Masturbating while a woman watches.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by nakedone, Jul 8, 2011.

  1. D_Sam Rockswell

    D_Sam Rockswell New Member

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    wow that's one wild story Altered, i gots nothin even close to that lol. I only did it like twice with my ex but she was also masturbating at the time, would have been seriously strange for me to do that while she just watched.
     
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    SO FREAKING SEXXXXYY!

    We have done this with each other recently after being together for years. He's even cool about me watching these kinds of videos. They're really the only kind I watch. He has his porn and I mine. YAY!

    so...from my perspective, I'm thankful that men will do this for us and very apprecative of the men who film it to share.

    TOO MANY THANK YOUS TO TYPE!!
     
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    Before my wife and I got married, we lived together for two years. We had to work through the times when sex wasn't going to happen, like during her period. She felt "left-out" if I jacked off so, for a while, I a just went cold turkey so her feelings wouldn't get hurt. Turns out her being in a highly-irritable state combined with my sexual frustration was a recipe for one atomically-miserable week for both of us. We agreed to find alternative ways, like a blow job, or her giving me a hand-job was a good way to go!

    Once we were married and expecting our first and only child, nine-months caused for re-negotiations with masturbation all together. While she she still likes to be involved, she no longer feels so "left-out" if I'm taking care of my own needs, from time to time.

    Jacking off in front of my wife has been a great way to signal "hey I'm really fuckin' horny.... you wanna play?" just without the words, but even sometimes she likes to hear the words (in Spanish, French and Italian) :)
     
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    i jerk off for my current girlfriend and have masturbated for and with almost all of my previous girlfriends. very fun, something different, and great when you're too tired for good sex!
     
  5. pubebandit

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    My wife and I do it, together. And she really enjoys it, but she is utterly uninterested in porn or in watching a random dude--which I generalize to represent most women's attitudes. I wish (as I'll bet most men do) that women were more interested in watching us beat off, though, because I love the idea. Showing off is awesome and watching her while she looks at my cock is SUCH a turn-on.
     
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    In the brief time that I was married, it was not unusual for her to watch me, then I would watch her and by that time I'd be hard again to bring her to even more orgasms than the one she had masturbating as well as having a second, sometimes third one of my own. She used to love to watch me when I spurt as sometimes I'd shoot up around my shoulders, chin, etc. And she equally enjoyed "cleaning me up" which was a wonderful prelude to even more sex. Damn, we were both good in that department but in most other avenues without doubt, totally different people.
     
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    I'm friends with two lesbian girls. Neither of them have been with a guy. During a night of drinking they asked me to jack off for them don't ask me how it came up I was drunk. I did and popped a good load. They are both attractive so it was easy. Felt kind of like high school they were both giggling. It was especially funny when a came on their kitchen floor. It was fun and I'd do it again!
     
  8. Big Del

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    Yes - have done - a couple of times when I was younger girlfriends asked me to jerk off because they wanted to see how I wanked myself so they could replicate how I had pleasured myself
     
  9. nakedone

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    The first time I masturbated while a woman watched, was for a MARRIED woman. She said that her husband would "never do something like that" and asked me how men did it. I offered to show her and she accepted. I simply lowered my pants and pulled my dick out, then proceeded to jack-off, like I would have done if I were alone, while this lady watched. When I came and shot my stuff into a tissue, she squealed with delight. So many years later, I am still glad I was able to help educate her the way that I did.
     
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    Its a big turn on for me watching the guy jerk off and I love it when the guy can shoot far.
     
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    Towards the end of previous relationship, she came in my room while I was masturbating. The lights were off so it was dark. She wanted to talk so she stood at the door talking to me while I jerked it. After a while, she asked what was I doing and turned on the light. When she saw I was masturbating she just said oh.

    Simba
     
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    I don't mind doing this for my girlfriend but I always enjoy it more when they masturbate at the same time
     
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    Can i go the other way as well and add watching a guy Jo is super, love it, all them facial & bodily expressions
    well used to get kicks previously,
    cant be bothered now Ha
    especially GREAT if invited to 'finish him off' oooppps tmi
    ah what the hell ha
    enz


    partner built it into our sex life the finish off trick, shoulda laid a charge on him for the countless times i did the deed ha
     
  14. jeff926

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    Yes, I did. A milf, who had sex with me several times, she loved to watch me jack off and walk around the room naked.
     
  15. dolfette

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    the guy i'm lusting on sent me a clip of himself, thinking of me. it was just the hottest thing ever.

    anyone else? meh. cock is cock.
     
  16. T_biscuit

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    I always do this coz girls like looking at my 10inch penis. I also make a lot of cum, almost like a fountain lol. Thats why most girls enjoying watching me work it. Even some of my ex gfs sometimes calls me on msn just to see again as being with a new tiny lover makes them jealosu of me again.
     
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    I once had a girlfriend whose ultimate thrill seemed to be watching me jerkoff. At first I thought it was a way for her to let me get a charge while she remained uninvolved, but she would describe in detail what she looked forward to seeing (she'd obviously had this experience with other guys). She removed any doubt about the honesty of her reaction when she helped me along by smearing some of her vaginal juices on my hard cock. Then she might afterwards tell me how well I did, a real cock critique. O===w
     
  18. B_625girth

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    yrs ago, shortly after getting married, I was stroking, thought the wife was asleep. she wasn't. she popped the light on and watched me for about a minute. then said she would take care of "her" cock and gave me a great hand job. shortly after, she perfected her blow job techinique. she was fascinated how my cock would go from flaccid to hard in a matter of a few seconds. and how large it ultimately got from her blow job talents.
     
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    I purchased a nice vibe for my wife and it showed up yesterday. She just got on the rag a day or so ago so usually for 3-4 days she doesn't want sex or do anything. However I think the new toy excited her. Along with the package they threw in a cheap masterbatory pussy. After our shower last night she asked me if I was gonna show her how I would use my new pussy! Lol. I really wasn't in the mood last night and just said maybe another time. Little while later she came to bed. I asked where her new toy was. To my surprise she pointed to it on top of the night stand. So I grabbed it and started playing with it on her clit. After a while she she said, let me have that, I wanna see you stroke! Lol. So I grabbed the lotion and went to town. She watched very close and it really turned her on. She came really fast. And I wasn't too far behind.
     
  20. SlamminSammy

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    I agree with you 100%. I dated a girl that liked to watch me stroke my cock in front of her before we got going, but that's the extent I've gone. A few women want me to give myself a facial in front of them, but I refuse because I'd rather give it to them if they're there.
     
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