Masturbating while a woman watches.

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  1. nakedone

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    How many guys have had the experience of masturbating, to orgasm, while a woman, or women, did nothing more than watch? Are any guys confident enough in their own pleasure to let a member of the female sex be there to watch it all, without being involved in any way?
     
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    I've had a couple of women watch me, but it's not something I like. It just seems like a waste to have a woman there and not having sex with me, or masturbating me. I could jerk off anytime, but when I'm with a woman, I want her to be involved.
     
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    Oh Yeah!!! I have. She enjoyed every minute of watching.
     
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    ive done that a good many times. its alot of fun, and something different, sexual, without being what you normally do. also, the suspense of just watching can be a huge turn on
     
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    I've done it a few times and it was a very hot experience. A few times was just watching, which was hot. And a few times it was masturbating together. Loved both experiences.
     
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    And not be involved? Maybe at first. Sometimes my wife just isn't in the mood, so she will let me kiss or fondle her breasts while I masturbate in the shower with her. Sometimes she will take over, either way its a blast. Pun intended. ;-)

    The only time I've done that without being touched at all is over the web with Long distance relationships, and it kinda sucks but if its all ya got then its great.
     
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    Yep. Many times. Often it's when she's on her period. Sometimes she just wants to watch and of course masturbate as well.
     
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    Only ever had the experience of watching a woman masturbate and then masturbating myself.
     
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    I have the last few months with my wife. I've wanted her to do it in front of me. So since she knew I masterbated she's asked if I would get myself off. The first time she was giving me a hj and I was taking a while. So finally she told me to finish myself off. Lol. There's been a few times when she's come to bed and I'll be stroking myself. At first she acted very shy and would make small talk and glance at me. But I knew damn well she wanted to watch. Lol. One time I was jacking it when she came to bed. And she took over the dick! So I started tugging and sqeezing on my ball sac.
     
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    when my wife was pregnant with twins we did it a few times (my wife watching while I jacked off) both found it very erotic....
     
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    My wife loves to watch me masturbate it is a big turn on for her and me. It is a different experience since it is just you on display for her to watch but its very hot.
     
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    yep, with a few different woman. it is a huge turn on for me. especially when they are clothed.
     
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    Masturbating is something I feel like I should never share with a woman... I don't know...
     
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    Wife is always wacking me because of me playing with myself while watching tv, reading, or on the Internet while surfing (non-porn) my hand tends to wonder instinctively toward my cock. In bed if shes not in the mood (which is okay with me, when she is I love what she does to me) she watches and will finish me off.
     
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    Tried it once. It was really awkward for me.
     
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    Oh yah, women love to watch a man jerk off and cum. turns them on to no end.
     
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    yup been there done that and would do it again!
     
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    I cannot tell whether you are sincere or being sarcastic, but I do not fit into that crowd. Sitting in a room with a man masturbating would make me feel out of place, uncomfortable even. Being so distant by not participating seems peculiar.
     
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    Watch some random guy, with no emotional connection, jerking off is as boring as all fuck..seriously a huge yawn fest.
     
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    I like watching my husband masturbate in bed, in our office, or in the living room. He likes it when I watch him in the shower, but I don't like to be around for the things he does in the shower (anal play with no preliminary enema). I have an extreme aversion to other poeple's shit.

    When I was in my late teens/early twenties, there was this married guy I knew. I met him using some kind of early instant messaging system that I'm not sure even exists anymore. For the life of me, I can't remember what it was called. Anyway, physically, he wasn't my type (way too short and thin, and when I was that young a balding guy was not really my thing). But I met him mind first, and his mind was hot! We were both in relationships, and I knew my dude was experimenting with jerking off with guys, so when this married guy asked if he could jerk off for me, I figured it would be okay. This sort of thing was don't ask/don't tell in my relationship.

    So, after months of build up, and photo exchanges, and phone sex, I finally was able to hook up with him by inviting a friend along for the ride. We used her office. The two of us remained clothed, and he took off everything. We opened the blinds and turned on all of the lights. It was night time in midtown Manhattan. We sat on a loveseat, and he stood before us. We commented on his body, his cock, and his stroking (all complimentary) and forced him to make frequent eye-contact with us. He was pale, so the flush that swept over his body, turning his skin pink was really sexy. He got sweaty, and started to smell like semen. And then he came. My friend wanted to blow him, but I insisted that he use tissues instead. Later he confessed that he wasn't attracted to my friend, and thanked me for saving him. We talked about doing that again, perhaps alone, but we lived too far apart, and hotels in the middle-ground (Manhattan) were too expensive for a lifeguard and a butler with a wife and kids.

    When he came, the scent of it was really strong. He was so masculine smelling. My friends said she could smell it when she arrived the next morning, but her bosses were really old, and fortunately had lost their sense of smell. Vanessa Williams was there that morning though, and we often wonder if she could smell it, and if she knew what she was smelling.