how deep, how long... I know it may sound fake but we did it grow better and better and at the end we did menage to come together, that was the best, perfect timing and wonderful feel.
 

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congrats to you DON...you have found a wonderful teacher..she has taught you the finer points of making LOVE...there is adifference from just quick fuck....learn well grasshopper...you are lucky man....
 

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It's all good. Some girls like there clit or nipples stimulated during intercourse, or kissing is also good. It all just adds to the feelings and experience. Go for it.
 

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I have to admit that it's all into her ability to make me feel comfortable, I would have never either imagine to stand up in front of a woman and to jerk off, neither to tell a woman what I like or what I don't like.

She has had quite more partners than I had and she said that a couple of them where very well endowed (one of them self claimed eight inches) while I fall into the average (hope so...) but, regarding the same old dimensions fear, she keeps telling me that our bed fun has been the funniest and nicest of all, that's quite a turn on but I keep believing that it's her ability to play the biggest role into our relationship, call it chemistry or whatever you want but it works marvels!!!